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    Hi everyone

    I’ve been to strip clubs many times and I’ve generally had a good time.
    i had good conversations some of the time which is nice and something
    thats meaningful to me.

    recently I went to a club and had an amazing conversation and connection
    we exchanged phone numbers and text a pretty lot, she even asked me
    to drive her to the airport to pick up a family member.

    im feeling her a lot, and I’d like to see where this goes, but I don’t want to
    look like I’m lame or whatever if she’s not feeling the same and just wanted
    money.
    My question is, how significant is it that we actually met outside of the club?
    Is there a way to ask or find out what she wants or how she sees me without
    out right asking? Thanks

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    Default Re: Meeting outside the club

    Quote Originally Posted by Pjd0930 View Post
    Hi everyone

    I’ve been to strip clubs many times and I’ve generally had a good time.
    i had good conversations some of the time which is nice and something
    thats meaningful to me.

    recently I went to a club and had an amazing conversation and connection
    we exchanged phone numbers and text a pretty lot, she even asked me
    to drive her to the airport to pick up a family member.

    im feeling her a lot, and I’d like to see where this goes, but I don’t want to
    look like I’m lame or whatever if she’s not feeling the same and just wanted
    money.
    My question is, how significant is it that we actually met outside of the club?
    Is there a way to ask or find out what she wants or how she sees me without
    out right asking? Thanks
    Why do we need to analyze this? Just ask her on a date that doesn't involve you serving as a free livery service and see how she responds. You'll have your answer quickly enough without us filling a thread with pointless speculation, which you will no doubt fuel with endless additional information tidbits. I have my own opinion, but I could be wrong. The only person here who has interacted with her in person is you.

    And as far as "feeling lame" is concerned, why? Are you a teenage boy who has to see her in school every day? if she blows you off, then just move on.

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    Default Re: Meeting outside the club

    You're thinking too much into this. It's more likely that she met with you outside the club because she wanted money without having to give a percentage to the manager, dj, house mom, bouncer, valet, and house fees to use the stage.

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    Nothing significant about it. Doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't like you but there's a good chance she just needed the free ride.

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    Default Re: Meeting outside the club

    Probably not at all significant. She needed the favor and/or money. I think some guys see meeting outside the club as some sort of hurdle to get past or some sort of milestone .. But it really doesn't mean much. Especially if you're still paying for her time. (I'm assuming you have)

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