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    Default Cutting out the "middle-man": Incall / Outcall stripping

    Hello all,
    Increasingly, the strip club setting is becoming more and more unsatisfactory for my taste. Getting "private" VIPs don't really feel private anymore. I was wondering if there are SWs out there who do, or would consider doing, Incall and/or Outcall stripping: basically doing the same thing they would do in a club setting, but without the pitfalls of such a setting: greedy club owners, harassment from owners, etc.? Thanks!

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    Default Re: Cutting out the "middle-man": Incall / Outcall stripping

    NO. I personally would not. The club has security. Plus when I'm done making money out of one customer, I'm hopping to the next one.

    You or any man like you, is probably expecting more(which from me is a NO)than just a dance, thinking you're exclusive bc "its a stripper".

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    Default Re: Cutting out the "middle-man": Incall / Outcall stripping

    Do you realize that we've likely heard your offer from other guys countless times? 99% of the guys who want me to come to their homes for "private dances" are just looking for escorting services like blowjobs or sex. There's nothing wrong with wanting sex or sexual activities, but please go to an escort for that. Not all strippers are into escorting.

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    Default Re: Cutting out the "middle-man": Incall / Outcall stripping

    Quote Originally Posted by WendiStarr View Post
    Do you realize that we've likely heard your offer from other guys countless times? 99% of the guys who want me to come to their homes for "private dances" are just looking for escorting services like blowjobs or sex. There's nothing wrong with wanting sex or sexual activities, but please go to an escort for that. Not all strippers are into escorting.
    Putting on my 'Marketing 101 hat', there really is a niche for a 'Stripper / escort' experience, in fact I'm surprised there aren't more ladies offering it in a pretty package.

    "If you accept, you agree to sit on your hands for 30 minutes while the performer dances and teases..." The remainder of the appointment activities per agreed... (Assuming there are experienced strippers among the escort population... Those numbers aren't published in census data, LOL.)
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    Default Re: Cutting out the "middle-man": Incall / Outcall stripping

    So, hire a private party dancer. A sugar baby. An escort. Someone who wants to put up with you in the privacy and unsafe environment that is your home. A stripper is not that person. How clever of you to be the very first man to propose this idea.

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    Default Re: Cutting out the "middle-man": Incall / Outcall stripping

    1) Not clever.
    2) As far as asking escorts: in my neck of the woods, the escorts are not exactly stripper material. Not my type.
    3) Sarcasm wasn't necessary.
    4) Thanks anyway.

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    Default Re: Cutting out the "middle-man": Incall / Outcall stripping

    I've done this before, with a long-term trusted regular. No extras... just exactly what we'd do in the club but with no middle man (one-way contact stripping and conversation / one-way cuddling).

    I was okay with it, but found there to be a quick expiration date on the arrangement. The environment wasn't as "sexy" as the club environment, and after a couple of visits, i could feel that he started to want more. So it felt like it quickly killed a long-term regular who probably would have kept coming to the club and spending if we hadn't set up an external arrangement.

    Just my experience.

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    Default Re: Cutting out the "middle-man": Incall / Outcall stripping

    ^ Exactly. It's hard to duplicate the club environment !

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    Default Re: Cutting out the "middle-man": Incall / Outcall stripping

    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    ^ Exactly. It's hard to duplicate the club environment !
    Yeah, i think i underestimated how much of the "magic" in the stripper/ customer dynamic is due to the sexy environment of the club. Even dive bars usually have some kind of sound system, dimmed lights, a DJ ensuring consistent music, staff to offer drinks, etc. The presence of other customers and dancers add to the ambiance as well.

    Comfortable / relaxed (home environment, private) is not usually conducive to sexy / exciting (club environment, public). Many customers might be surprised to find that a number of the inconveniences of the club actually add to the mood (for example, having security nearby may feel like an inconvenience, but it also adds to the sexual tension of the moment). Discomfort and excitement are usually more compatible than comfort and excitement. See the book Mating in Captivity for more on that theory...

    In short, it's like the difference between getting takeout and eating your meal in the restaurant.

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