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    Default Who do you decide who to give your number to?

    I’ve never given any kind of contact to a customer until a few weeks when this cute guy my age came in and bought multiple VIPs with me, and I gave my number to him hoping to make him a regular. We’ve texted since and he’s really cool, he’s seeing me this Saturday ))
    BUT... recently I had an AWFUL experience with this. There was this old man who bought a few regular $20 dances and he came back to see me the next night so I figured I would give him mine hoping to score another regular (because I had such a great experience with my Navy guy) and omfg he texted me all that night and the next day saying how he loves me with all his heart and how sexy I am and he kept motherfucking calling. I told him if he called me one more time I am going to block him. He got mad called me a fucking scammer bitch and how could he play with his head like that so I just told him to fuck off and blocked him.
    Basically I would like to know how you guys strategize who to give contact info to and who not to, obviously besides spending money on you. Are there signs you look for to see if he’s going to be crazy or is it just a game of luck?

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    Default Re: Who do you decide who to give your number to?

    Basically, I think when you give a number to a customer because you want him to come back to the club to spend on you again, he, for some reason, believes that you are giving him your number to arrange a meeting outside of the club. I also think men are delusional because they think you want them when you give them your number. Even when you clearly indicate that you are not looking to date or to sleep with a customer. I usually don't give my number to customers.

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    Default Re: Who do you decide who to give your number to?

    My thoughts on this are to give your Twitter account or a mailing list that you update when you're going to be where. For giving out your number set up an account with one of the pay per text sites and only give out that number.

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    Default Re: Who do you decide who to give your number to?

    I think I read on here about only giving out your (text app) number to customers who spend over a certain amount. I used to give my number to anyone but only after they bought a dance. That normally lets them know theyre going to have to spend something.

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    Default Re: Who do you decide who to give your number to?

    I haven't figured this out yet so I'm following and waiting to hear a response. Tried it twice. I've heard about after $x amount of spending that night, he is cream of the crop and who will be more likely to be a regular as opposed to *any* guy who spends money on you.

    When asked, I just told the one guy I don't do OTC but someone else might. This is just a work number for me, but you should always ask girls first and not assume anything, so he did the right thing by asking about what he thought he was going to get from me. Haven't heard from him since then!

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    Default Re: Who do you decide who to give your number to?

    I'm one of the advocates for above X dollars for new 'unknown quantities' - people you've never seen before. My threshold is pretty high, they have to do at least 45 minutes.

    For guys who come into the club often on their own, the amount is a lot smaller, because I've seen them before & know they are probably not going to be annoying.

    I also do not give it to young guys. I know you just had the opposite experience with an older dude being annoying, but in general I think the middle-aged and up guys are more likely to just use it for scheduling & not read into it as meaning you want to date them.
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    Default Re: Who do you decide who to give your number to?

    You all should look into google voice! You can connect it to your cell # but they can't call you or text you to your personal #. You can download the app & it's just like regular texting. You can text and send pictures. I do this for customers that are repeat custies. I've told some straight up that this is how you can contact me but it doesn't work for calling and it's helped because they know when I'm coming in. And since you can send pictures I've done that to show them why they should come see me lol

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    Default Re: Who do you decide who to give your number to?

    First, never ever give your real phone number to a customer.

    It's literally the easiest thing in the world to type your phone number into specific websites (for a mere 20 bucks) and find out your real name, where you live, your social media accounts, who your family and friends are, what your criminal history is, etc **Get a google number, a burner phone, or an app with privacy settings**




    Second, give your number to customers who are making you most of your money. The guy who blew up your phone all night? That guy is pure gold! You want a guy who's obsessed with you. You just handled it wrong. In those cases, ignore him blowing you up. Ignore him completely until he comes in the club next and say "Oh gosh I have been so busy lately, but I'm so happy to see you again Bob! Let's go catch up in the VIP room"

    Be careful how much you text and give attention to customers outside of the club. If you text em too much, then why the heck would he want to talk to you in the VIP room for hundreds of dollars?

