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    I want to know how many older models can relate to my story. As the cam model industry has progressed, I have found that older models serve a great value to their customers. But, I also find that older models are ignored by major camming host sites. I am in the "Granny" category on Steamate. I'm still hot, and I find that many of my fellow "Granny" models are also hot. Why the "Granny" stigma?

    While I receive many great tips and advice from all of the Camming Connection threads. I do not see a Camming Connection forum dedicated to older models. I found myself disabled with a business washed out in the 2014-2015 floods in Oklahoma and Texas. I began camming to keep myself afloat (no pun intended). I still have a great body, but I am not too happy with my nose. Noses spread and sag with age, and that's all there is to that.

    I do not want to go on disability and become a ward of the U.S. government. I have a college education. I am a skilled writer. I am not able to move forward with camming through social media because I may land a great writing gig. Sexy social media pics are out of the question. If I was discovered as a sex worker on a social media site, I could lose regular $$$ writing gigs.

    My background info is that I was taking care of an unappreciative uncle in Oklahoma City until he was admitted into a psych ward at my age of 58 at my request. I had a nice income until the floods came and washed my business into the Canadian River in 2015. I own a cabin on a big lake called Lake Texoma. I had to ignore my cabin until I could move my uncle to a safe place. When I moved back to my cabin, I found that there were absolutely no decent internet service providers in my cabin's location. I had no choice of ISP companies; it was satellite all the way. The only cam site I was able to generate a decent stream with satellite ISP was Chaturbate. I am so very grateful to Chaturbate. I did not charge a premium price. I made it for 3 years without having to go hungry because of Chaturbate, but Chaturbate always made me feel low quality...

    I have always written for many genres, but I never had to make a living at it. So, I began writing for money. That is a slow and demanding process. AND! With satellite internet, I could not guarantee that I could make a deadline. I had no choice but to take low-paying assignments that I could not guarantee, and it did not matter if I missed a deadline. Finally, my area was blessed with cable internet! Wow! What a big difference in all of my opportunities!

    I have been writing for a local web magazine for three years now. That is great and shows my excellent skills. My writing portfolio is awesome, and I am finally seeing a result. But my camming credibility is going very slow. I have been able to secure a few whales who keep me afloat, but I should be able to make $300 a week camming as a part-time contractor.

    I have not been able to afford a web hosting site and a web designer for my writing skills; my free Wix site is not a contender. I am on the brink of being able to write for what I am worth, but I still need that extra camming $. I only need to make $250 a week in camming to advance to my next writing level.

    Can older cam models trade advice through the websites that offer the most traffic for mature women who are still hot or still have the charisma that exceeds their age? I resent that Streamate has put me in their granny category. Is Streamate honing in on all the little boys who want to fuck granny because there was no one who taught them to be a man...I am fortunate that along with the "Granny" label, some older men also want to pay for my shows.

    However, I find that my brain can only handle so much play in the granny camming world.

    Also, I don't find it so lucrative when I have to compete in a ranking category that does not describe what I am about as a sex worker.
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    if the granny category isn't working for you rebrand and change your display age. Do an older milf character. No need to be realistic - this is a 100% online fantasy world. Im an older model and am making more than I ever have so I speak from experience - it can be done. Lots of the front page streamate models are mature.



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    There's nothing wrong with being a granny but like Laurie said, it's the internet. You can be whoever you want. Change your display age and voila...new category .

    I don't view "granny" as a stigma. Everyone will get to this age if they are lucky. I feel proud and privileged to be almost 60


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    OH!!!!! THANK YOU LADIES!!! I am not alone! I do feel that we need a forum for us. Many guys ask me if I am really 54. That is my camming age. I am 61. I do feel that we need a thread that addresses camming at age 50-60 +.

    Are you ladies saying that I can change my camming age on Streamate, and I will be put into the MILF category?

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    I'm on Adultwork but unfortunately they don't take US models anymore. I am thankful that they don't call me a granny...I am old enough to be a grandmother but look nothing like the image "granny" invokes. We do have a place in camming and in clip making too.
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    Hey, Laurie, yeah, I am always on the first page in the Streamate granny category...LOL, there is usually only one page of us...

