Girls, I really need some advice here...
I think I’ve hit a MAJOR burnout: I hate to be touched. Not being touched is out of question. Clubs in my area are all full contact and guys grab you even if you’re not doing dances. Yes, I can tell them not to touch me when we are just talking on the floor and I can walk away, but I can’t prevent them from it. Plus I think every dancer knows the situation where you’re doing a dance and the guy is trying to grab your crotch or wants to lick your nipple and while I don’t let them, it’s still super annoying and tiring to have to fight them off all the time.
Anyway, I used to be ok with it all but now I’m just soooo tired of this. It makes me feel kind of sad, it makes me cringe.
I’m going to look for a job in my field but I know it’s not easy and it’ll take me sometime to find it. When I do, I’ll still need to dance once in a while because my salary starting out won’t be high at all.
So I have to keep dancing for at least another year and I’m just wondering how I can bear with it? Any advice?



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No more grabby men, annoyying greedy micromanaging mngrs demanding a schedule from me * lastly no more bs dressing room drama from catty jealous coworkers.

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