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    Default Private Dances: Do you dance better for “cute” customers?

    I don’t know if it’s just because I’m new to dancing (4 months) or if it’s just normal but I feel like I don’t perform as well for gross or old customers, especially if they smell bad. Money is money though so I want to dance the same I guess ... but right now it’s hard because I’m literally grossed out by some of them even if they aren’t grabby

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    Default Re: Private Dances: Do you dance better for “cute” customers?

    Quote Originally Posted by SofiBright View Post
    I don’t know if it’s just because I’m new to dancing (4 months) or if it’s just normal but I feel like I don’t perform as well for gross or old customers, especially if they smell bad. Money is money though so I want to dance the same I guess ... but right now it’s hard because I’m literally grossed out by some of them even if they aren’t grabby
    I am also new to it as well. Just started a little over a month ago. I actually agree with you to an extent. My friend who got me into it told me to view it as a “business.” As weird as that sounds, it helps when I do the private dances for the older men that don’t smell that great. I made a vow to myself to disassociate my personal feelings from my work. In my short time, I have had a number of really attractive young hot men I have danced for too. Either way, I see it as a customer is a customer.

    Also, one of these gentlemen I danced for who was a rather ugly looking guy and older turned out to be an excellent tipper too!

    Some of the men who are unattractive, old, and don’t smell that great are definitely ones I don’t look forward to either, but at the end of the day I just tell myself: “I’m providing a service.”

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    Default Re: Private Dances: Do you dance better for “cute” customers?

    The uglier they are, the better they pay. This is a business not prom. Now, smelly guys I dont dance for because I feel like that stench is gonna stick to me and I will smell that way the rest of the night.


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    Default Re: Private Dances: Do you dance better for “cute” customers?

    If you don’t like old customers, then I guess try to find the non-alcohol serving type of clubs. Not Tampa where a bunch of clubs are juice bars. But in cities where most clubs serve liquor and customers have to be 21+ to enter, and there are 1 or 2 clubs that don’t serve alcohol, usually have younger guys flocking over (because they have no choice but to go to that club). And don’t work a shift before 10pm either if you really want to avoid old guys.

    Example, Golden Dragon in Portland I think like 90%+ of those customers aren’t over the age of of 30. That is the main club I know, because I prefer the alcohol serving clubs myself. But with the vaccine coming through, hopefully things start opening up soon around the country, and trying places that cater to what you want may be fun.

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    Default Re: Private Dances: Do you dance better for “cute” customers?

    Hopefully I didn’t get too off-topic there. Just throwing ideas out there if that’s how you feel and in case you haven’t found a suitable enough club yet. As for the main question, no I don’t alter my dances just because how old somebody is. And I think the dark room and the red lights in a club is very flattering and makes everyone look cuter.

    Have to admit tho, it definitely gives an ego boost when a younger, conventionally attractive guy is dropping $200 or more though from dance stacking. xD

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    I’m there to get paid, not to try making some sort of connection. I don’t care if a customer is cute or not - I care how they spend.
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    If they're smelly or have cigarette breath those get the worst dances. The young guys tend to spend the least. I was embarrassed I saw a review of me on tuscl that said "don't even bother. She only approaches old white guys who are whales." I was kinda embarrassed and switched up my game.

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    Default Re: Private Dances: Do you dance better for “cute” customers?

    I drink most of the time at work and this helps with not being so bothered with anything. I literally just see the money when with customers, doesnt matter to me how they look now if they smell bad I tend to not dance as good and kind of hope they say they dont want another but I wont just deny them unless its a really terrible smell then I would, eff um. Oh and would give them an air dance.. LOL no touching.. I forget most people I even meet in the club, just count the $$ at the end of the night tho.

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    Default Re: Private Dances: Do you dance better for “cute” customers?

    I dance better the more they pay.

    Give me the gross ones who spend fast lol.

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    Default Re: Private Dances: Do you dance better for “cute” customers?

    I only dance better for regulars and new faces in order to make them spend more than they're came to pay and get them hooked, especially the new faces. Usually, I want new faces to be unattractive men and that's where I put my best effort. To convert them to regulars or make them spurge their bank account that one night.

