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    Hello all
    I'm new here I joined to see if anyone had some suggestions. I'm not looking to get a gig stripping, I'm too old and no where near in shape for it but I really want to do it once. Just do a couple songs. Does anyone know a club where I can just do it the one time? Amateur nights seem like audition nights for dancers and I can't compete with a fit 20 something.

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    Default Re: Want to try it once

    New and new-to-the-club girls do often use amateur nights as an audition opportunity, but you're not required to treat it as an audition. It's basically the stripper equivalent of open mike night at a normal bar. If the question comes up, just tell whoever is running the show that you're just doing it for a lark rather than trying to land a job.

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    No idea where you live but find a club near where you live or if you're worried about it, look for somewhere an hour away. Amateur nights are for newbies. You don't have to be a good dancer or a hard bodied 18 year old to show up to amateur night. If it's the pole dancing aspect that attracts you, why not take a pole fitness class in your area? There are some places like that that will let you drop in or have an intro to pole dancing just to see if you like it and that way you could get a taste of what it's like, get some practice on the pole, and have a pole instructor show you some moves in a safe, judgment-free environment without creepy guys leering at you(most pole fitness classes are women only).

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    Default Re: Want to try it once

    Thanks for the replies
    I should have mentioned Western area. Nevada, AZ, NM mainly.
    I thought about the class idea, really just looking to get the dancer experience out of my system and having guys there is a part of it.

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    Just dance a night.
    Honestly. Don’t overthink this.

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    Default Re: Want to try it once

    We need to start capitalizing on this-my friend did stripper Sunday school. I should bring it up to my manager.

    To the OP-that’s what amateur night is for. You don’t want to be a stripper for a night unless you like constantly being groped and disrespected. Amateur night is probably the best route. Or camming might be up your alley since they now have cougars
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    I say just do it one night. You obviously are doing this for yourself and not for the money. Guys might like that. Who nows maybe you'll become addicted!

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    Yeah lady, go for it!! That's what amateur night is there for. I mean, yeah, it's also auditions for ladies wanting the job, but for sure also for folks looking to check it out and explore. Report back, I wanna hear how it goes

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    Default Re: Want to try it once

    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    Just dance a night.
    Honestly. Don’t overthink this.
    This is the best advice - dont over think it - just do it. I know I was frightened the first time i danced. When i turned 18 I went to an all nude club - I took a deep breath and went up to the manager. He told me to audition right then and there - and i was hired. Just some advice - keep eye contact with the customers and smile - they will react with tips. Good Luck and let us know how you made out!! Kisss XXXX

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    Default Re: Want to try it once

    Depending on how old and out of shape you actually are (i don't know if you were just being modest / self-deprecating!), you might want to look for some sort of specialty amateur night. Amateur night can be a brutal experience depending on the club. Dudes will always cheer for 18-yr-old hardbodies who trip around on stage and clearly have no idea what they're doing, but it sounds like that's not exactly your situation. I don't want you to have a bad experience or unrealistic expectations about ITC body positivity. This industry is no stranger to brutal honesty, racism, and the like.

    I truly don't want to be a Debbie Downer! I just want to make sure you're prepared for all possibilities.

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