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    I was diagnosed with breast cancer two months ago and started chemo treatments soon after. Thanks to the chemo, I'm now bald (yay for not having to shave anything!!). I tried wearing a few wigs but they just make me hot and itchy, so they're not really an option...which means camming bald. My self confidence has taken a massive hit, but I still need the money. I'm willing to fake it until I make it, but I need help/inspiration from my fellow camgirls. How do I "sell" new custies on my bald head? Are there any kinks that I can use to my advantage while I sport my cueball? What do I say to custies when they ask why I'm bald now without dragging them down with my cancer diagnosis?

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    I feel like a little makeup turns a close shave/bald look into the fiercest look out there. Honestly.

    My only response to any "why did you go bald" questions would be "why haven't YOU gone bald?" (insert teasing smile) or some other quip along those lines. "I like daring myself to do shit and this was one of the dares" also works if anyone tries to press. Pretty much any I-said-fuck-it-why-not type of answer should do the trick.

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    Default Re: Camming bald...

    You are in a tough situation, i wish u all the very best there!
    I think going bald on cam will rise questions u dont need, camming is tough as it is, no need to add more pressure unless u look beautiful w.o hair.
    Maybe u can cover ur head with a (sport)hat or wear the muslim cover (dont know the name) or a scarf as part of a costume, maybe a hood?
    A natural hair wig would be the best choice still IMO.
    Take care and good luck!

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    I approach camming like an actress playing a part. I feel my job is to entertain in an erotic manner and while my camming persona has a lot of me in it, it's never completely me. I don't even think you see the real person behind most youtube personalities either.

    Your cancer is none of their business. I agree with Nitababy - do some awesome makeup and own it like you shaved on purpose, definitely can be a fierce attractive look with the right makeup.
    Lots of gorgeous makeup tutorials to suit the bald look on youtube:
    https://www.google.com/search?q=bald...w=1920&bih=975

    You'll be unique, only a few shaved / bald hosts on at a time, may work for you rather than against you.


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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetLilyRaven View Post
    I was diagnosed with breast cancer two months ago and started chemo treatments soon after. Thanks to the chemo, I'm now bald (yay for not having to shave anything!!). I tried wearing a few wigs but they just make me hot and itchy, so they're not really an option...which means camming bald. My self confidence has taken a massive hit, but I still need the money. I'm willing to fake it until I make it, but I need help/inspiration from my fellow camgirls. How do I "sell" new custies on my bald head? Are there any kinks that I can use to my advantage while I sport my cueball? What do I say to custies when they ask why I'm bald now without dragging them down with my cancer diagnosis?

    Any suggestions or help is wildly appreciated!

    E-hugs to you. I honestly don't think you need to try an spin this into a fetish/kink or anything else. As women I think we put so much thought (sometimes too much) into our looks. Most of the time our confidence is attached to our hair, our skin, our body/body parts and over all being attractive and trying to maintain or achieve the beauty standard.

    Not the same but years back I started wearing my natural African american/black hair out as well as more natural looking black hair styles like braids, twists on cam...prior to that I always wore straight haired wigs or weave. I felt very uncomfortable and self conscious on cam because most women even the ladies in the black category wore straight hair styles. I thought guys weren't going to spend and or were going to make rude/racist comments. But guess what guys still ended up spending and I still made my goal. Yes there will be some guys who don't like it and some will even be rude but there are many guys who will still spend. That is the beauty about camming you can dress however, look however as well as create your own niche and there are guys who will still spend.

    I've seen a few woman on cam and off who looked bad ass with bald heads. Generally they make sure their makeup is poppin and wear hoop earrings but I've also seen some who didn't glam out yet they still looked good imo. I think you can def make it work and again I don't think you have to go out of your way to do it. You may not not feel it now but imo its empowering to embrace yourself and to not have to put on a look or change yourself when you know that's not who you are or feel comfortable with.

    I don't wear my hair loose (afro) anymore I decided to loc it because I'm a lazy "bitch" and hated having to do it all the time but I have come to love it and I am no longer uncomfortable on cam anymore due to not conforming to the hair/beauty standard. Even with having locs it took sometime for me to feel comfortable on cam because the american/white beauty standard was so ingrained in my head and its constantly what's presented. Like literally no matter what section of cam you go on women of all races are generally rocking straight long hair or long hair that has a slight curl or wave. Some women love putting on makeup, styling their hair, changing their look, putting on lingerie or an amazing outfit but for me it always felt forced, like a struggle and like work. I don't like spending hours in front of the mirror. For me embracing myself and going against the grain was the best decision I ever made. Going against the grain is going to take some getting use to but imo once you get comfortable its kind of like why didn't I rock this look sooner. IMO you feel a sense of freedom.

    As far as what to tell them you can tell them the truth or you can just tell them you felt like you needed a change, its really up to you.
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    "some guy paid me $1000 to do it *winks* "

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    You will be surprised how many guys are NOT going to question a change of look. And even more surprised how many will like it. As for the rest, stay confident and tell them you wanted a change.
    If you have any tattoos and piercings you can go for an alt look, bald would fit in there. If you don't have what it takes for an alt look then what the other girls said: Make up! With the right make up, you can rock a bald look. Beside, putting a nice make up on will always bring a confidence boost. Bald can be hot. Was Demi Moore hot when bald? Hell yes! Sinead O'Connor? Fuck yes! Even Kovacs , not as beautiful as Demi or the young Sinead but rocks her bald look.

    Good luck!

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    When I was shaving my head low, I never got asked on cam about it. The only reason I Stopped was the annoying disrespectful chatter from the barbershop.