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    Tired. Hoping for another customer tonight. I’m exhausted again

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    Quote Originally Posted by indiegirl View Post
    If they're smelly or have cigarette breath those get the worst dances. The young guys tend to spend the least. I was embarrassed I saw a review of me on tuscl that said "don't even bother. She only approaches old white guys who are whales." I was kinda embarrassed and switched up my game.
    That's great. You know your target market and they're not it. DOn't feel bad, if they are on TUSCL, they are broke losers who don't spend. If they are calling someone else a "whale", they are most definitly not a whale. Guys with money don't leave reviews on an extras hound site, LOL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ava$ View Post
    I drink most of the time at work and this helps with not being so bothered with anything. I literally just see the money when with customers, doesnt matter to me how they look now if they smell bad I tend to not dance as good and kind of hope they say they dont want another but I wont just deny them unless its a really terrible smell then I would, eff um. Oh and would give them an air dance.. LOL no touching.. I forget most people I even meet in the club, just count the $$ at the end of the night tho.
    yep agreed. I always say that if these guys were in a lineup in jail I would not recognize a single one. I’m there for the paper on the sauce. I’ve made better choices due to two duis... but I’m exhausted. Working on exiting the biz. It’s time. Coronavirus has not helped.

    Kinda hilarious I’ve pulled off classes with an A while I’ve been working on booze and marijuana. Obviously that’s not gonna work during nursing school. Back when I wasn’t in this biz I had my father and brother write essays for me or hire people when I was too busy. Not one of my proudest moments.
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    Quote Originally Posted by indiegirl View Post
    yep agreed. I always say that if these guys were in a lineup in jail I would not recognize a single one. I’m there for the paper on the sauce. I’ve made better choices due to two duis... but I’m exhausted. Working on exiting the biz. It’s time. Coronavirus has not helped.

    Kinda hilarious I’ve pulled off classes with an A while I’ve been working on booze and marijuana. Obviously that’s not gonna work during nursing school. Back when I wasn’t in this biz I had my father and brother write essays for me or hire people when I was too busy. Not one of my proudest moments.
    Yea I’m on the same path girl! U will have to pass a drug test but Idk if you’ve ever tried the pee cleansing drinks? They work every time! And I figure i will dance again and still drink but only like once a week I think it’s gonna be too much for me otherwise. I’d totally pay people to get me through nursing school but u actually have to be able to pass that nclex at the end so I’ll actually give it my best and hope that’s enough!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ava$ View Post
    Yea I’m on the same path girl! U will have to pass a drug test but Idk if you’ve ever tried the pee cleansing drinks? They work every time! And I figure i will dance again and still drink but only like once a week I think it’s gonna be too much for me otherwise. I’d totally pay people to get me through nursing school but u actually have to be able to pass that nclex at the end so I’ll actually give it my best and hope that’s enough!
    Yep and you don't want to get sued for malpractice as a nurse if you do something wrong due to lack of experience. Looking forward to doing something and putting in the hard work so I can feel proud of myself for accomplishing it.

    Plan on being stone cold sober if the nursing board accepts me. They'll be putting me on a probational period (allowed to do random drug tests) due to my record and it's not worth losing a nursing license over being reckless.

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    Default Re: Private Dances: Do you dance better for “cute” customers?

    I've always given worse dances to customers i found attractive. I'm not saying i was *attracted* to these people, but i feel like it throws off the power dynamic when you're dancing for someone who is in your league or whatever. I like dancing for ugly guys... it keeps the fantasy real. Does that make any sense? I've had a glass of wine and am a severe lightweight.

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    Just want to add, if newbies are reading this I don’t think drinking is a healthy way to cope with sex work. I’ve only been in this business because I was broke.

    I’ve been arrested twice and let go with a warning because of my behavior drinking at clubs and fired from 5 clubs. I wouldn’t behave like that sober. Management were informed in advance and were done with it. Just a warning that drinking and tolerance catches up with you over time. Wasn’t pretty for me.