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    At least there’s not a lot of competition. All that really matters is you’re making money. Rebrand as a milf. Standing out isn’t bad in the porn saturated culture we live in. It’s just a stigma. If there wasn’t the stigma there’d be way more competition. Yes, as men get older they are sexy like brad Pitt, but Angelina Jolie and Jennifer Aniston are seen as past there prime.

    I’m sorry that you’ve gone through all that. I’ve been thinking about camming as a mature dancer. Yes, I totally think there needs to be a thread.

    in a capitalist society all that matters is that there’s a market. You have a niche market so you should do good.

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    I do not think that I could pull off being younger than 54. There is no huge hurdle in the competition factor. It is that I cannot look any younger than a woman in her early 50s. I use a surgical tape facelift and a wrinkle filler under my makeup. I could probably wear a mask because my body looks like I'm in my twenties. Is that what I am relegated to do in order to rank high on any cam site?

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    I do better as 40+ than 50+ on Adultwork, eventhough there are fewer 50+...thankfully we don't have ranking, everyone can bid for placement.
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    II honestly don’t know, but most mature women sell intimacy more than they sell sex. At least I make money because I sell intimacy. I’m a personal trainer so I sell oh in my real life I’m a sexy trainer. If you’re a writer I’d wear something sexy and hide your face with a book or something. I think honestly it is better to embrace your age than try to hide it. Obviously do what makes you feel comfortable. Make up sexy stories and tell them to take you to private if they want to “finish” with you. There’s lots of young girls that want to be filled with cum. But I think you should play up the writer thing. Awful as 50 shades is maybe wear a sexy mask and pose with the book. I’m sorry we have to be afraid of being outed, but I’d play up being a writer.

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    There's a top host on the front row who looks way older than 39 (which is what her age is listed as) but is consistently on the top row. I'm sure she's at least 60. Who cares if you "pull it off" - the money is what matters.

    I'm not convinced you can't do it even with your age listed as 54 but I think it's worth a try putting 40-something to see if it helps.

    Might not even be your age that's holding back your income though. I tweaked a lot of factors to find what works for me.



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    Great insight Laurielegs! But, ROFL, some guy who hated his grandmother commented in my room 3 nights ago, "You UGLY gramma".

    I will change my age to 40 something on Streamate and see what happens.

    Oh, and the money is what I'm after in a very short amount of time. But, I'm not pulling the $ in that I need without running cheap gold shows or sitting online for eight hours.

    What about masks? I could hide my age behind a mask. I have heard that a lot of women who do not want to be discovered by who or what ever wear masks. Wearing a mask could make me look about 25 years old!

    Does a mask add mystery? Or cover up how old I really am?

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    II honestly don’t know, but most mature women sell intimacy more than they sell sex. At least I make money because I sell intimacy. I’m a personal trainer so I sell oh in my real life I’m a sexy trainer. If you’re a writer I’d wear something sexy and hide your face with a book or something. I think honestly it is better to embrace your age than try to hide it. Obviously do what makes you feel comfortable. Make up sexy stories and tell them to take you to private if they want to “finish” with you. There’s lots of young girls that want to be filled with cum. But I think you should play up the writer thing. Awful as 50 shades is maybe wear a sexy mask and pose with the book. I’m sorry we have to be afraid of being outed, but I’d play up being a writer.
    Awesome! I did not see your post until my last post. Great minds think alike...I think you ladies are on to something. I do sell myself as a sexual intellectual right after I ask the guys, "Is your dick hard?". But I am thinking a mask and a book and a younger age may give me an upper hand so to speak.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shanda1836 View Post
    I want to know how many older models can relate to my story. As the cam model industry has progressed, I have found that older models serve a great value to their customers. But, I also find that older models are ignored by major camming host sites. I am in the "Granny" category on Steamate. I'm still hot, and I find that many of my fellow "Granny" models are also hot. Why the "Granny" stigma?

