Hi everyone! I haven't posted in a very long time and haven't danced since 2011. I'm 37 now but I still think I look pretty good. I used to dance for ten years at a topless gentleman's club in Minneapolis and did really well. However I felt pretty burnt out by the time I left and was so sick of the club scene. I am married with a toddler and a preschooler and am at home with them now. I've lost the majority of my pregnancy weight now that I'm done nursing, I'm at 30% body fat currently and my goal is 25%.
I've been considering dancing one night a week and using the money to wipe out my student debt before I apply to graduate school. It would be a dream to just not have that financial, burden before I make such a big commitment.
I guess I'm just scared...my body isn't what it once was in my prime my boobs are bigger now but not perky at all so I'm thinking maybe of trying a nude club that way there would be less emphasis on breasts...and I'm older though still very pretty...I don't think I could compete with the younger girls..., I used to bank when I was younger with middle aged guys of all different ethnicities, as I was a good conversationalists too, but I don't think I want to go back to my old club, upscale gentleman's club, but I don't want to be in as club with young kids either....I guess I'm asking which type of club I should consider trying given what I'm working with...also I am a woman of color (Brazilian mixed, native and white, I look very racially ambiguous) have a very curvy figure with booty, well spoken and mature...I haven't actually considered going back for sure but it is so tempting to use the money for a concrete goal...I don't think my husband will go for it but in case he does I wonder what kind of club would work for my present circumstances



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