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    Dizzy What would you do????

    Hey ya. So yesterday was one hell of a night. smh.

    My roommate another dancer kicked me out of her house because she says i took one of her clients from her with a private vip dance. he choose me over her for lap dances and vip rooms. idky.

    anyway here is my issue.
    She told me i had to be out by this friday. pack up my stuff and leave.

    so while im dancing today i get a text with a few pictures then a video.

    she sent me pics of like all my stuff n garbage bags. my ps4 switch laptop my hair extenions and all my other stuff even my clothes.
    i reply bitchhhh stop playing. a few hours go by this is the afternoon then i get like a 5min video.

    her sister who works for waste management is loading the bags with my stuff into her trash truck and even my tv. in the video she is laughing and telling her sister to crush everything into pieces. then her sister hits some button on her truck and all my stuff just got crushed with the trash and shes doing over and over then the bitch loads my tv and does the same thing.

    what the hell do i do. can i file charges on this chick. can i sue her. i just lost everything in the world. everything i owned was just trashed because of this chick.
    WHAT DO I DO?

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    SUE!!! Come on, we have to tell you this? She did this shit because you Danced for a guy??? She's NUTS.
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    Default Re: What would you do????

    Report her to the police. The video is evidence.

    Did you have a formal lease?

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    Default Re: What would you do????

    This seems like a rhetorical question

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    Default Re: What would you do????

    Quote Originally Posted by Raziel View Post
    SUE!!! Come on, we have to tell you this? She did this shit because you Danced for a guy??? She's NUTS.
    This is a case for one of those TV judges. They pay for cases like this. You'll get your money that way.

    You could sue in small claims court, but if you won she'd likely not pay you, and the courts don't force payment of the judgements. [that is left to someone like me to resolve, back when I did that kind of work].
    Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.


    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Crossfingers Re: What would you do????

    One of many reasons why having a roommate's a shitty idea.
    Whenever I got the faintest notion things were going bad, I got my stuff & me the fuck out, BEFORE the fact.
    Also, I tend to have @ least 1 storage space, not only for overflow/choice stuff, but to have a backup place to move quickly.

    Anyway, I'd definitely be visiting the cops w/the vid & getting a warrant after her skanky ass, her sis too. AND Sis stole/destroyed property on the job, during work hours??
    Grounds for termination, at the very least. Maybe more.

    As mentioned, a lawsuit to follow. Do you have a regular or someone that can help?.

    Best of luck to you!
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    Default Re: What would you do????

    If you get a judgment, it is up to you to get writs of execution and / or garnishment. They are not issued unless you request and pay for them.

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    Right, that's why it was suggested to go on the TV judge show & to seek legal counsel/consultation. They may not have anything to sue for, anyway. I'd still have them arrested.
    Possible tax write off? Again, a ? for an expert.

    I went thru all this (not exactly the same) when I owned a place & hired an idiot to do some work for me..


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    Going on a TV Judge show is an idiotic move. They don't actually have any legal power. Only a real Courtroom does. No offense whirlerz.
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    Default Re: What would you do????

    They pay them to be on TV though.

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    Sure, but they don't get anything out of it. Neither party does. For that you need to go to a REAL Courtroom. If you want to SOLVE this problem, hit an actual Courtroom.

    Unless you just want to get paid, then go to a TV judge. You won't get anything legal out of it, though. You'll still be in court.
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    Default Re: What would you do????

    Ebony, only you know this girl's situation. If she's sitting on a pile of money or a lot of property then by all means sue her. But if she's living hand to mouth then you'll just be wasting time and money. You can't get blood from a stone. Also, even if she had something to garnish, you'd have to get around state restrictions/exemptions from garnishment and the possibility that she could simply declare bankruptcy.

    There's a reason that most creditors simply write off unsecured debt and sell it to collection firms for pennies on the dollar. They don't want to throw more good money after bad.

    I know that this probably isn't what you want to hear. Our instinct when we are wronged is to hit back and seek justice, but in this case it might do you more harm than good.

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    Default Re: What would you do????

    Were you on the lease?

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    Default Re: What would you do????

