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    I suck at this. I make $60 - $150 a day stripping while other girls make $400+. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong and I can’t really follow the other girls around all day. I am not shy. I meet every customer. I ask for dances. Sometimes I just start dancing. I work in an urban club so the way I talk and act kind of works against me here. I’m thinking of quiting and just driving Uber. No other club will hire me so I can’t try my luck elsewhere.

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    First of all don't be so negative. Negativity and pessimism spreads and customers can smell it off you lol

    So before we can start to narrow down the problem/s can you tell us about what you do when you approach a customer? Do you just ask them to dance off the bat? (rarely works, even in urban club) How long do you spend with every customer before making a sale or moving on?

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    Also, why can't you get hired anywhere else?

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    How long you been dancing? How long @your present club?
    What area you in?

    All these things & more can come into play..

    Also, even 60. daily is better than some regular jobs. It's understandable to want more, & ideally you should in an SC.

    But it would help to answer your ? with more details.
    Thanks.

    Good luck.


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    Default Re: I suck at this...

    Are you choosing quality over quantity. If you are not the “it” girl at your club then quality should be your goal. So, what does quality look like?
    1- knowing your ideal customer and what attracts them to you. This will be your persona
    2- Giving your ideal customer a girlfriend experience by gloating over them every time you see them
    3- Have a conversation about your goals? Men love to fund goals

    There’s other tips I’d be glad to share inbox me

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    I have read your article deeply, the points you mentioned in this article are helpful

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