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    I didn't see a thread for this and felt it needed it's own topic. Please feel free to move. Anyone here only domme? I am a switch, but starting to lean more toward that direction, even though in my personal life I prefer to sub. I feel like that is more the direction I am headed, even though I have been a player and model for both roles. I feel so overworked by guys that want submissives and it doesn't feel good really with potentially hundreds of random strangers. I do feel that I may potentially limit my income potential by only doing one which is why I am asking if that is feasible.

    I am sure there are many of you, it's just hard to wrap my indecisive switch mind around doing only one I guess.

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    I am both domme and vanilla, but never submissive. It's best to have a persona of sorts so guys get to know who you are and what you offer, however many people are successful 'chameleons', switching between what they feel like on the day. I'd say make you profiles/marketing etc reflect the way you'd MOST like to be seen, but remain open to switching or just being vanilla on occasion
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    Yeah, maybe I will remove most of the submissive tags and just leave the more vanilla and domme ones that's a thought. I can do all of them, easily and have even in the same scene with different people. It's more do I want to? I'll leave it pretty open for streamate and cams(if I ever go on that site again, seems like anything I had there is over), and everywhere else promote strictly as a domme. Try to transition to domme only.

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    I am both domme and vanilla, but never submissive. It's best to have a persona of sorts so guys get to know who you are and what you offer, however many people are successful 'chameleons', switching between what they feel like on the day. I'd say make you profiles/marketing etc reflect the way you'd MOST like to be seen, but remain open to switching or just being vanilla on occasion

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    Quote Originally Posted by sexysusie View Post
    I am both domme and vanilla, but never submissive. It's best to have a persona of sorts so guys get to know who you are and what you offer, however many people are successful 'chameleons', switching between what they feel like on the day. I'd say make you profiles/marketing etc reflect the way you'd MOST like to be seen, but remain open to switching or just being vanilla on occasion
    That is what I do also. I don't find there is quite enough traffic on sites like Streamate to do 100% domme so I do vanilla and fetish also.

    I don't offer to be submissive because the guys who try to play themselves off as "dominant" are not really. They are usually just demanding assholes that I end up blocking.


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    I do mainly domme with vanilla on SM and i agree with Laurie. I am a switch off cam but the disgusting behavior of "dominant" users made me take it off every profile on every site. Dealing with internet "doms," I wondered if I was even a switch lol

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    Lol, after the last shift I did, I was wondering why I ever subbed either, lol. Especially camming, the guys think you are a machine, and with what subbing entails even with a good dom it's just not something that is going to be fun to share with randoms online.


    Quote Originally Posted by everythingiscake View Post
    I do mainly domme with vanilla on SM and i agree with Laurie. I am a switch off cam but the disgusting behavior of "dominant" users made me take it off every profile on every site. Dealing with internet "doms," I wondered if I was even a switch lol
    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    That is what I do also. I don't find there is quite enough traffic on sites like Streamate to do 100% domme so I do vanilla and fetish also.

    I don't offer to be submissive because the guys who try to play themselves off as "dominant" are not really. They are usually just demanding assholes that I end up blocking.

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    I am 100% non nude domme, I can tell it's not easy to get clients like vanilla, you need a lot of knowdlege and how to approach the generous subs. But my income overall it's higher than when I was a vanilla. It's hit or miss for me, I am still not mastering it and this leads to low income months or high income months, that cover the "miss" ))
    I am still experimenting with it, thinking to do again some vanilla, idk. Still debating ))

    Forgot to add: members have been paying ridiculous amounts to get me naked in the past, so that might be a good rule for me, to set some high rates for topless/ naked/ naked tease show.
    I gave up on it because I was stuck in my head that I must succeed as a non nude domme, cuz other dommes are better than me for being strictly non nude. But that is not gonna pay my bills so... yeah...
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    I had no intention of going non-nude. More just not spending 8 hours with a dildo in one or more of my orifices as some guy who doesn't quite know how women's anatomy works, yells at me to squirt. It's not about me being better than anyone else. It's about me personally trying to do less and get more. I felt really wiped after my last show and haven't really been on much in a few days. I planned time off, but still, if I was scheduled, I still wouldn't be on. And I am planning on doing 8 hour shits, instead of the 5 I was doing, so yeah I really need to not be being worn out. Plus I am older and I plan to be doing this for at least another 5-10 years an I am not sure if i will be able to diddle myself like that when I am a bit older.

    Quote Originally Posted by Cutie101 View Post
    I am 100% non nude domme, I can tell it's not easy to get clients like vanilla, you need a lot of knowdlege and how to approach the generous subs. But my income overall it's higher than when I was a vanilla. It's hit or miss for me, I am still not mastering it and this leads to low income months or high income months, that cover the "miss" ))
    I am still experimenting with it, thinking to do again some vanilla, idk. Still debating ))

    Forgot to add: members have been paying ridiculous amounts to get me naked in the past, so that might be a good rule for me, to set some high rates for topless/ naked/ naked tease show.
    I gave up on it because I was stuck in my head that I must succeed as a non nude domme, cuz other dommes are better than me for being strictly non nude. But that is not gonna pay my bills so... yeah...

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