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    Default I have outed myself to a customer

    So last night I made a big mistake... I don’t know why I did or how stupid was I for doing that and I’ve never done it before... and I hate myself for it today.
    Heres what I did: I let the customer pay me for a bunch of dances via PayPal because he didn’t have cash and ATM was broken at the club. The problem is now he has my full name and with that he can easily find out my address.
    I feel very stupid especially because I thought that the email I was giving him wasn’t registered under my name in PayPal. I thought PayPal just shows your email and not your full f**cking name.
    I don’t know what to do now. I’m very nervous and scared... and amazed at my own stupidity.

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    Default Re: I have outed myself to a customer

    Ok calm down.

    Honestly there's not a problem here unless he reaches out via social media, phone or actually shows up at your place.

    Accidents happen. I've had this sort of thing happen. Life happens.

    IF this customer does something, either threaten to contact the police, or go ahead and do it. A lot of cops LIKE giving creepy men a talking to. I honestly don't see any issues beyond him maybe trying to ask you out.

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    Default Re: I have outed myself to a customer

    Hey, it happens, be more careful next time.

    Try to change your paypal " display " to something that isn't your name .

    You might need another account too if your email is easily googleable. Chances are SLIM this guy will do anything. Did you get a weird vibe ? Think of it like this .... 98-99% of people are just normal ( wouldn't do anything with this info ). Hopefully he is in there so breath and don't freak yourself out.

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    Default Re: I have outed myself to a customer

    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post

    Try to change your paypal " display " to something that isn't your name .
    won't work, you can't create a "fake" paypal account,

    any transaction on paypal, even "gifts" as money transfers will reveal the name and address of both parties,

    that is the way paypal avoids people scamming other people

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    Default Re: I have outed myself to a customer

    next time use cash app. and don't worry, most likely he won't even think to do that.

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    Default Re: I have outed myself to a customer

    Quote Originally Posted by crystalize View Post
    next time use cash app. and don't worry, most likely he won't even think to do that.
    So sad we have to worry about this. as always be aware of your surroundings, but Most likely nothing will happen.

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    Default Re: I have outed myself to a customer

    Quote Originally Posted by tina4u View Post
    won't work, you can't create a "fake" paypal account,

    any transaction on paypal, even "gifts" as money transfers will reveal the name and address of both parties,

    that is the way paypal avoids people scamming other people
    Actually, you can. I have made several accounts and have never used my real name. And when I deposit the money into my account, my fake name shows up on my bank statement!

    However, PayPal will restrict your account and withhold your money, so I strongly advise against using it. I've had 0 issues with Google pay and cash app.

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    Default Re: I have outed myself to a customer

    Chances are you'll be fine. You may of outted yourself to a customer but chances are he has more to lose than you. You also have his info and he probably has a wife!

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