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    Simple question, simple answer - I give my phone number to nobody.
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    Default Re: Who do you decide who to give your number to?

    Quote Originally Posted by cutiecam View Post
    First, never ever give your real phone number to a customer.

    It's literally the easiest thing in the world to type your phone number into specific websites (for a mere 20 bucks) and find out your real name, where you live, your social media accounts, who your family and friends are, what your criminal history is, etc **Get a google number, a burner phone, or an app with privacy settings**




    Second, give your number to customers who are making you most of your money. The guy who blew up your phone all night? That guy is pure gold! You want a guy who's obsessed with you. You just handled it wrong. In those cases, ignore him blowing you up. Ignore him completely until he comes in the club next and say "Oh gosh I have been so busy lately, but I'm so happy to see you again Bob! Let's go catch up in the VIP room"

    Be careful how much you text and give attention to customers outside of the club. If you text em too much, then why the heck would he want to talk to you in the VIP room for hundreds of dollars?
    Meh, like I said he was only spending like $40 a night on me and he couldn’t afford vip. I can’t see any money value (that my club offers) worth getting my phone blown up for 24 hours, more if I didn’t end it lol

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    Default Re: Who do you decide who to give your number to?

    Quote Originally Posted by AChildOfBoredom View Post
    Simple question, simple answer - I give my phone number to nobody.
    If you value your privacy NO ONE!!!

    Thanks to dumb ass terr*rists and nosy ass legislators - Big Brother and your curious ass customers will be tracking you if you give your data out

    If you must keep regulars then get a burner phone. And only use the burner phone number for the adult business (nowhere else) and do not connect it to your real name. This number is only for high spenders

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    Default Re: Who do you decide who to give your number to?

    Quote Originally Posted by cutiecam View Post

    It's literally the easiest thing in the world to type your phone number into specific websites (for a mere 20 bucks) and find out your real name, where you live, your social media accounts, who your family and friends are, what your criminal history is, etc

    For even less. I did a background check on a potential sugar daddy once by using just his phone number. The site asked for 20-something bucks and when I pressed the "back" button it tried to stop me with a "Wait! See this report for a $1 7-day trial!" message.

    I saw all his info for $1 and cancelled the trial the second I was done. I'm talking about his addresses, place of business, his wife's name, her social media accounts, his social media accounts, the car she just bought him for his birthday, whether or not they had kids, his last 4 phone numbers. And the names of what I assume were a few relatives. It made me feel creepy.

    So yeah. Never give out your phone number.

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    Default Re: Who do you decide who to give your number to?

    ^ google voice is pretty good

    Seamlessly integrated " fake " number.

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    Default Re: Who do you decide who to give your number to?

    It does say " google voice will connect you " to the caller so if they call they know it's not a real # if they are tech savvy at all.

    I give my google voice number out when the vibe is right.
    If the guys spends easily .... if I WANT to see him again ect.
    I work in rural areas. Keeping in touch with those who might want to see you is pretty essential.
    ( if they are too needy, I just stop communicating and say that I don't know when I'll be at the club next )

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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    ^ google voice is pretty good

    Seamlessly integrated " fake " number.

    Yes! I tell them it's my business number for day job cause I work from home.. which I do but it's not that number. They don't seem to care. And it rings on my phone like a regular number.. and on my macbook.

    If they want to know what I'm doing.... I'm always working. Sorry... Have to come in and buy that bottle and get that hour bucko.

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    Default Re: Who do you decide who to give your number to?

    I give my number to people who spend a good amount of money, purchase a VIP and act respectful. I have to be sure they won't be texting me at 2am or blowing up my phone. I've rarely had this happen and when it did, I blocked them

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    Default Re: Who do you decide who to give your number to?

    No one. If they want to communicate with me, only in the club.

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