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    Default Anyone ever goes sit at a bar alone to pick up a man for a one night?

    What type of bar would you recommend and what time? Would choosing a 5-star hotel bar gives off the wrong impression? Tips please! Guys, how often do you successfully pick up a girl sitting alone at a bar? I want to fuck so bad but I can’t be on Tinder with my professional job anymore, all the junior lawyers are on Tinder if they see me they’re gonna share my profile among themselves... Unless I create a different account without name and face...

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    Default Re: Anyone ever goes sit at a bar alone to pick up a man for a one night?

    Well what kind of guys you trying to meet for this task?

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    Default Re: Anyone ever goes sit at a bar alone to pick up a man for a one night?

    Join Facebook groups that are local. It's the easiest way to vet someone you might want to "date" without putting too much info out there, and you can meet at a bar or coffeeshop...

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    Default Re: Anyone ever goes sit at a bar alone to pick up a man for a one night?

    If you’re trying to be picky then yes go to higher end bars, lounges. Times for this are lunch hour or anytime before 6p

    If you just want an average dude go to a regular bar. Times for this are happy hour, and late night hours

    Yes men will notice and flock to you especially if you are fairly attractive. Times I’ve gone alone I’ve either strategically sat near dudes who appeared open/single and then struck up convo. Or I just sat by myself and after a while people came up to talk to me.

    I prefer the places that have “u shaped” bars so you can see everyone. And bar type seating around the bar. So you don’t have to sit directly at the bar but you can still be seen by people at the bar

    I once had a woman come out of nowhere and offer me some of her dessert. I guess she thought I was lonely since I was solo. She swore up and down she wasn’t a lesbian lol!

    Just be very careful! Watch ya drinks, watch ya uber, watch ya pussy, etc because there will be no shortage of predators looking to take advantage of a female by herself

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    Default Re: Anyone ever goes sit at a bar alone to pick up a man for a one night?

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Well what kind of guys you trying to meet for this task?
    Wealthy single professionals

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    Default Re: Anyone ever goes sit at a bar alone to pick up a man for a one night?

    The bar in an upscale hotel downtown usually has plenty of horny well healed guys. Single, not so many. But, if its just a lay you're after, there's nothing better than a married guy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zofia View Post
    The bar in an upscale hotel downtown usually has plenty of horny well healed guys. Single, not so many. But, if its just a lay you're after, there's nothing better than a married guy.
    lol....see this proves all the old sayings about marriage.

    Also surprisingly libraries and coffeeshops are good places to meet "normal" people.

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    Default Re: Anyone ever goes sit at a bar alone to pick up a man for a one night?

    Quote Originally Posted by xStacey View Post
    What type of bar would you recommend and what time? Would choosing a 5-star hotel bar gives off the wrong impression? Tips please! Guys, how often do you successfully pick up a girl sitting alone at a bar? I want to fuck so bad but I can’t be on Tinder with my professional job anymore, all the junior lawyers are on Tinder if they see me they’re gonna share my profile among themselves... Unless I create a different account without name and face...
    An upscale hotel bar. It works better mid-week because a business traveler has already got started on work, has been in town a couple of days and is more relaxed about the city. Dress in a sexy (not too sexy), classy dress, sexy
    strappy heels, evening makeup. Hair done to accent your face. Sit at a table or if you sit at the bar make sure there's a empty seat next to you in a high visibility area and just order a drink. Attitude and body language is important. You have to act a available. Make eye contact. Stay off your phone. Guys will not approach you if you seem standoffish. Be careful how you let down a guy that you're not interested in. Other guys are watching. If by chance a guy thinks you're an escort have an answer ready for that too. Let us know how it works out.

    BTW, don't use the same hotel twice in a row.

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    Default Re: Anyone ever goes sit at a bar alone to pick up a man for a one night?

    Anyone who is or has been married may be wary of high maintenance appearance.

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    Default Re: Anyone ever goes sit at a bar alone to pick up a man for a one night?

    Instead of looking in bars, have you considered a former classmate?

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    Default Re: Anyone ever goes sit at a bar alone to pick up a man for a one night?

    If they are rough , it IS discrimination. If they insinuate anything just ask them what they are are worried about.
    Don't allow yourself to be bullied . She is looking at this from a personal angle ( not charging ) from what the post seems so she is 100% " allowed ".

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    Default Re: Anyone ever goes sit at a bar alone to pick up a man for a one night?

    If it's just a lay, I'd see where the young cute college guys hang out at. Lol. Muscles and stamina. You can have him whenever you want and cut it off easy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    If they are rough , it IS discrimination. If they insinuate anything just ask them what they are are worried about.
    Don't allow yourself to be bullied . She is looking at this from a personal angle ( not charging ) from what the post seems so she is 100% " allowed ".
    I know, but they are watching for possible trafficking, etc. Never implied anything allowance.
    Just what I've experienced.
    Please don't distort or misunderstand what I said, thanks, & have a great day.
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    Default Re: Anyone ever goes sit at a bar alone to pick up a man for a one night?

    ^ I hope you didn’t take that as a negative. It was just more pointing out that I don’t like this discrimination ( that a woman can’t dine or drink alone without side eye ).

    I have done this as both paid adventures / unpaid FYI OP so yes it’s doable and actually quite easy.
    I think you will probably have success your first night.

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    Default Re: Anyone ever goes sit at a bar alone to pick up a man for a one night?

    Quote Originally Posted by slowpoke View Post
    Instead of looking in bars, have you considered a former classmate?
    I avoid sleeping with men in my field.

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    Default Re: Anyone ever goes sit at a bar alone to pick up a man for a one night?

    Thank you for all the comments! I have a week off in August and among the plans, I made a reservation for one person at an upscale restaurant I’ve always wanted to try but haven’t had the chance yet, was supposed to go with ex bf but we’re no longer together and it’s too upscale for my friends taste... I am tired of dining with my colleagues. I’m gonna make myself extra pretty that day and then head to a bar at a nice hotel, hopefully I meet someone hot at the restaurant or bar :p Will update if successful...

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    Default Re: Anyone ever goes sit at a bar alone to pick up a man for a one night?

    I have done this some since I left my X. The places were just nice bar/rest. They get fairly crowded so there are too many people to be worried about just what one person is doing. They've also been a place for guys that come out of town for business so you know you're not going to see them again.

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