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    This is not meant as a put-down, I'm really curious.

    Many dancers complain about their SO having issues with them dancing, but, on the opposite end of that spectrum are the guys that are fine with their GFs or wives dancing, because they are being supported by their GFs or wives, so, they with that money to keep flowing. I can see how a "non-alpha" male with low status and personal economic challenges would be content to have his GF or wife bring home loads of money from dancing. But, I assume this is not the ideal mate for dancers.

    So, my question - are there successful alpha-males out there that are comfortable with their GF or wife stripping for other men, giving other men intimate lap dances, etc.? Who are they? Men in the industry (club owners or managers, male dancers, etc.)? Swingers?
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    Dude I already created a thread like this

    You may want to review these responses and/or add to this discussion

    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...37#post3109337

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    I'm much more interested in the dating lives of high-profile professions. Like, how do you find a long-term, committed relationship when you're a model, a rock star, or a sports figure? I don't know if i could handle being in a relationship with a pop star who has fans throwing themselves at their feet, people ripping them apart on social media, and no limits when it comes to being able to afford any and all vices. Oof! The complications involved make dancing seem like a relatively innocent profession by comparison!

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    First of all... This 'alpha' male stuff is such nonsense. Humans aren't pack animals, ffs. I have yet to see an 'alpha male', or even an 'alpha female' for that matter, that isn't merely an asshole (and using that term as an excuse) or just talking a big game out of insecurity. Let's toss that term aside.

    My spousal unit has no issue with me dancing. I suspect it's partly because he knew me for many years before we got together, including before I was dancing. It's probably partly because he views clubs as nothing more than a giant waste of money and that 95% of the customers are not dating material anyway. (Side note, in miss a.p's thread, y'all talk about how dancers have a lot of issues, boy howdy, have I ever seen just as many customers with drama and issues...)

    I told him when we got together point blank, that I was going to dance and that was that, it wasn't up for discussion. There's never been any real financial incentive to date me as I have never *given* him money. If anything, I cost him a lot of $$ (he really needs to stop asking me if I want anything from the store... )

    You asked what kind of man marries a dancer, so personality-wise... The people who use the Red Pill type terminology would probably call him a beta because he's a genuinely kind human being and because he doesn't care what I do for work. His family is incredibly eccentric, so he's very open-minded. Bit of an 'old soul' who likes to talk philosophy and religion; it's almost like he's transcended caring about petty things like whether someone takes their top off for a living.

    Not even remotely interested in any of the swinger stuff. Not in the industry except for a brief stint DJ-ing (which he said was mind-numbingly boring).

    FWIW, I see a lot more men in the industry who take issue with their gf dancing... We have a waitress/door girl right now who quit dancing because her bartender boyfriend was being a shit about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    I'm much more interested in the dating lives of high-profile professions..... Oof! The complications involved make dancing seem like a relatively innocent profession by comparison!
    Man, I used to think I wanted to be famous. Now I think about what it would be like... Touring around half the year, barely seeing your spouse/family/pets? Getting mobbed at Starbucks or followed and photographed every time you leave the house? If you try to date a regular person, having to worry that they're only in it for your money? Fuck that.

    I'm trying to imagine knowing that there's someone hiding in a bush, waiting to harass me when I go outside. No thanks. I think I'd make it a week as a famous person before going Alec Baldwin on paparazzi.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    First of all... This 'alpha' male stuff is such nonsense. Humans aren't pack animals, ffs. I have yet to see an 'alpha male', or even an 'alpha female' for that matter, that isn't merely an asshole (and using that term as an excuse) or just talking a big game out of insecurity. Let's toss that term aside.

    My spousal unit has no issue with me dancing. I suspect it's partly because he knew me for many years before we got together, including before I was dancing. It's probably partly because he views clubs as nothing more than a giant waste of money and that 95% of the customers are not dating material anyway. (Side note, in miss a.p's thread, y'all talk about how dancers have a lot of issues, boy howdy, have I ever seen just as many customers with drama and issues...)

