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    Default So... what exactly do I DO in the lap dance room?

    So I'm a baby stripper at kind of an unconventional place because I'm under 21, a twice-a-week private party hosted by a local strip club. So basically no pole, no stage, just wearing a cocktail dress and heels and making money via giving lap dances to finance guys.

    I've gotten pretty good at getting guys in the lap dance room, but once we're there they only get about 2-3 dances on average, as opposed to with other girls who seem to have them in there for hours.


    I see other girls do things like just sitting and talking with them, kissing the guys (it's less sketchy than it sounds because it's a private place), etc, so maybe I should try those things, but I think the main problem is that I just don't... really know what I should be doing lol. Like I look all sexy, take my clothes off slowly, grind, show them different angles, etc, but after that I can only repeat my little routine of sorts so many times and it gets kinda monotonous; I guess that's when they get sick of it.


    So do I need new moves? If so, which ones? Or should I be doing more talking and drinking in the lap dance room and make my way up to dancing? Help me get up to the other girls' levels please!

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    Default Re: So... what exactly do I DO in the lap dance room?

    Kissing strangers is always going to be sketchy

    You don’t know if they have Ebola, active cold sores, cold n flu, halitosis, crusty lips or just finished eating someone’s pussy/sucking dick without freshening up.

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    Default Re: So... what exactly do I DO in the lap dance room?

    honestly this entire situation sounds.... kind of sketchy and unsafe. especially due to the flexible nature of some of the girls, I get that extras or doing more than just dancing isnt everyones thing. Dont let that effect what you are comfortable with. Im not even comfortable with grinding so I almost NEVER do it... probably 9/10 times I never grind in dances what so ever. but thats just me. Anyhow... definitely try selling 15,30,60 minutes blocks of time and let the guys know upfront it will involve more than just dances like your time and conversation etc. ; also another option would be pushing for bigger tips on your dances instead of pushing for more time.
    More money is the goal, so try and see also if you can start getting more tips from guys just for dances too.

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    Default Re: So... what exactly do I DO in the lap dance room?

    Hate to say this but you have to welcome his hands onto your body, give contact(grinding and pressing onto his body, close enough to let him smell your hair and perfume). If he talks, you talk as possible to eat up time. Once the song is over, ask him gently in a sexy way "Do you wanna stay?"

    That's what I've been doing for so long. If I know I can get a dance from a customer who just want one dance, I'll try to two out of him in the lapdance room.

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    Default Re: So... what exactly do I DO in the lap dance room?

    Have you looked at any of the VIP/champagne room threads in Hustle Hut? They aren't just about how to sell them -- there are all kinds of ideas for eating up time.

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    Default Re: So... what exactly do I DO in the lap dance room?

    This is super helpful, thank you!

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    Default Re: So... what exactly do I DO in the lap dance room?

    OP I'm going to assume you really are working private parties and not a writer cribbing info off of a SW forum.


    IF so-

    Do more drinking and talking, and do not kiss on these guys. Private party dancers are only hired to lapdance, serve drinks, talk and sometimes dine with clients.

    The problem with getting more intensive than that is- some of these guys will sexually assault you. Also- private parties tend to have a lot of "ground rules" for conduct because NO ONE hosting a party like that wants negative drama or the police showing up for any reason.

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    Default Re: So... what exactly do I DO in the lap dance room?

    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    OP I'm going to assume you really are working private parties and not a writer cribbing info off of a SW forum.


    IF so-

    Do more drinking and talking, and do not kiss on these guys. Private party dancers are only hired to lapdance, serve drinks, talk and sometimes dine with clients.

    The problem with getting more intensive than that is- some of these guys will sexually assault you. Also- private parties tend to have a lot of "ground rules" for conduct because NO ONE hosting a party like that wants negative drama or the police showing up for any reason.
    Lol, definitely not, sorry if it came off that way! But yeah, you're right, I don't serve drinks but I have realized that kissing isn't a good idea. I've also been avoiding the private room because guys who get it think there are no rules no matter how much we tell them otherwise, and no one is completely sure on how the girls are supposed to be paid and for what, so it always ends in girls getting almost nothing and drama. Not a good look for a clubhouse event!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Femmefatale666 View Post
    Lol, definitely not, sorry if it came off that way! But yeah, you're right, I don't serve drinks but I have realized that kissing isn't a good idea. I've also been avoiding the private room because guys who get it think there are no rules no matter how much we tell them otherwise, and no one is completely sure on how the girls are supposed to be paid and for what, so it always ends in girls getting almost nothing and drama. Not a good look for a clubhouse event!

    Maybe you should look for a place where the rules are less ambiguous. This sounds sketchy as hell. Any club or other setup that's letting or encouraging you to make out with customers, and acting fuzzy on how you're getting paid, you are setting yourself up for trouble working there.

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    Default Re: So... what exactly do I DO in the lap dance room?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jalena View Post
    Maybe you should look for a place where the rules are less ambiguous. This sounds sketchy as hell. Any club or other setup that's letting or encouraging you to make out with customers, and acting fuzzy on how you're getting paid, you are setting yourself up for trouble working there.
    I'm not 21 so I have very few options, but from what I've heard this is the least sketchy place to work in my city by far (the guys have to be paying members of the club that hosts the events, and they're also screened and have their ID's checked). They're also not letting or encouraging anyone to make out with customers; it's clearly against the rules, but I did see a few girls do it and assumed it was more prevalent than it actually is, now that I've been working there for longer I realize it's only one or two girls doing it. And they're super fuzzy on how we get paid in the VIP room, but it's crystal clear how we get paid in the lap dance room. I've had two experiences in the VIP room and they were both sketchy so I'm definitely just going to stick with lap dances. Thank you!

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