    Had one manager help me out and call around to help me get hired when I had no license because the police took it from me as they do. Best to find another method to cope in the biz and not get caught up in the lifestyle.

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    ^^i agree, it’s not a good way to cope, I’ve also been fired/banned from clubs for how I acted when I went too far on drinks, it’s been my unhealthy way of coping, I’ve also been pulled over 3 times, questioned about drinking but I kept my answers so short I wonder if they didn’t know if I was drunk so they let me go, they didn’t have to tho! I’ve done a lot of messed up things dancing while too messed up tho, wish I never started it!!

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    ^^i agree, it’s not a good way to cope, I’ve also been fired/banned from clubs for how I acted when I went too far on drinks, it’s been my unhealthy way of coping, I’ve also been pulled over 3 times, questioned about drinking but I kept my answers so short I wonder if they didn’t know if I was drunk so they let me go, they didn’t have to tho! I’ve done a lot of messed up things dancing while too messed up tho, wish I never started it!!
    wish I left sooner. Totally get it. I had one manager on my side supporting me during my hissy fits. I appreciated his tolerance. I had bills to pay. He was calling around to help me during my crisis lol. Won’t forget it. Had nobody in my circle but texting him at the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ava$ View Post
    ^^i agree, it’s not a good way to cope, I’ve also been fired/banned from clubs for how I acted when I went too far on drinks, it’s been my unhealthy way of coping, I’ve also been pulled over 3 times, questioned about drinking but I kept my answers so short I wonder if they didn’t know if I was drunk so they let me go, they didn’t have to tho! I’ve done a lot of messed up things dancing while too messed up tho, wish I never started it!!
    be careful with that. I walked from numerous officers and my day came right outside the club.
    cost me 10k for the first dui. 3rd is jail. 2nd for me was a full day in court avoiding 60 days. It’s not a joke. Let alone nursing school. I was so butthurt not being allowed to finish firefighter school. Wanted it bad but here we are

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    Quote Originally Posted by indiegirl View Post
    I was embarrassed I saw a review of me on tuscl that said "don't even bother. She only approaches old white guys who are whales." I was kinda embarrassed and switched up my game.
    LOL I also once found a review that was clearly about me. It was like "Looks are 9/10 but not much contact. Doesn't approach a lot of guys so the big game she talks on SW is probably bullshit".

    I found it both flattering and amusing. I also tend to stick to older white guys... but if only approaching a certain subsect of customers gets us the $$ we want, nobody else's opinion matters.

    OP, no, I don't dance better for 'cute' customers. Their money is the same color as everyone else's. The 'better' dances go to whatever customer is in a VIP room & minding his manners.
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    I’ve never bothered to read the TUSCL boards. Curious to see if there are reviews about me… but at the same time, I really don’t give a shit.

    I can’t help but notice the OP never seems to have returned.
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    ^ Depends on where you dance. LA and Phoenix have a LOT of TUSCL reviewers. Stick to certain clubs or areas, you will most likely be under the radar.

    Edit: If the OP isn’t a troll, I want to know where one has danced consistently for four months without shut downs AND can still be picky about sticking with conventionally attractive customers. Texas? Florida? Georgia?
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    Quote Originally Posted by StellaRose View Post
    ^ Depends on where you dance. LA and Phoenix have a LOT of TUSCL reviewers. Stick to certain clubs or areas, you will most likely be under the radar.

    Edit: If the OP isn’t a troll, I want to know where one has danced consistently for four months without shut downs AND can still be picky about sticking with conventionally attractive customers. Texas? Florida? Georgia?
    I've heard Florida is wide open with clubs like we aren't in a pandemic. Who knows?

    I believe it's LA and OC that have bonedin.com as well and they love to review girls on there. I fucking hate being reviewed but in the past it helped/and helps me except for the assholes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    That's great. You know your target market and they're not it. DOn't feel bad, if they are on TUSCL, they are broke losers who don't spend. If they are calling someone else a "whale", they are most definitly not a whale. Guys with money don't leave reviews on an extras hound site, LOL.
    LOL tuscl dudes think $150 is a lot of money to spend at a club. & are appalled if extras aren't offered

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