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    Smiley Has anyone benefitted from abstaining from masturbation/watching porn?

    I've been having a lot of sexual frustration lately and I've been thinking about abstaining from masturbating for a while. I would to discuss other SW's experience on this!

    To elaborate, I'm a full time cam girl. So I masturbate for a living! But 90% of the time I fake it! I fake orgasming, I fake rub my clit, obviously I cant fake penetration, but faking the other things helps me separate work from my real sex life. I love being a cam girl but sexual frustration sucks when it's your job to act horny and help other people orgasm!

    Personally I masturbate and look at porn to get an orgasm daily, sometimes twice a day. (We can abbreviate this term to PMO). Immediately afterward I feel sad and lonely, because I know doing this isn't helping my sex life at all. I want to have sex with my boyfriend more, and lust for him more and I believe PMO is to blame.

    My boyfriend is super hot and amazing! I want to have better, more passionate sex with him! I remember back a year ago when I was having better orgasms during sex so much easier, and now lately I definitely only orgasm from masturbation.

    Not to say masturbating isn't healthy, but i feel like I'm totally addicted!

    I'm going to try to abstain for a whole month, and I'm really nervous about it! I'm worried it will make me even more sexually frustrated. But hopefully it makes me want to initiate sex with my man more and chase that O during sex!

    Please share your thoughts or experiences!

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    Default Re: Has anyone benefitted from abstaining from masturbation/watching porn?

    Oh yea, def quit porn to start.

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    Default Re: Has anyone benefitted from abstaining from masturbation/watching porn?

    If I were you I’d cut back on watching porn and masturbation and do more romantic things with bf

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    Default Re: Has anyone benefitted from abstaining from masturbation/watching porn?

    ^ Yep.

    It's much more common for men to get into porn and neglect their partner ( yeah for flipping the script haha ! ) .

    It honestly sounds like you've got a handle on it. Cut back a touch. I bet after 2-3 days off you'll by dying to pounce on the bf and he will feel the higher enthusiasm energy too.

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    Default Re: Has anyone benefitted from abstaining from masturbation/watching porn?

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    If I were you I’d cut back on watching porn and masturbation and do more romantic things with bf
    Yes totally! My bf has mentioned that he wants to go on more dates and be woo'd by me >.< hahaha. Thank you for your input

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    Default Re: Has anyone benefitted from abstaining from masturbation/watching porn?

    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    ^ Yep.

    It's much more common for men to get into porn and neglect their partner ( yeah for flipping the script haha ! ) .

    It honestly sounds like you've got a handle on it. Cut back a touch. I bet after 2-3 days off you'll by dying to pounce on the bf and he will feel the higher enthusiasm energy too.
    Totally flipping the script! Haha. Thanks for your input!!!

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    Default Re: Has anyone benefitted from abstaining from masturbation/watching porn?

    Actually can’t respond to this since I only had two real boyfriends in my life - but looking back (and going forward) I would focus more on our relationship. There’s nothing in this world like love. Even if it’s temporary love. I pay all my net worth to experience love again. But once it’s over it’s over, and I move on.

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    Default Re: Has anyone benefitted from abstaining from masturbation/watching porn?

    I think this is an informative post and it is very useful and knowledgeable. I really enjoyed reading this post. big fan, thank you!

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    Default Re: Has anyone benefitted from abstaining from masturbation/watching porn?

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    If I were you Id cut back on watching porn and masturbation and do more romantic things with bf
    THIS!

    Sometimes building up a more emotionally intimate relationship with your partner brings back the spark.

    In my own experience, when I feel lonely and/or sad after masturbating to orgasm, it's often because I'm using sexual relief to distract myself instead of trying to fix the true cause of my loneliness. Kind of like eating when I'm sad or drinking when I'm bored,ya know?
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