    While I receive many great tips and advice from all of the Camming Connection threads. I do not see a Camming Connection forum dedicated to older models. I found myself disabled with a business washed out in the 2014-2015 floods in Oklahoma and Texas. I began camming to keep myself afloat (no pun intended). I still have a great body, but I am not too happy with my nose. Noses spread and sag with age, and that's all there is to that.

    I do not want to go on disability and become a ward of the U.S. government. I have a college education. I am a skilled writer. I am not able to move forward with camming through social media because I may land a great writing gig. Sexy social media pics are out of the question. If I was discovered as a sex worker on a social media site, I could lose regular $$$ writing gigs.

    My background info is that I was taking care of an unappreciative uncle in Oklahoma City until he was admitted into a psych ward at my age of 58 at my request. I had a nice income until the floods came and washed my business into the Canadian River in 2015. I own a cabin on a big lake called Lake Texoma. I had to ignore my cabin until I could move my uncle to a safe place. When I moved back to my cabin, I found that there were absolutely no decent internet service providers in my cabin's location. I had no choice of ISP companies; it was satellite all the way. The only cam site I was able to generate a decent stream with satellite ISP was Chaturbate. I am so very grateful to Chaturbate. I did not charge a premium price. I made it for 3 years without having to go hungry because of Chaturbate, but Chaturbate always made me feel low quality...

    I have always written for many genres, but I never had to make a living at it. So, I began writing for money. That is a slow and demanding process. AND! With satellite internet, I could not guarantee that I could make a deadline. I had no choice but to take low-paying assignments that I could not guarantee, and it did not matter if I missed a deadline. Finally, my area was blessed with cable internet! Wow! What a big difference in all of my opportunities!

    I have been writing for a local web magazine for three years now. That is great and shows my excellent skills. My writing portfolio is awesome, and I am finally seeing a result. But my camming credibility is going very slow. I have been able to secure a few whales who keep me afloat, but I should be able to make $300 a week camming as a part-time contractor.

    I have not been able to afford a web hosting site and a web designer for my writing skills; my free Wix site is not a contender. I am on the brink of being able to write for what I am worth, but I still need that extra camming $. I only need to make $250 a week in camming to advance to my next writing level.

    Can older cam models trade advice through the websites that offer the most traffic for mature women who are still hot or still have the charisma that exceeds their age? I resent that Streamate has put me in their granny category. Is Streamate honing in on all the little boys who want to fuck granny because there was no one who taught them to be a man...I am fortunate that along with the "Granny" label, some older men also want to pay for my shows.

    However, I find that my brain can only handle so much play in the granny camming world.

    Also, I don't find it so lucrative when I have to compete in a ranking category that does not describe what I am about as a sex worker.
    I don't want anyone to know my real age...haha but I'm older..I mean I just got carded for cigarettes so thats good...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Classy_Katy View Post
    I do better as 40+ than 50+ on Adultwork, eventhough there are fewer 50+...thankfully we don't have ranking, everyone can bid for placement.
    Does AW take US models anymore?

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    Quote Originally Posted by magicgembliss View Post
    Does AW take US models anymore?
    No they don't, I mentioned that further up...
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    Quote Originally Posted by magicgembliss View Post
    I don't want anyone to know my real age...haha but I'm older...I mean I just got carded for cigarettes so thats good...
    I get carded for cigs and beer at Walmart. I would love it if a nightclub or a store carded me. Eh...I think that is stretching it.

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    The word granny is not sexy. Honestly I don’t think mom I’d like to fuck is sexy. I think mature is the sexiest word. Yeah, maybe they get shocked when they see your age, but don’t take it personally. Rebrand yourself see if it helps. Honestly if there were guys paying lots of money for granny stuff I’d definitely go for it. If something isn’t working change it up. The fact you’re making money is good. I remember seeing a young girl saying should could make more money panhandling that’s just the nature of the business it’s like gambling.

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    My esthetician works part time for Hustler. She is the one who writes the descriptions for the videos and is also the receptionist. I asked her what was the most requested category, she told me the top requested video is granny. And she was not telling me to patronize me, I'm not in that category yet.

