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    Default How to politely ask...?

    So my current favorite stripper/sugar baby is moving and I have been keeping my eye out for someone new. Found a dancer that might be a great fit at a Ricks club and I have done a few VIPs with her. Like everything about her except her "dancer personality" is way over the top with her giving my 4-5 compliments in one visit and gushing about how much she misses me. It's too much to the point it feels obviously insincere and fake. Almost like a caricature of a person.

    While I have no doubt that there are guys that love that... I don't. So I come to you stripperweb... What's the best way to ask a stripper to give me less fantasy? Just say can you be less fake? Or would you mind being less of your "dancer self"? Or hey can you please cut back on the compliments?

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    Default Re: How to politely ask...?

    A "personality" that she puts on may be as much her groove and her way to process interaction, as it is done for you. Probably just time, and trust, will allow her to reveal herself and interact with you personally. Maybe not, but it isn't a bad way to spend some time.
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    Default Re: How to politely ask...?

    Don't ask her.

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    Default Re: How to politely ask...?

    ^ +1

    I almost always respond to over-the-top flattery with something like "Aw shucks, thank ya' darlin"" in a fake southern accent with a big grin. If it was REALLY soppy, I'll put the same grin on and tell her something like "That was beautiful - I had a big ol' tear rolling down my eye right here [pointing and maybe with a wink]." Delivery and body language matter too and I can't really communicate those here, but altogether it usually gets the message across in a light-hearted way without making her feel defensive or confronted.

    You might want to think about finding your own unique way of doing the same thing. If you simply complain about it or otherwise confront her, you may throw her off or otherwise make her defensive. IMHO Bahuba is 100% right that this is the way some girls process their interactions, especially newer dancers.

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    ^love Rick's advice. That would be great way to let her know "Okay lol that's a bit thick. But thanks." without hurting feelings.

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    Try directing the topic somewhere else. Not acknowledging her over the top comments a few times will have an effect. Think of it like pet training. Use positive reinforcement to get the desired behavior.

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