    I told him when we got together point blank, that I was going to dance and that was that, it wasn't up for discussion. There's never been any real financial incentive to date me as I have never *given* him money. If anything, I cost him a lot of $$ (he really needs to stop asking me if I want anything from the store... )

    You asked what kind of man marries a dancer, so personality-wise... The people who use the Red Pill type terminology would probably call him a beta because he's a genuinely kind human being and because he doesn't care what I do for work. His family is incredibly eccentric, so he's very open-minded. Bit of an 'old soul' who likes to talk philosophy and religion; it's almost like he's transcended caring about petty things like whether someone takes their top off for a living.

    Not even remotely interested in any of the swinger stuff. Not in the industry except for a brief stint DJ-ing (which he said was mind-numbingly boring).

    FWIW, I see a lot more men in the industry who take issue with their gf dancing... We have a waitress/door girl right now who quit dancing because her bartender boyfriend was being a shit about it.
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    To answer your question OP-

    1) Yes. Plenty of men marry strippers.

    2) Some are swingers, some have other motivations for being in a LTR with a stripper. The sex isn't the point of the arrangement, it's the other "ornaments on the tree" that make that kind of romance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    I'm much more interested in the dating lives of high-profile professions. Like, how do you find a long-term, committed relationship when you're a model, a rock star, or a sports figure? I don't know if i could handle being in a relationship with a pop star who has fans throwing themselves at their feet, people ripping them apart on social media, and no limits when it comes to being able to afford any and all vices. Oof! The complications involved make dancing seem like a relatively innocent profession by comparison!
    Agree 100%. I think its unrealistic to expect these people to be faithful to one person, specially, hot actresses/actors that do sex scenes with other actresses/actors. How does a spouse accept that? "Yes honey, we did have actual sex between shoots, but, only because we were rehearsing the scenes and got into character. It's how us actors and actresses prepare for an important scene. We have to do everything possible to get 100% into character. You see how sensual and passionate that scene came out on the big screen? Well, that's only because we both put in so much time rehearsing that scene; yeah, we put in so much effort to get into our characters. At the end of the day, we were exhausted from working so hard!"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    First of all... This 'alpha' male stuff is such nonsense. Humans aren't pack animals, ffs. I have yet to see an 'alpha male', or even an 'alpha female' for that matter, that isn't merely an asshole (and using that term as an excuse) or just talking a big game out of insecurity. Let's toss that term aside.
    Replace 'alpha male' with - doctor, lawyer, business executive, or other assertive high-status/upper-echelon professional earning over $150k.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    Agree 100%. I think its unrealistic to expect these people to be faithful to one person, specially, hot actresses/actors that do sex scenes with other actresses/actors. How does a spouse accept that? "Yes honey, we did have actual sex between shoots, but, only because we were rehearsing the scenes and got into character. It's how us actors and actresses prepare for an important scene. We have to do everything possible to get 100% into character. You see how sensual and passionate that scene came out on the big screen? Well, that's only because we both put in so much time rehearsing that scene; yeah, we put in so much effort to get into our characters. At the end of the day, we were exhausted from working so hard!"
    OP do you work for CDAN? (It's an Internet celeb gossip site.)

    BTW not all actors cheat on people or seek contact with others- there are a few very high profile A list actors who pass on doing certain roles in film or TV because of opposition to sexual content or excessive violence. & Sex scenes take forever to film to simulate actual sex without penetration and mucous membranes touching.....

    A lot of adult industry workers touch customers as much as Nursing Assistants touch patients, but I never see a guy freaking over his girlfriend having given a 90 year old patient a sponge bath.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    Replace 'alpha male' with - doctor, lawyer, business executive, or other assertive high-status/upper-echelon professional earning over $150k.
    *sigh*

    Yes “upper echelon” dudes date AND marry women in adult industry

    Donald trump married Melania and knew she was a nude model
    Kanye west married Kim and new she mass marketed her home made porn
    Offset married Cardi knowing she was a stripper
    Howard Marshall found Anna Nichole at the strip club and married her

    And many other examples

    I will say the key here is usually FORMER adult industry worker

    Also the rich have different rules. When you are Uber rich, your money makes people magically forget your adult industry past/and the stigma that comes along with it.

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    The short answer is men who don't have a problem with the adult industry.

    Women who support their guys ..... gross gross gross. Never. Haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    OP do you work for CDAN? (It's an Internet celeb gossip site.)