    I like the book idea IYSA had! Put on some glasses and cover your face and only show your eyes? Sounds intriguing. Maybe you can look into writing for adult gigs and carve a presence for yourself!
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    Quote Originally Posted by JackAlexander View Post
    My esthetician works part time for Hustler. She is the one who writes the descriptions for the videos and is also the receptionist. I asked her what was the most requested category, she told me the top requested video is granny. ANd she was not telling me to patronize me, I not in that category yet.

    I like the book idea IYSA had! Put on some glasses and cover your face and only show your eyes? Sounds intriguing. Maybe you can look into writing for adult gigs and carve a presence for yourself!

    Does anyone know of a good mask store? I wear glasses. Otherwise, I couldn't see what the guys are writing on my chat screen. LOL! I really do think Streamate could come up with a better label than "granny". I did some research when I first started camming, and over 50 was the most requested age in internet porn. I am sure that I could write for adult content. I need to look into that. Thanks, Jack!

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    I started a private group on here a while back called Camgirls Over 40.
    It kinda fizzled out, even though I'm not sure why.
    I would love to bring it back to life, if You, or anyone else are interested.
    I was talking to a friend a couple of weeks ago, who knows that I cam. ( She's a retired call girl who's 72 and broke).
    She asked me if I thought I'd be still camming 10 years from now.
    Asked if I could still deal with men's bs then?
    Hmm. Got me thinking.
    Let me know if you want to join my group.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    I started a private group on here a while back called Camgirls Over 40.
    It kinda fizzled out, even though I'm not sure why.
    I would love to bring it back to life, if You, or anyone else are interested.
    I was talking to a friend a couple of weeks ago, who knows that I cam. ( She's a retired call girl who's 72 and broke).
    She asked me if I thought I'd be still camming 10 years from now.
    Asked if I could still deal with men's bs then?
    Hmm. Got me thinking.
    Let me know if you want to join my group.
    I think your over 40 group is a fantastic idea. But, in the world of business forums, like Stripper Web, and with busy schedules, it is difficult for anyone to devote enough time to an exclusive group within an established forum. I only become involved in Stripper Web forums because I need help. When life is all shiny, I do not devote my time to any online forum. That's just me though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    I started a private group on here a while back called Camgirls Over 40.
    It kinda fizzled out, even though I'm not sure why.
    I would love to bring it back to life, if You, or anyone else are interested.
    I was talking to a friend a couple of weeks ago, who knows that I cam. ( She's a retired call girl who's 72 and broke).
    She asked me if I thought I'd be still camming 10 years from now.
    Asked if I could still deal with men's bs then?
    Hmm. Got me thinking.
    Let me know if you want to join my group.
    I think your over 40 group is a fantastic idea. But, in the world of business forums, like Stripper Web, and with busy schedules, it is difficult for anyone to devote enough time to an exclusive group within an established forum. I only become involved in Stripper Web forums because I need help. When life is all shiny, I do not devote my time to any online forum. That's just me though.

    I have no clue as to how this post was doubled. Please forgive me, and if any moderators see this, can you please delete one of them?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    I started a private group on here a while back called Camgirls Over 40.
    It kinda fizzled out, even though I'm not sure why.
    I would love to bring it back to life, if You, or anyone else are interested.
    I was talking to a friend a couple of weeks ago, who knows that I cam. ( She's a retired call girl who's 72 and broke).
    She asked me if I thought I'd be still camming 10 years from now.
    Asked if I could still deal with men's bs then?
    Hmm. Got me thinking.
    Let me know if you want to join my group.
    I would love to interview your friend and write an article about her. And an article that would flatter not demean. I do not know where I would publish such an article, but I am sure I would find an audience somewhere.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    I started a private group on here a while back called Camgirls Over 40.
    It kinda fizzled out, even though I'm not sure why.
    I would love to bring it back to life, if You, or anyone else are interested.
    I was talking to a friend a couple of weeks ago, who knows that I cam. ( She's a retired call girl who's 72 and broke).
    She asked me if I thought I'd be still camming 10 years from now.
    Asked if I could still deal with men's bs then?
    Hmm. Got me thinking.
    Let me know if you want to join my group.
    me me me! it sounds cool!

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