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    Again, you're on fucking IGNORE. ggminx quoted you, and that's what i responded to. Ignore me.
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    Default Re: Boyfriend disapointed in me when i dont want to cam?

    Quote Originally Posted by ggminx View Post
    definitely can attest to that! took 3 years post separation to start the process. it isn't easy and it isn't cheap, even in the most amicable of circumstances...glad me and my ex don't have kids. my current partner and his ex have kids...kids are the most difficult part of it all. my heart goes out to you ava and sophie.
    I too was lucky by exiting my first marriage with no kids. But like you I've seen too many examples close-up of how kids are affected to treat it lightly. They are inevitably attached to both parents and almost always come out the back-end wounded and feeling less secure. IMHO when we make the decision to do it anyway, we have to weigh everything and determine that the fallout from divorcing is better than letting the current situation continue or get even worse, which is a big hurdle to clear.

    In the case of Ava, I think that she will eventually clear this hurdle. Useless men bring much harm over many years down upon their families, from poverty to toxic behavioral issues to bad role models for their children. But even knowing this, it's still a huge decision to make. It's understandable if these ladies need to work a process and nobody should tell them different.

    For anyone who responds to this, please don't quote. I don't want a certain male member to once again inaccurately assume that I'm targeting him instead of responding to the broader group. He gets worked up quite easily and it would be a shame for the thread to be derailed by it in case anyone is still interested in the topic.
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    Again, can't read your posts.
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