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    So i have this customer i'm really starting to like. i dated the bad type before and im way pass those ones.

    this guy is
    in his 30's. white.
    he's a doctor and works for the government
    has car and nice apt downtown.
    no kids and not married.
    never cusses around women and swears he will die before hitting a women. he's always calm no matter what. it's weird.

    now the major downfall with him is. he says he's been so hurt in his time "girls just using him really" so he trust people. but when it comes to women if they cheat or try to use him or anything. he just dumps them. he doesn't text them to say come back or anything. he actually showed me where he just dumped one girl and he just hit delete in his phone.
    he's a nice guy type. never cusses or anything. 1000% clean background. not even a traffic ticket. but wondering since he has no drama in his life will i be bored?

    anyway I want to know should i try to hook up with him. I'm really starting to like him but just wonder can he be saved really? ,or is this the wrong guy for me?

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    Sounds like he's looking for a "hit it and quit it" hookup....


    Let him go get on dating apps. It's a waste of your time. Doctors don't have LTRs with people who don't make the same kind of income as they do. It's just a reality of their lives and social habits.

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    This doesn’t sound promising. I wouldn’t try anything to be honest unless he’s pursuing me, and I keep my guard up so I’m not wasting time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    Sounds like he's looking for a "hit it and quit it" hookup....


    Let him go get on dating apps. It's a waste of your time. Doctors don't have LTRs with people who don't make the same kind of income as they do. It's just a reality of their lives and social habits.
    That really depends on the person. I have a friend who was working as a waitress, and she married a doctor. They've probably been married for 15 by now. Most doctors work a lot of hours, so probably most of the people they get to know are people who work in their field, such as nurses and other doctors, so that's probably who a lot of doctors marry, but it doesn't mean they can't fall in love with someone who isn't wealthy or in their field.

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    I wouldn't bother with him at all. He's basically saying he's a cheapskate who has no intention of wining and dining you. If a man doesn't plan on courting you the proper way then you're just a booty call at his disposal.
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    You lost me at “i have this customer”

    ...aside from that doctors (especially the young ones) are notorious for being players

    No you should not hook up with this dude if you looking for long term because you don’t know him. All you know is some bullshit he told you to get your guard down so he could smash quicker.

    If you want a one nighter or friends with benefits then carry on .... with caution

    And in the future try not to get caught up with customers.

    Some of them have been trained in pick up artist tactics and guess where they like to practice .... on unsuspecting strippers who are using the club to look for love in the wrong places vs using the strip club as a means of economic development.

    They come to the club with an agenda = spend least money possible and see which gullible stripper they can quickly fuck

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    And when a guy says “I’ve been hurt before”

    That’s code for “I’m about to act a damn fool on you at any point in time, i won’t have to deal with my past baggage/become a man, and you will rationalize my childish behavior because I told you in the beginning I’ve been hurt before”

    Run girl!

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    And him showing you him “breaking up with a woman”/deleting her from his phone is not only unnecessary and weird but also it’s probably a showcase of how he will do you at some point in the future.

    Run! Don’t walk

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    Quote Originally Posted by eagle2 View Post
    That really depends on the person. I have a friend who was working as a waitress, and she married a doctor. They've probably been married for 15 by now. Most doctors work a lot of hours, so probably most of the people they get to know are people who work in their field, such as nurses and other doctors, so that's probably who a lot of doctors marry, but it doesn't mean they can't fall in love with someone who isn't wealthy or in their field.
    That sounds extremely rare, there’s always the outliers though. Like Britney Spears who hardly dates the rich and famous in my opinion. But most doctors aren’t like that, especially young ones (30 something is young for a doctor).

    He knows he’s a catch (even if he is just a general doctor) cause society puts them on a pedestal, and allegedly he has no children. He’s not going for the dancer (in my opinion), unless you and him are truly soul mates.

    And if you were soul mates this thread would be different, you know when this happens.

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    Girl, No.

    Quote dancer 32:
    he says he's been so hurt in his time "girls just using him really" so he trust people. but when it comes to women if they cheat or try to use him or anything. he just dumps them. he doesn't text them to say come back or anything. he actually showed me where he just dumped one girl and he just hit delete in his phone.

    Yea, like he's unique in being hurt
    A lot of 'em use that shite.


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    Girl, I’ve been in the same boat as you before! Crushing on a customer, and hoping it could turn into something serious...take it from someone who knows, it’s not worth an ounce of your time!! My best advice to you is to make him bust his balls for you at the club. Keep your relationship with him at the club only, because that’s as far as it’s gonna go...and hustle the fuck outta him! His excuses are not your problem, he has wasted your time, now make him
    pay for it $$$ If he won’t, drop him all together

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