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    So this whale approached me last weekend, he seemed very sweet and said he was shy and usually doesn't come to "these places." He was pretty heavy on the drinking and encouraged me to do multiple drinks with him as well (he explicitly said he was trying to get me drunk) (I didn't get drunk, though I had quite the buzz). Anyway, both nights he came to the club he dropped around 900 + drinks, he seemed to have an endless supply of money! (my friend said an undercover would never spend that kind of money but I dont think thats accurate). We exchanged numbers (I'm using an app, he's using google voice) and he's been hassling me about meeting otc, which I absolutely dont want to do. I said we can do dinner or something public, he said "discretion is really important to me." And during our dances he would periodically say "Am I convincing you yet?"
    One Sunday he said he really wanted to see me and that that was his only day free for a while, but when I told him I couldnt bc I was hungover, he said he actually had a few more days to spare.
    He said he has a family but guys who do are usually eager to show at least their kids, and he wouldnt even give me his last name (does he think I'm that naive that I'm just going to be alone with someone who's name I dont even know)
    Am I just being paranoid? Its just off-putting and suspicious how he thinks he could just throw money at me and think I'll just say f*** my safety.

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    Default Re: Think Whale is an Undercover or at least has Bad Intentions

    To clarify I have no intentions of ever meeting otc even if he did give me all his info.

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    Default Re: Think Whale is an Undercover or at least has Bad Intentions

    An undercover is never spending 900 dollars lol. And they don't spend multiple nights and time texting to bust one potential prostitute. Or at least I've never heard of anything like that in all these years. And I've never had "family guys" eager to show off their kids to me maybe he has a wife and wants to keep his family separate or just thinks it would be creepy to show his kids to some stripper. I'm not saying you should meet him outside the club im not into that personally because anyone can be a creep but im just saying you can relax if you're worried about him being undercover.

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    Default Re: Think Whale is an Undercover or at least has Bad Intentions

    ^ Yep. A clear mark of an uncercover LE is very little spending and lots of questions.

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    I seriously doubt he is undercover. I have met many guys like this who won't give me their last name and want to me OTC but NOT at a restaurant because they have families. Just keep stringing him along that you may be ready if you get to know him more iTC, etc.

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    I doubt he's an undercover. Undercovers never spend much and they typically ask,"How much for xyz sexual service?", "Is $300(or some other number) for sex good for you?". Their goal is to get you to agree to a price for a sex act that way they can make an arrest for prostitution. It's more likely that this guy is married and has kids. He doesn't want to give his last name because then you might look him up online or on social media and find his personal Facebook where his wife probably is on there as well, along with pictures of his kids, where he works, what city he lives in, relatives, etc. If he's pushing otc activities, it sounds to me that he's looking for an escorting "mistress" type of arrangement. Either tell him that you do not meet otc and if he wants to see you, he'll have to come to the club or you can string him along, making him think that you will meet him otc like arielbriel suggested. You have to be careful with stringing some customers along though because some can become creepy and stalkerish and the more powerful he is/money he has, the wealthy type can easily make your life a living nightmare.

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    Doesn't sound like he is an undercover. Does sound like he is married and wants "no strings attached ".

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    Seems like a dude who spent hella money in the club, slight buyers remorse, now he’s trying to get his “money’s worth” by trying to convince you to fuck him (most likely for free) at some later date.

    I don’t know if he’s an undercover or not.

    But what I do know is never trust any of these people and of course never offer sexual services otc for x amount of money

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    ^ He isn't . No police network has $900 to just burn .

    This is why the cops are always so easy to spot . Minimal spending ( just one drink and a few dollars on stage ) and LOTS of specific questions.

    +1 for the way you should play this is " I'd love to have you back at the club to get to know you better ! ".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adelina View Post
    Doesn't sound like he is an undercover. Does sound like he is married and wants "no strings attached ".
    I agree, what you described smacks of the "I have very little opportunity to play around and I really don't want my wife to find out."

