Ok I realize the title may be controversial since obviously it is very important to have bouncers at strip clubs. I'm not questioning the importance of having someone step in to throw out dangerous/shitty customers, tell people to put phones away etc. What I'm referring to is the fact that it seems the vast majority of them do NOT do their job, and I'm wondering if it's just me or if other women are noticing this at their clubs as well.
I've been dancing since 2014 and have worked in various cities all across the USA. During that entire time, I've had ONE bouncer come up to a customer who was grabbing my butt on the floor and tell him not to do that unless he was paying. Outside of that, every single time I've had a bouncer do anything at all (which usually still isn't much) it's been because I had to go over and ask him to do something about a misbehaving guy. And I should clarify - I ALWAYS tip out bouncers and tend to tip generously compared to other girls so I know it's not because they think I'm cheap or anything like that. Usually tipping them out well results in them trying to find me spending customers (which I am better at than them anyways) but not so much results in them stepping in when I need them.
It just seems like it's always the dancers who have to tell customers tipping at the stage is mandatory, you can't have your phone out at the stage, you can't grab our vaginas etc....even in clubs with monitored cameras!! I have noticed that bouncers love to correct dancers who are breaking the rules, though. But only a small handful of times have I actually seen a bouncer intervene when he was needed. Hell, I once had a guy BLATANTLY take a picture of my stage set, the club was empty as hell and there's no way the staff did not see. I had to actually walk off stage bare naked and snatch his damn phone since no one else did anything. With how often I see guys using their phones at stage sets (at ALL clubs I've been to) there's no doubt in my mind that dancers are involuntarily recorded on a very regular basis. Which leads me to wonder....why exactly are we tipping these guys again? 9/10 times they don't seem to be doing anything. And when I say 9 out of 10 times, I'd say that's pretty accurate as to how often I see them step in when a customer is breaking the rules with a girl, whether it be me or someone else.
Anyways I just wish there was something we could do, it seems the injustice towards dancers is getting really out of hand and it is not just confined to certain clubs. Universally dancers are disrespected and treated like shit and it makes my blood boil. I'm very curious if other girls have noticed these trends as well or if maybe I am picking weird clubs or what.



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