    BTW not all actors cheat on people or seek contact with others- there are a few very high profile A list actors who pass on doing certain roles in film or TV because of opposition to sexual content or excessive violence. & Sex scenes take forever to film to simulate actual sex without penetration and mucous membranes touching.....

    A lot of adult industry workers touch customers as much as Nursing Assistants touch patients, but I never see a guy freaking over his girlfriend having given a 90 year old patient a sponge bath.
    Such a great point! I used to be a massage therapist, which involved a high level of professional intimacy (touching nude clients while alone in a room together, etc. ) and i've never had anybody ask me what kind of man would marry a massage therapist.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    This is not meant as a put-down, I'm really curious.

    Many dancers complain about their SO having issues with them dancing, but, on the opposite end of that spectrum are the guys that are fine with their GFs or wives dancing, because they are being supported by their GFs or wives, so, they with that money to keep flowing. I can see how a "non-alpha" male with low status and personal economic challenges would be content to have his GF or wife bring home loads of money from dancing. But, I assume this is not the ideal mate for dancers.

    So, my question - are there successful alpha-males out there that are comfortable with their GF or wife stripping for other men, giving other men intimate lap dances, etc.? Who are they? Men in the industry (club owners or managers, male dancers, etc.)? Swingers?
    People who own their own business or in the finance industry could care less that their wife is or was a stripper. However some men are aware of the stigma and try to protect their wife and himself from negative impact and may bring up her past negatively behind closed doors. Some men in the entertainment industry even brag about their wife occupation stripping.
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    Quote Originally Posted by yaya_cash View Post
    People who own their own business or in the finance industry could care less that their wife is or was a stripper. However some men are aware of the stigma and try to protect their wife and himself from negative impact and may bring up her past negatively behind closed doors. Some men in the entertainment industry even brag about their wife occupation stripping.
    There are funny rumors that some A list actresses had night jobs as Dommes just for fun. Keep in mind that BDSM has been an accepted part of Los Angeles nightlife and subculture for many decades.

    Wife and girlfriend swapping in the entertainment industry is so common as to be a punchline among some groups of actors and musicians. (See- Fleetwood Mac.)

    What kind of guy marries a dancer? A man who is confident he can always get what he wants, or be happy with what he has......

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    Restaurant peeps, especially if they work in fine dining and/or are managers. It’s quite similar in a lot of ways: party atmosphere, they understand about bullshitting and schmoozing the guests to upsell and get bigger tips, and both industries have a social stigma where society as a whole doesn’t acknowledge the skilled labor that goes into being successful. I’ve known several dancers to have successful relationships with restaurant guys myself included.

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    With that said I’m sort of puzzled why someone who has been on this forum for 10 years feels the need to ask a question like this...

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    Quote Originally Posted by lurkingtitties View Post
    With that said I’m sort of puzzled why someone who has been on this forum for 10 years feels the need to ask a question like this...
    I was thinking the same. Like he wants or has thought about marrying a dancer or former dancer but wondering if he is adequate however his question is a projection of how he feels disguised as how dancers “should” feel about themselves

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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    There are funny rumors that some A list actresses had night jobs as Dommes just for fun. Keep in mind that BDSM has been an accepted part of Los Angeles nightlife and subculture for many decades.

    Wife and girlfriend swapping in the entertainment industry is so common as to be a punchline among some groups of actors and musicians. (See- Fleetwood Mac.)

    What kind of guy marries a dancer? A man who is confident he can always get what he wants, or be happy with what he has......
    Exactly.

    These “A listers” “alpha” males have their own skeletons. It’s upper class People out here doing hard drugs (not prescribed), committing white collar crimes, doing a plethora of shady shit and the OP is worried about a legal career as a dancer?

    Hypocrisy!!! Flawed Humans judging other is Just another way for then to take the heat off the fucked up shit they are doing or deflect from their unhappy lives

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    One thing I think is worth adding to the discussion-when I was still dancing I dated some guys with 9-5 professional type jobs, and even when there was a connection it was difficult due to incompatible schedules.

