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    OK ladies, so I am so lost when it comes to dominating these fools LOL
    What are some lines you guys have during cam calls or phone calls that would help me along with this particular fetish? I'm so much better as a sub than a domme it seems.
    We have an SPH lines thread so I thought we def need a Domme thread as well.
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    Ok so my experience is limited so take it with a grain of salt but here is what I learned from my sub.....

    I had a financial submissive who liked small penis humiliation but also like the rush of having a ‘dominant’ woman order him around financially.

    Certain humiliation/domination words N phrases triggered him erotically. Like telling him how much of a loser he was. Laughing at him while he described his dick. Asking him how much he loved handing over the money he earned that day.

    He also liked a bit of variety and used different financial domination tactics. One of my favorites was ignoring him while he continued to pay me.

    Even though he claimed not to have a limit - i knew his limit based on what he spent each time. It’s best to know how far to take it without causing harm.

    I also studied other dommes

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Ok so my experience is limited so take it with a grain of salt but here is what I learned from my sub.....

    I had a financial submissive who liked small penis humiliation but also like the rush of having a ‘dominant’ woman order him around financially.

    Certain humiliation/domination words N phrases triggered him erotically. Like telling him how much of a loser he was. Laughing at him while he described his dick. Asking him how much he loved handing over the money he earned that day.

    He also liked a bit of variety and used different financial domination tactics. One of my favorites was ignoring him while he continued to pay me.

    Even though he claimed not to have a limit - i knew his limit based on what he spent each time. It’s best to know how far to take it without causing harm.

    I also studied other dommes
    Thanks for actually responding to this Im assuming other folks are afraid I'm gonna "steal" their lines or something when all I wanted was a little help. I know someone else can jump in & give examples.
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    ^yep

    The game is to be sold not told although a little bit of info here wouldn’t hurt.

    But you’ll get there if you study and learn and keep at if it’s something you get really good at n enjoy

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    Quote Originally Posted by xxxGothBarbie View Post
    Thanks for actually responding to this Im assuming other folks are afraid I'm gonna "steal" their lines or something when all I wanted was a little help. I know someone else can jump in & give examples.
    Actually not, girls are super helpful here, but not everyone sees the topic right when you put it up. I just literally saw it... now.
    I'll come up later with some of my humble knowdlege about this.
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    Sexually I am am submissive in many ways but I am naturally a bratty dominant person. Whenever I read sph or domme “lines” they all would sound ridiculous coming out of my mouth, given who I am and also my persona.

    When I am in a domme show I usually bring it back to their toxic masculinity and how their obsessions with their dick and other guys dicks have made it so that giving me all the money and attention is the only relief. Keep in mind by doing it this way I usually end up doing a toy show. If you want to keep it non nude or less physical effort then you need to focus On a whole storyline/persona

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cutie101 View Post
    Actually not, girls are super helpful here, but not everyone sees the topic right when you put it up. I just literally saw it... now.
    I'll come up later with some of my humble knowdlege about this.
    Thanks maybe I need to reword the title then haha
    Its mostly for phone sex , I literally stop & go braindead when they ask me to be dominant. Im a naturally bratty person too irl but its kinda tricky when im put on the spot .
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    I'm struggling with that too. It sounds so stupid and fake when coming out of my mouth.
    When I'm watching other dommes talk it sounds so easy, but when I have to do it it's... weird and stupid as fuck. And in reality I do have a domm personality. Idk... Maybe we need to practice more.

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    Tell the truth :

    " Honestly I am not sure you are even worth my time "

    " How are you going to SERVE me v.s. bore me ? "

    " Can you lick a pussy really good or will I be wasting my effort on you ? "

    I'll come and add more .

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    My first ever and ever thing is to ask them what their fetish is:
    - What are you into
    - What's your fetish
    - What makes you weak and unable to control yourself

    I make them tell me details:
    - How do you dream to serve me if you were here
    - When you are thinking about me, what are your submissive triggers?
    - What kind of outfit/ what colors are making you crawl on the floor in desperation

    After I take note on everything they like (most of them are into more fetishes than one), I take each fetish and start pulling lines.
    Example:
    - If he's a cuckold, I ask him if he's married or he's jerking off thinking at his ex being fucked by a big cock. And i develop an entire fantasy from there, based on his answer. I do help myself with his words. They usually start developing their fantasy and I do repeat what they say and add some extra to make the story go on, telling them how worthless they are and what an useless dick they have, if their woman is chasing cocks, that they have no manhood since they are cleaning their wive's pussy off other man's seed and stuff like that ))

    The key is to make them talk and tell their fantasies and what they are dreaming about. Work with that.
    And also take some notes and write the lines as they come up in your head, or after the session, in a word document. They will help when you're out of ideas.

    If he's just like: "be dominant", go back to the begining and ask questions about how he does imagine you dominating him.
    In this case, many guys are just vanillas, they have no idea on fetishes, so you can simply describe a sex scene where you are the leader (you tie him, fuck him, make him beg to get a bj, how you put your pussy on his face, etc). This is what they are usually into.

