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    Default Daughter's Male Friend found me on Twitter...HOW?!?!

    I know we've had these threads before but I am seriously baffled. My offspring know what I do but they don't know my work name or email etc. My Twitter is NOT attached to a personal email account. There is NOT a phone number attached to it. I only ever access Twitter on my desktop. I don't use Whatsapp.

    So I do show my face (but not in my profile pic). My Twitter is non-nude/PG13.

    I cannot work out AT ALL how he's found me, even if he spent days looking! Unless of course he was looking for porn and found my site etc, but even then would be a huge coincidence - I am not his usual type!

    Apart from this being a bit of a shock, it's fucking CREEPY that he's clearly gone looking for me. His Twitter was dormant all this year because NO FOOTBALL and all his following/followers are football related and we don't share mutuals. I don't tweet about football, so no way could have seen me pop up as "who to follow". It would be an amazing coincidence that I would show up in his "who to follow" under all these circs.

    Thankfully the nob end DMd me instantly with "Hiiiii lol" and I blocked when I saw who it was.

    Anyone know how he could have found my Twitter? I am tempted to ask him and get it out in the open, cos I don't have anything to hide, I just feel creeped out.
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    Default Re: Daughter's Male Friend found me on Twitter...HOW?!?!

    Twitter has access to your location and recommends you to people in your area

    Quote Originally Posted by CatBBW View Post
    I don't tweet about football, so no way could have seen me pop up as "who to follow". It would be an amazing coincidence that I would show up in his "who to follow" under all these circs.
    That happened to me I don't think they care about what you follow or tweet about

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAdriana View Post
    Twitter has access to your location and recommends you to people in your area



    That happened to me I don't think they care about what you follow or tweet about

    FUCKIT. I don't have location switched on (apart from "UK") and I don't allow location data. My location isn't showing as where I am, according to my AV which is always telling me "YOUR LOCATION IS SHOWING XXXX", usually about 5 miles away, I guess that's close enough though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CatBBW View Post
    FUCKIT. I don't have location switched on (apart from "UK") and I don't allow location data. My location isn't showing as where I am (according to my AV which is always telling me "YOUR LOCATION IS SHOWING XXXX", usually about 5 miles away, I guess that's close enough though.
    Yea I've had my accounts suspended and now I think it's not because of nudity its the fact I try to use VPN and apparently they dont allow you to do that they are so creepy needing to stalk you at all times. I wonder where it's going. The restaurant you go eat at will immediately recommend you to everyone else who's eating there at the time? It's gone too far.

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    I would just ask him how he found me. I think a direct approach is better than the guessing game. Have you thought that maybe one of your kids mentioned it to him? Maybe he went searching afterwards or possibly one of your kids knows more than you think.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    I would just ask him how he found me. I think a direct approach is better than the guessing game. Have you thought that maybe one of your kids mentioned it to him? Maybe he went searching afterwards or possibly one of your kids knows more than you think.
    I think I might ask at some point - although he's just bought a clip now and I know he's drinking with mates so they'll all have seen it (great lockdown, eh).

    My offspring I don't think know more, and they aren't at a "giggle isn't it funny" age. I've just had a few messages from my eldest reassuring me that if this guy tries saying anything she'll put a stop to it. She also said "just carry on doing what you do, don't change anything, take it as a compliment, he's a perv about everything".


    EDITED: it's also opened my eyes as to what level of comfort I am at *people I know* looking at my stuff. This is the first time in 10 years it's happened (as they say, happens to us all eventually!) and I'm surprised at how I'm not as "cool" as I thought I would be. A few minor tweaks will help.
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    You have some amazingly supportive offspring

    If youve taken all safety precautions it could literally be Random. Maybe he went searching through xyz niche and found your profile/tweets.

    Idk. I was just thinking the same as pgd you may just have to figure a way to get him to tell how he found your profile vs. wracking your brain all day n night.

    Also keep brushing up on security/privacy settings on social media cause stuff is changing all the time.

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    I wouldn't mention anything to that person and if he or they bring it up, I would act nonchalant about it and change the subject.
    Nothing can be said that isn't already known and there really isn't anything you are obligated to explain to others that you don't already know.
    If they ask change the subject, but contacting them I think would spread a bigger web than saying nothing at all. Remember..

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    You have some amazingly supportive offspring
    Yeah they're really good I told them what I do about 4/5 years ago and they were really cool, thought it was funny/interesting, and that was about it! I didn't want them to find out - well, like THIS lol - so I told them myself.

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    yeah.. this is why i dont have twitter or snapchat. social media tracks you via cookies , ip address ect.
    plus men just screen shot or pass around snap chats/twitters ect. one of my husband's whatsapp groups about OUR DOG PARK , has members passing around camsoda screenshots and snapchat screengrabs of camgirls on the daily.
    if they only knew what my husband and i really do for work....
    selling snapchat is a huge risk, as well as having twitter/insta ect in my opinion .

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigbum View Post
    yeah.. this is why i dont have twitter or snapchat. social media tracks you via cookies , ip address ect.
    plus men just screen shot or pass around snap chats/twitters ect. one of my husband's whatsapp groups about OUR DOG PARK , has members passing around camsoda screenshots and snapchat screengrabs of camgirls on the daily.
    if they only knew what my husband and i really do for work....
    selling snapchat is a huge risk, as well as having twitter/insta ect in my opinion .
    Yep - I don't have insta or snapchat or anything social apart from Twitter.

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    So I asked him. He said he and mate was drinking and his mate went onto AdultWork. There I was. This guy couldn't believe it was me, so followed the link to my Twitter. Still couldn't believe it was me "cos some of the pics don't look like u do normally" so bought a clip. He said he's not going to blab.
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    One of my daughters guy friends found out what I do to & I have no idea how because he wouldn't say. I denied it but I'm pretty sure he knew I was full of sh*t.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CatBBW View Post
    So I asked him. He said he and mate was drinking and his mate went onto AdultWork. There I was. This guy couldn't believe it was me, so followed the link to my Twitter. Still couldn't believe it was me "cos some of the pics don't look like u do normally" so bought a clip. He said he's not going to blab.
    Random af. I knew it.

    Thatís cool that you could ask him and that he was decent about it.

    I remember a guy posted here claiming he found a cam models real Facebook account and should he let her know. Itís like on one hand you donít want this weird awkwardness so part of you wants to say nothing but in the other hand a lady may want to know how to beef up her online security.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Random af. I knew it.
    Itís like on one hand you donít want this weird awkwardness so part of you wants to say nothing but in the other hand a lady may want to know how to beef up her online security.
    YES! THIS! I've been reviewing all my security and stuff that I have on public display now, literally thinking "if HE found it, would I be comfortable with him seeing it?" so has been a good exercise in security and boundaries.


    If he DOES start getting weird about it, like wanting to chat more about it, I've decided I'm going to treat him like any other customer. Want to take up my time about my work stuff? You can pay me.

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    ^^ OMG this happened with my sisters friend. When I started in porn they were both jail bait and he some how found me and hounded me forever. I just denied everything but as soon as he came of age he got a credit card and drained it on me. Got a job with a paycheck and spent it on me. He is still a huge fan! He is terrible with money and every time he gets some he is back in my cam room spending it all lol. Poor bastard. Every time I go home to see my family he shows up as well and is like a love sick puppy. I just pat his sad little head and send him home.

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