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    I am surprised that you would post this question. It somewhat conflicts with a similar post that you had responded to before. I could've swore in a previous post that you had said that you were a lawyer. Some of those consider themselves alpha male. Wouldn't you know the answer to this yourself? Anyways, it would have to take a man who is confident and secure in his relationship/marriage with the women. I am guessing that it would be a mutually open marriage where both husband and wife are open, upfront, and honest with each other and the sexual activities that they may or may not partake in outside of their marriage. Some dancers are into polygamy but there are some who still take a traditional view and remain monogamous, physically but flirt at work in order to earn. In those cases it is more like an acting job. Act single and flirt at work, but go home and have sex with their husbands. A job is just a title. It does not define who the person is as an individual. People are much more complex than some job title.

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    Apologies for the multiquote - probably no one should have taught me to use it

    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    Man, I used to think I wanted to be famous. Now I think about what it would be like... Touring around half the year, barely seeing your spouse/family/pets? Getting mobbed at Starbucks or followed and photographed every time you leave the house? If you try to date a regular person, having to worry that they're only in it for your money? Fuck that.

    I'm trying to imagine knowing that there's someone hiding in a bush, waiting to harass me when I go outside. No thanks. I think I'd make it a week as a famous person before going Alec Baldwin on paparazzi.
    LOL there are different levels of fame - even some very well known people don't have this issue. May people who do *cultivate* it.

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    Replace 'alpha male' with - doctor, lawyer, business executive, or other assertive high-status/upper-echelon professional earning over $150k.
    150k? I would't use that as the amount. Where is gets dangerous is when you have what I call "people bending money". When you can instantly change a person's life or solve all their problems. Then weird stuff starts to happen. It is interesting at first, but it never gets uncreepy, and it is like being in those zombie/alien movies where your best friend is suddenly one of the aliens and they're now viewing you as a set of possibilities rather than a person. And women who dance will recognize - people get very angry when you turn them down and don't fund whatever it is, and there is no good way to turn them down.

    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    First of all... This 'alpha' male stuff is such nonsense. Humans aren't pack animals, ffs. I have yet to see an 'alpha male', or even an 'alpha female' for that matter, that isn't merely an asshole (and using that term as an excuse) or just talking a big game out of insecurity. Let's toss that term aside
    You see this in the first 5 years someone has money. That mostly goes away. Some people are just like that anyway.


    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    There are funny rumors that some A list actresses had night jobs as Dommes just for fun. Keep in mind that BDSM has been an accepted part of Los Angeles nightlife and subculture for many decades.

    Wife and girlfriend swapping in the entertainment industry is so common as to be a punchline among some groups of actors and musicians. (See- Fleetwood Mac.)

    What kind of guy marries a dancer? A man who is confident he can always get what he wants, or be happy with what he has......
    So many A list actresses, b list, c list, high profile party girls, etc are P4P and no one at that level cares. I'm sure that isn't every case but it is common, at least.

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    One thing I think is worth adding to the discussion-when I was still dancing I dated some guys with 9-5 professional type jobs, and even when there was a connection it was difficult due to incompatible schedules.
    This a lot. So yeah marrying someone is marrying a person. Depends on your goals and whether you do better in life together.
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    So many A list actresses, b list, c list, high profile party girls, etc are P4P and no one at that level cares. I'm sure that isn't every case but it is common, at least.


    I know I'm threadjacking here but it's been an open secret that some young actors were sexually abused on the regular while cultivating careers. Drew Barrymore got passed around like a plate of Peruvian flake at industry parties, and Corey Haim talked about being raped repeatedly (by the time he said something he was so entrenched in addiction that it was easy to discredit his accusations as the delusional ramblings of a longtime drug addict.)

    So as a stripper I had to laugh at some of the things I saw at work- compared to having to shut up about out and out rape and continued abuse, I felt I had it better than most B List actors putting up with people until the next job materialized.

    Anyway, back on topic....Marrying dancers? Sure, but she might insist on a pre-nup!

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    Replace 'alpha male' with - doctor, lawyer, business executive, or other assertive high-status/upper-echelon professional earning over $150k.
    So we are still assigning status/value of a partner based on their income?

    I just posed this question to said spouse and he said even if he made $1 mil/year, he still wouldn't care if I wanted to dance... Would be baffled, as I'm not a fan of 90% of the customers, but still wouldn't argue against it.
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