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    I seriously doubt he is undercover. I have met many guys like this who won't give me their last name and want to me OTC but NOT at a restaurant because they have families. Just keep stringing him along that you may be ready if you get to know him more iTC, etc.
    Okay, good to know. Ive never encountered this before so I honestly wasnt sure what to think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Daniellaa View Post
    An undercover is never spending 900 dollars lol. And they don't spend multiple nights and time texting to bust one potential prostitute. Or at least I've never heard of anything like that in all these years. And I've never had "family guys" eager to show off their kids to me maybe he has a wife and wants to keep his family separate or just thinks it would be creepy to show his kids to some stripper. I'm not saying you should meet him outside the club im not into that personally because anyone can be a creep but im just saying you can relax if you're worried about him being undercover.
    Okay, yeah I thought I was prying a bit too much tbh. Thank you for the reassurance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    ^ Yep. A clear mark of an uncercover LE is very little spending and lots of questions.
    Keeping this in mind, thank you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WendiStarr View Post
    I doubt he's an undercover. Undercovers never spend much and they typically ask,"How much for xyz sexual service?", "Is $300(or some other number) for sex good for you?". Their goal is to get you to agree to a price for a sex act that way they can make an arrest for prostitution. It's more likely that this guy is married and has kids. He doesn't want to give his last name because then you might look him up online or on social media and find his personal Facebook where his wife probably is on there as well, along with pictures of his kids, where he works, what city he lives in, relatives, etc. If he's pushing otc activities, it sounds to me that he's looking for an escorting "mistress" type of arrangement. Either tell him that you do not meet otc and if he wants to see you, he'll have to come to the club or you can string him along, making him think that you will meet him otc like arielbriel suggested. You have to be careful with stringing some customers along though because some can become creepy and stalkerish and the more powerful he is/money he has, the wealthy type can easily make your life a living nightmare.
    the bolded is another (Possibly irrational) fear of mine lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Seems like a dude who spent hella money in the club, slight buyers remorse, now he’s trying to get his “money’s worth” by trying to convince you to fuck him (most likely for free) at some later date.

    I don’t know if he’s an undercover or not.

    But what I do know is never trust any of these people and of course never offer sexual services otc for x amount of money
    Right, and Im sure hes looking for a lofty return lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    ^ He isn't . No police network has $900 to just burn .

    This is why the cops are always so easy to spot . Minimal spending ( just one drink and a few dollars on stage ) and LOTS of specific questions.

    +1 for the way you should play this is " I'd love to have you back at the club to get to know you better ! ".
    Ive used this both times hes came to the club, we spent my whole shift together basically. he always rebuttals with "we're getting to know each other now" idk what to say anymore tbh I might just have to cut him loose soon

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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    I agree, what you described smacks of the "I have very little opportunity to play around and I really don't want my wife to find out."
    Good to know, thank you!

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    Right, and Im sure hes looking for a lofty return lol
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    Ive used this both times hes came to the club, we spent my whole shift together basically. he always rebuttals with "we're getting to know each other now" idk what to say anymore tbh I might just have to cut him loose soon
    yeah a lot of guys main goal is to see how many strippers they can fuck.

    Some of them are are willing to spend a bit like this dude but eventually they get tired of spending n not getting pussy = low ROI for them.

    They foolishly think spending a little bit is going to entice you out the club onto their dick

    Classic bait n switch

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    yeah a lot of guys main goal is to see how many strippers they can fuck.

    Some of them are are willing to spend a bit like this dude but eventually they get tired of spending n not getting pussy = low ROI for them.

    They foolishly think spending a little bit is going to entice you out the club onto their dick

    Classic bait n switch
    True, well it was nice while it lasted lol.

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    You’ll find replacements

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    Default Re: Think Whale is an Undercover or at least has Bad Intentions

    Like everyone has mentioned, prob not undercover... but whether or not he is, I'm a firm believer of trusting your gut. If he starts to seem off to you don't be afraid to move on.

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    Keep him. He'll eventually figure out its not happening and move on. Until then, get the money.

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