Morning everyone,
I think I found myself in a situation, but curious to see what others here have to say.
This past Saturday I was sitting with my ATF, having conversation like we always do. At one point, she looks at me and says "I am shocked after all this time you have never asked for my number". I told her I haven't because I respect our boundaries and her trust in me to talk about all things, even her life OTC. She then tells me that after all the years of dancing and movies that she has ability to read people, and finds me to be rare in that I have a genuine interest in her. Later on while having a dance, she tells me that we should get together OTC for dinner or something fun. I told her that I would love that and would be honored to have a conversation in another setting. Needless to say, I did not push for her number before I left, but instead said I would see her this Friday.
So, I know entertainers need to hustle to make ends meet. Even if you think you know the hustle, some hustle may be sooo good, you don't realize until you have been hustled. In this scenario, she knows I take care of her. I never ask for extras or even to meet up OTC, so are her intentions really to just want to spend time with me?
Our conversations typically range from how her week has been, to helping her plan her next gig after she stops dancing, personal problems we are having, etc...
As for walking out last week without grabbing her number, I wanted to see what would happen if I didn't get it. Would she keep insisting on giving it to me (bad sign), or would she just let it be since she offered once.
Am I just falling for the game and being naive? Or should I pursue this?
thanks all



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