I’ve been casually dating this guy for a few months and we like to go out to restaurants together. He has a good steady job with great benefits, owns a house, and has been working for the same company for 15 years. I enjoyed his company, we did a lot of fun things together and I brought him out of his shell a lot (he’s more of a stay at home type and I like to go out and have fun). I thought things were going good but today at dinner when we were at a restaurant he pissed me off so much...last time we ate out I paid. He complained that he always pays when we go out and that our relationship feels one sided. I argued that it’s not one sided and that I’m not making that much money right now at my sales job and the money I do make goes towards paying my bills. That should have been the end of it, I should have ended it right there...stupidly, i thought I’d be nice by taking him out for once. I did and it went fine. I assume when he took me out tonight he’d be paying since I paid last time...but no, he thought I would pay and he got pissed at me when I told him no, it’s your turn. I paid last time. He says ‘’I’ve been paying the whole time we’ve been seeing each other, you haven’t paid for shit!’’ I angrily demanded he drive me home and did not say one word to him in the car. I was fuming, if I said one word to him I would have blown up! Tomorrow I’m gonna text him that I don’t want to see him anymore...I’m so f’cking done with cheap guys!!! I will never be with a guy who makes me feel bad about not making that much money. I want to go back to dancing again TBH so I’m not struggling. Has anyone ever had something like this happen, what would you have done? Sorry such a long post, I just need to vent lol



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