    But the most important point is to ask questions all the time, even if it's during the session and he already responded, keep making him talk, to tell everything what he has in mind. It will help you get creative.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yvonne. View Post
    I'm struggling with that too. It sounds so stupid and fake when coming out of my mouth.
    When I'm watching other dommes talk it sounds so easy, but when I have to do it it's... weird and stupid as fuck. And in reality I do have a domm personality. Idk... Maybe we need to practice more.
    Actually no. They are looking for natural dommes. I am very polite and elegant with my subs, I do not approach them with a theatrical act, to exxagerate the domme thing, unless I feel like it. Just be natural, they will feel your dominant side, even if it's a casual conversation. Of course, not all the subs will pick that up, cuz most of them are wannabe, but you don't have to feel like a parrot either, trying to entertain them. Fuck that, be yourself and add some spicy lines when you feel like it. And just let them do the talk and tell about their fantasy, so you have an easy job building something from there.
    You don't have to be like other dommes. I gave up trying that a long time ago, now i am just being myself, of course, inserting the classic domme lines...
    I thought I sound stupid at first too, but when i did let everything come naturally, it was easier.
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    I find that there are a lot of different things guys want when they say they want domination and the key is to find what exactly they are into. Some want humiliation, some hate that so I begin by asking questions to find what turns them on, what their limits are. Sometimes I have them tell me about what their fantasy domination session would be in a few words and then just run with it.


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    ^ These are brilliant replies
    I mostly do ask them questions & I've had some hang up on me bc I wasn't a dmme bitch from the start. I've made a few notes from regs that have called me in the past etc with great results. The cuck thing is super easy for me thankfully. They mostly do the talking & I'll say things like "Oh yea you are nowhere near as good as the guy she (their ex) or wife is fucking right now as we speak" blah blah & they love that.

    I sometimes just literally have a total brain fart & forget what to say in the first part of the call LOL
    I def need to put notes up with lines above me so I can just look up & read them off at random. I know it def takes some time & practice to master it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cutie101 View Post
    My first ever and ever thing is to ask them what their fetish is:
    - What are you into
    - What's your fetish
    - What makes you weak and unable to control yourself

    I make them tell me details:
    - How do you dream to serve me if you were here
    - When you are thinking about me, what are your submissive triggers?
    - What kind of outfit/ what colors are making you crawl on the floor in desperation

    After I take note on everything they like (most of them are into more fetishes than one), I take each fetish and start pulling lines.
    Example:
    - If he's a cuckold, I ask him if he's married or he's jerking off thinking at his ex being fucked by a big cock. And i develop an entire fantasy from there, based on his answer. I do help myself with his words. They usually start developing their fantasy and I do repeat what they say and add some extra to make the story go on, telling them how worthless they are and what an useless dick they have, if their woman is chasing cocks, that they have no manhood since they are cleaning their wive's pussy off other man's seed and stuff like that ))

    The key is to make them talk and tell their fantasies and what they are dreaming about. Work with that.
    And also take some notes and write the lines as they come up in your head, or after the session, in a word document. They will help when you're out of ideas.

    If he's just like: "be dominant", go back to the begining and ask questions about how he does imagine you dominating him.
    In this case, many guys are just vanillas, they have no idea on fetishes, so you can simply describe a sex scene where you are the leader (you tie him, fuck him, make him beg to get a bj, how you put your pussy on his face, etc). This is what they are usually into.

    But the most important point is to ask questions all the time, even if it's during the session and he already responded, keep making him talk, to tell everything what he has in mind. It will help you get creative.
    I'm gonna make notes of this <3 Thank you
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    i LOVE this thread! i recently switched from a vanilla persona to a femdom one, but i am also not naturally dominant. oh my god, it is SUCH a learning process, hahaha. i also do what cutie101 does, at the beginning i say "what humiliates you more than anything" or "tell me about your kinks so i know how best you can serve me" or something. basically i go line by line in say like a story about where i tie them up and let other dudes fuck them or something, and what i try to do is talk really slow and kinda pause in between sentences, which gives them some space to respond to what you're saying, and you can gauge if they're into it or if you need to take it in a different direction. as for specific lines i'm not convinced i have a ton of good ones but it seems that a LOT of guys really like it when you talk about how much they don't deserve you, how they could never fuck you because you're so perfect, etc etc. and can kinda tie that in to whatever they're talking about - you don't deserve me cause you have a small dick, you don't deserve me and that's why i can drain you/cuck you/etc etc.

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    i just wanna thank everyone in this thread. i've discovered i have a knack for domination and roasting dudes but never know what to say. so yeah, many many thanks.

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    I’ve been doing FemDom phone sex for the last 10+ years so I’ll throw in my 2 cents:

    Instead of attempting a persona that feels uncomfortable and isn’t naturally you, lean into your existing interests. If you are more of a sub naturally, then be the best damn sub you can be. Even over the phone, it’s painfully obvious to clients who is a Domme and who is a sub pretending to be one. Men can smell fake, even if they seem stupid. There is still a market for sub girls out there and it seems to be shrinking because a lot of women think FemDom is more popular or “easier” (lol). Just be you and play characters that feel natural.

    If they ask for it anyway despite your listings being about you as a sub, first politely tell them that you aren’t dominant. If they persist, ramp up and tell them to fuck off or pay you more. They might actually like that.

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