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    Default When to cut the dance short

    I have a lot of anger at myself right now and need to let this out. The other night at work some disgusting dickhead literally leaned over and kissed me on the ass during a VIP dance. This was an older man who I'm sure knew this was not allowed. I told him not to do it again and finished the dance - and looking back I really wish I had told him off and walked out.

    I'm wondering who here has walked out during a dance, what happened and at what point during the dance you decide to cut things short. It seems a little ridiculous to have to kill the mood at the beginning of each dance with a long list of rules, but that's what I've decided to start doing. The fact we actually have to explain that you can't twist our nipples, kiss/lick us or grab our vagina is absolutely absurd.

    Another thing - from now on whenever someone asks me to meet them out of the club and they haven't bought anything, I'm telling a bouncer and having them escorted out. LOL, this will be happening quite a bit I'm sure, since some moron asks that literally every shift. But it's just become obvious to me that so many girls are letting them get away with stuff that they think it's a damn game and they won't face any consequences.

    Anyways, I was just curious at what point you guys end the dance and also any advice on forgiving yourself for not doing so when you should have. Thanks.

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    Default Re: When to cut the dance short

    Oh, lady, I so feel you on this! First off don't be too hard on yourself. A hardwired response in our nervous system is sometimes to freeze up and not know what to do until after the fact. People train for years (think martial arts etc) to re-train that initial response. It takes practice, and lucky for us, the strip club is like boundaries boot camp.

    I had a bad feeling about someone once so collected the $100 for 3 dances up front. Part way into the first dance, he had tried touching where he shouldn't and then was starting to try and pin my arms. I stood up and said "ok we are done here. You are making me uncomfortable". He didn't seem too shocked; at least he knew he was being an ass.

    You will develop more of a radar; I admit I don't get cash upfront from everyone, just the guys who before we even go back for a dance are already trying to touch my arm, waist etc before they have even asked or spent. That way when you walk away you don't have to also negotiate getting payed.

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    Default Re: When to cut the dance short

    Don't be so hard on yourself.. It happens. I've cut more than enough dances short but it hasn't happened recently. It was almost always due to customers trying to lick boobs or Fondle my crotch etc. I ABSOLUTELY HATE this unless I gave them permission to do so.. Or asked them to etc. I refuse to do any of that with a random nasty guy lol. i have a very serious problems with guys who try to grab or twist my nipples as well. I make it known this isn't allowed and if they try to do it, I'll stop early.

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    Default Re: When to cut the dance short

    Quote Originally Posted by Adrienne7 View Post
    Oh, lady, I so feel you on this! First off don't be too hard on yourself. A hardwired response in our nervous system is sometimes to freeze up and not know what to do until after the fact. People train for years (think martial arts etc) to re-train that initial response. It takes practice, and lucky for us, the strip club is like boundaries boot camp.

    I had a bad feeling about someone once so collected the $100 for 3 dances up front. Part way into the first dance, he had tried touching where he shouldn't and then was starting to try and pin my arms. I stood up and said "ok we are done here. You are making me uncomfortable". He didn't seem too shocked; at least he knew he was being an ass.

    You will develop more of a radar; I admit I don't get cash upfront from everyone, just the guys who before we even go back for a dance are already trying to touch my arm, waist etc before they have even asked or spent. That way when you walk away you don't have to also negotiate getting payed.
    Thanks for the reply. Fortunately I was paid upfront for the dance and he did tip me at the end. Still was gross as hell though.

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