I go to the strip club about 4-5 times a year. Sometimes with my wife and sometimes with two of my friends. How I choose a stripper to buy lap dances from varies depending on who I'm there with. I've noticed my friends also pick girls for dances for different reasons.

Friend 1 is a stereotypical alpha personality. He basically looks for getting the most he can from a girl sexually and is always looking for whatever dancer he can get extras from.

Friend 2 is a blue collar type. Pretty chill, beer drinking guy. He will only buy a dance if the girl is pretty and if she's sat down and talked for awhile. Almost like he's trying to get a certain amount of time for his dollar.

I usually buy at least one dance from every girl that asks. I guess I'm the sucker in the group. The only time I won't buy one is if her breath is bad or she smells or something. Or if she asks me as soon as I sit down - I need to have like 10 minutes to drink a beer and chill for a minute first. I'll keep spending money if there's a connection with the girl or if she gives a good lap dance. The connection sometimes will happen if she takes time to hang out and talk.

If I'm there with my wife, I spend way less money so I'm much more selective. I become more like Friend 2 and wait for the pretty girl that is cool too.