    The point being being paid to be on TV would be better than an un-collectible judgment.
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    You can post her up on the She's a Homewrecker site (she literally wrecked your home) .....It is true if she has nothing to take suing her will only give you a symbolic victory but not a monetary one.

    If you didn't have an official lease with her you can also get her in trouble with her landlord.

    Sorry this happened. Good luck in the future.

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    I would go straight to the police station, ask for a detective, show the video, ask for an escort to get any of your remaining possessions, say you don't feel safe need an escort. Make sure they file a report. If her sister's company is legit, they also have some responsibility. Ask the police to get her info, name, contact info, company she works for, etc. THEY have pockets and money to pay you damages. (... and likely fire the sister. - If this really happened.)
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    Default Re: What would you do????

    She was on a frolic and detour and the employer is probably not liable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CFMNH44 View Post
    I would go straight to the police station, ask for a detective, show the video, ask for an escort to get any of your remaining possessions, say you don't feel safe need an escort. Make sure they file a report. If her sister's company is legit, they also have some responsibility. Ask the police to get her info, name, contact info, company she works for, etc. THEY have pockets and money to pay you damages. (... and likely fire the sister. - If this really happened.)
    This. ^ & No, Idk about the TV judge shows... I thought the winner got a paid judgment, & both parties are paid a small fee for appearing on TV.

    One place I lived in, they threatened me to lock me out, (I was already in the process of moving)
    I called the cops told them there were weapons (there were).

    10min later, 3 cops show up in a plain car, bloop! Move completed, it took me a while tho.


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    Yeah, TV Judges don't really have any real power. They're just TV Judges. Toothless.

    You'll probably get a payday, but you won't get justice.
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    Default Re: What would you do????

    How do you define justice? Most people are interested in damages.

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    Damages, in this case = Justice. A TV Judge cannot enforce anything as they aren't real Judges, at least in some cases not anymore (do you really want Jerry Springer deciding your case, he's not a fucking JUDGE). Therefore, no damages.

    Go to a REAL courtroom.
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    Quote Originally Posted by slowpoke View Post
    She was on a frolic and detour and the employer is probably not liable.

    IF there's a company name on the side of the truck, I'd include them in the lawsuit, the police report also.
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    Quote Originally Posted by slowpoke View Post
    If you get a judgment, it is up to you to get writs of execution and / or garnishment. They are not issued unless you request and pay for them.
    I use to do judgement recovery. You have to find the asset. Document it precisely and meticulously. Submit it to the court. Get the lien. Arrange though the constables to get it served. en waits the time period [frequently 30 days but sometimes more], then seize the asset when they don't pay or complete the paperwork for garnishment if you attached their salary.

    It is pain in the bottom for small claims level judgements [frequently $5K of less], even at my pay grade which was 50% of recovery for small claims.
    Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.


    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Golden_Rule View Post
    I use to do judgement recovery. You have to find the asset. Document it precisely and meticulously. Submit it to the court. Get the lien. Arrange though the constables to get it served. en waits the time period [frequently 30 days but sometimes more], then seize the asset when they don't pay or complete the paperwork for garnishment if you attached their salary.

    It is pain in the bottom for small claims level judgements [frequently $5K of less], even at my pay grade which was 50% of recovery for small claims.
    Exactly my point about judgment proof debtors. In my jurisdiction salary can only be garnished (usually by the state) for a debt for child support. We have a whole list of things a creditor can not take. This is why I contend being paid to be on TV is better than paying for a judgement you cant collect.

    https://statutes.capitol.texas.gov/D...xempt+property

    https://statutes.capitol.texas.gov/D...xempt+property

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    sorry responding late my laptop got trashed also when that bitch did everything.

    i am not on the lease and this bitch barely has any dollars to her name.
    csn i sue her for trashing my stuff and having her sister crush it?

    also i looked her sister up on facebook and asked the bitch why she did that she replied with some evil words. exact words from her were
    "Ho. don't steal clients from my sis. ur shit was thrown out and i work for a trash company. sorry bo i thought all ur precious shit was trash. trash gets thrown n my truck and crushed"
    move on hooooo.

    I swear i swear i want to take to bitch to court so badlyyy what are my options? , please help. can i sue her company or something? ,something?????,i lost everything

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