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    Default When you're mixed race how do you work out like poc fetishes?

    I am triracial that means I'm black-white-native American descent. Basically triracial. I noticed a lot of men that came in my room had a fetish for black women. Sometimes this worked well when I was in a dark room but then they'd always want to see my butt and the gig would be up. Because I'm not built like that. I'm built more like my swedish side I'm bigger up top smaller bottom half. I'm wondering how do you actually make these fetishizers actually benefit you? Rather than losing money because you don't quite fit any stereotype?
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    Default Re: When you're mixed race how do you work out like poc fetishes?

    Quote Originally Posted by RoseleeD25 View Post
    I am triracial that means I'm black-white-native American descent. Basically triracial. I noticed a lot of men that came in my room had a fetish for black women. Sortimes this worked well when I was in a dark room but then they'd always want to see my butt and the gig would be up. Because I'm not built like that. I'm built more like my swedish side I'm bigger up top smaller bottom half. I'm wondering how do you actually make these fetishizers actually benefit you? Rather than losing money because you don't quite fit any stereotype?
    you can't please everyone, you do the best you can and move on to the next.

    I got so many giving slack for how my boobs are much larger than my pictures, and I can't run out and put money up for a photo shoot every time my body changes because of my medication side effects.


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    Quote Originally Posted by minniesoporno View Post
    you can't please everyone, you do the best you can and move on to the next.

    I got so many giving slack for how my boobs are much larger than my pictures, and I can't run out and put money up for a photo shoot every time my body changes because of my medication side effects.


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    Oh yeah but I feel I'm pleasing no one. Kinda why I felt like giving up generally people see me and think I'm Petit or they came because they want to see black women with big butts etc... So no one would really be susceptible to my body and the tilype of female that I am racially. I'm saying physically not mentally.

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    Try posting photos of yourself from all angles (front and back) so guys know what you look like before they bother you That way hopefully you'll only get guys who are interested in you regardless of your booty size.

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    Just advertise yourself as petite and call it an day.Play up your physical strengths in photos and videos. Just know you will never fit into everyone's stereotype of how black women or women of color look. Just try to advertise to guys who like your body and you be okay.

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    I am triracial that means I'm black-white-native American descent. Basically triracial. I noticed a lot of men that came in my room had a fetish for black women. Sometimes this worked well when I was in a dark room but then they'd always want to see my butt and the gig would be up. Because I'm not built like that. I'm built more like my swedish side I'm bigger up top smaller bottom half. I'm wondering how do you actually make these fetishizers actually benefit you? Rather than losing money because you don't quite fit any stereotype?
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    Default Re: When you're mixed race how do you work out like poc fetishes?

    I’m biracial and despite having a large rump, I regularly get more boob guys. I agree with the “post various pictures of yourself at different angles” idea. There’s nothing wrong with being multiracial and not fitting into one specific group. Like I have minimal hips but a big butt and big tits. I push what I do have and they eat it up. Nobody's body is going to make everyone happy. Accentuate your top half more and whatever you specialize in push that.

    Also, some guys dont even like huge butts. When I started camming I was 95lbs and I had waaaaay different customers than I do now at 120lbs. I guess what I’m saying is don’t worry too much and the people who like you will find you.

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    It really irks me that some of these sites don’t have a mixed race category. Not everyone fits neatly into racial categories and stereotypes—in fact, an increasingly large section of society doesn’t. And there are plenty of guys who like mixed girls, no matter what the mixture may consist of.

    I’m triracial too: half white and the rest is a mix of black and some sort of middle eastern (adopted and don’t know exactly what). I put myself in the middle eastern category because I don’t have the ass, the hair, or the speech patterns the guys who like black women expect; only a few people look at me and see a white woman; and because I’ve been mistaken for that so many times irl. I get asked exactly what middle eastern ethnicity I am often, and it bothers me for a few reasons, but honestly most guys don’t really care. Putting up pix of all angles didn’t help me; I still get idiots who expect me to have a “black girl butt.” What seems to help me more is playing up my tits rather than my ass. Perhaps putting something in your room topic like “Where are all the boob lovers at ? ” or “Who wants to play with my beautiful boobs?” or something to play up whatever feature makes you the most money would help. Don’t worry about losing money from the fetishizers; that’s not your niche—it’s up to you to find or carve your own.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Serena113 View Post
    I put myself in the middle eastern category because I don’t have the ass, the hair, or the speech patterns the guys who like black women expect
    If you look at the top 5 or 10 ebony models on sm and listen to them, yeah some play up stereotypes as part of their hustle, but there are a number of us who do not. I don't have the "speech pattern" either and actually it bodes quite well for me. I have a high number of professionals and white collar regulars partially due to this.

    But I do agree, they need a mixed category. If I had a dollar for every time someone asked "what are you?" or called me "exotic" like some kind of tropical fish, I could probably buy a new bmw.
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    Quote Originally Posted by caramelcraze View Post
    If you look at the top 5 or 10 ebony models on sm and listen to them, yeah some play up stereotypes as part of their hustle, but there are a number of us who do not. I don't have the "speech pattern" either and actually it bodes quite well for me. I have a high number of professionals and white collar regulars partially due to this.

    But I do agree, they need a mixed category. If I had a dollar for every time someone asked "what are you?" or called me "exotic" like some kind of tropical fish, I could probably buy a new bmw.
    If that’s what works for you that’s great and I’m glad it’s worked out for you. But if I had a nickel for every time someone online or irl told me I “don’t look/act/sound black” I’d have a new beamer too. It isn’t just the speech, and I’m just as much middle eastern as black, so not being in the ebony category has helped me avoid the fetishists and assorted asshats who seem to have very specific ideas about how I should look and sound and want to argue with me about whether I’m “really black” or “black enough,” or some asinine bs about how I’m racist/dumb for not considering myself 100% black. Quite frankly I’m very sick of these conversations both online and irl and keen to avoid any more. If that means I don’t put myself in the ebony category or identify as black when required to only pick one option on paperwork, etc., then so be it. There are plenty of things I’d rather be doing than trying to justify my existence to someone who insists on putting labels on everyone and cramming them into neat little categories.

    I just stated it here because putting myself in another category that I fit into just as legitimately seems to have drastically cut down on the bs I get about race, and I thought it may help someone else. We all have to find our own niche, and this is mine.

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    i'm mixed brown races lol you can tell i'm not white but could look like any number of latin, european, or asian races however I still get guys that want to do shows like they're worshiping a white woman just because they like me. it may not necessarily mean that you need to be the particular race, but that they want to play out that specific fetish with you because they like YOU! i usually tell them I'm not white and they say they know and/or don't care




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