    So if this time in your life right now you are dealing with a lot and are bald only option is to enjoy the journey.

    there are amazing wigs out there. Typically synthetic wigs are itchy and hot. Lace fronts wigs made with human hair typically are not. my local stylist makes wigs and ships globally. https://www.missinchez.com/ you just have to send in your measurements.

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    Blovely brought up something I'd almost forgotten about. This couldn't come close to comparing to what you're going through but I actually understand the "bald struggle". I cut my hair off 7 years ago to 'go natural' and it was so short people thought I went to a barber to do it. The raw, naked feeling is definitely real. And feeling almost immediately invisible to guys and (oddly) more liked/less of a threat to women wasn't doing me any favors. It made me hypersensitive for sure; I could have been wearing a clown suit and over sized shoes but would always feel like people were staring at my bald head.

    Only when I stopped ducking my head down and looked people dead in the eye did I realize that some were intrigued enough to keep looking back. From the post you don't sound like you're drowning in low self esteem or anything. But, like Blovely said, it's really empowering to embrace yourself -before you grab the makeup or earrings.

    And piggybacking off of laurielegs, I've only seen one completely shaved model on SM (and ALL of her pics showed her with hair) so, yeah, take advantage of this in one of the few ways that anyone can.
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    Well, fuck, you're a soldier! You've come a long way & I'm sending positive vibes for the rest of your journey.

    Best thing you can wear is confidence. I'd suggest positive affirmations daily while you do your makeup & get ready to cam. Affirming you are sexy as fuck will draw the right men to yourself. You can totally pull this off with the right attitude. This will be a challenge, sure, but you've already proven you're not going to let things hold you back. Fuck, you certainly haven't let cancer hold you back. Fake it til you make it? Yes! Legit: this has made meeting high goal possible when my anxiety has been out of control.

    Nita mentioned eye contact & I think making it a point to engage with the camera more will show off your beauty & communicate confidence.

    Quote Originally Posted by seicento View Post
    Bald can be hot. Was Demi Moore hot when bald? Hell yes! Sinead O'Connor? Fuck yes! Even Kovacs , not as beautiful as Demi or the young Sinead but rocks her bald look.
    This! I was just browsing a page with models, actresses, & musicians who shaved their heads for one reason or another; they embraced the look. I think, if you own this, like it sounds like you're willing to do...you'll experience success.

    What to say? Good question. I'd go with change (like previously mentioned) & leave it at that. I think that most men will find that assertive & sexy.

    I've worn very short hair, long hair, & half a head of hair. For 5 years now I've only had half a head of hair, & interestingly enough...I've attracted more men to myself than I did with a full head of hair. The difference? I've learned to love myself. My vibe is attractive. Men don't seem to mind half a bald head. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised by the attention you'll get once you've embraced yourself.

    Girl, if you can keep a positive mindset & feel sexy as fuck each time you get on cam...the right men are gonna want to spend their time & money on you. This will take some mental toughness; you've proven you possess this. Work it
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    there is a fetish for shaved hair, i know as i got few clients asking for it. also, what u can do is to tell them u lost a bet with a client and had to shave ur head, its fun and they are more likely to find u exciting. get better soon and i wish u all the best.
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    Everyone had stellar advice. Get well soon.

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    Play up your eyes or lips.. i was scrolling through pins and notice its either dramatic eyes w nude colored lips or BOLD lips with simple mascara or eyelashes

    I shave my head. I went through staring at myself wondering am I pretty? yes, you are. its hard as hell online. its bc we are literally counting minutes.
    I had to play up other things like BOOBS or ass im saying spit shine bald. I had one guy actually pay to watch me shave my head. only once.
    Face fetish is big with bald and pintrest gives great ideas.

    I love being bald. I loved it more before it became popular bc it was different.
    you start loving ppl reactions to your look bc not everyone can pull off a bald head.
    men are funny creatures... it sells more than you think.

    when Im bald on cam everything gets played up
    HIGH heels seductive sexy outfits. I target my lips more than my eyes
    My eyes look better dramatized with long with hair framing my face.
    big earrings, i prefer hoops.
    Pixie Cut short hair ... cant do it. short hair doesnt sell on me. i guess the guys dont like it on me bc I must either gel it down or have little frayed curls bc a simple hair oil doesn't do shit for my hair, dry hair that soaks up oils. my hair is ridiculously dry. sometimes i think Im the one not comfy with the short hair and guys pickup on that causing low sales bc i still sell clips but clips are not live performing. Two different worlds.



    on webcam I wear the wigs that only have the sportsband.
    heres one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vv1SQpzQd9E
    I did cut out the wig combs that attach to hair. Most fit tight and do not need extra security but you can secure it without combs

    my go to wig https://www.samsbeauty.com/synthetic...UaAoqrEALw_wcB
    heres a you tubeer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zgdYoveZks8&t=172s
    Its a half wig but can easily be full wig with bald heads open wefts to breathe and not sweat
    i love this one bc i can start her long and trim as needed. Ive taken her to the bob level
    Curly wigs IMO are the easiest to get away with

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07T336NVK...2s9dHJ1ZQ&th=1 this one is cute

    Fix the itch:
    synthetic wigs are fabric and will itch but easy fix with fabric softener, soak the wig down with watered down fabric softener or the smell will be too much and let it dry over night. wash wigs w laundry detergent by hand.
    this does two things, softens the wig and takes away that wig look



    heres another method a girlfriend of mine used when she had chemo.. she simply glued her wefts to her head.
    she felt like wigs looked fake and she always bothered with them so she did better just glueing her hair on her head
    when her hair was coming back she transitioned into different style extensions until she was comfy again with her hair.

    hair rainbow everyone I know that has gone through chemo has grown out thicker hair and faster than expected

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    How are you doing doll? Are you feeling ok? How is camming going for you?
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