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    I was alone which has to be less intimidating & tipped a few girls on stage yet no conversation. One of the bouncers told me that the vibe was kind of funky today. The reason why I went in was because I needed a little bit of a perk up & was feeling flirty. This club was cheetahs in Sarasota FL. I forgot that their site stated that the ladies wear pasties which I was kind of like "ugh". I'm a very feminine female if that matters. I know some of the girls probably thought I came in to audition but I was there for about 2 hrs. The waitress who brought me a drink knew that I was there for a show.

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    I would rather drink turpentine and piss on a brushfire than approach female customers.
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    Default Re: Do y'all dislike approaching female customer's?

    As a 15 year veteran, I have never approached a female customer. They are typically really annoying, obnoxious, and disrespectful. Not saying you were, but in general, they are.
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    Of I’m in a situation where I find myself talking to one for whatever reason (typically, they strike up a conversation as I walk past their table), I’ll be cordial for the sake of the club’s atmosphere. But no, I really don’t care to.
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    I'm only nice to the hot ones with gym memberships and fake tits.
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    I don't like them. One manager had a female who was interested in getting a dance from me and I would flat out refuse her every time she came in. I won't even see a customer escorting that is a couple or a female. Not my thing.

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    No, i dont like female customers.

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    I know one time tho, I was working this one place, a couple came in, which I avoided them.

    Another girl didn't tho, & made some good $ from them


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    I don’t give a damn what sex, gender or sexual orientation

    Mf if you payin’ ..... I’m stayin’

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    I never approach female customers since men are our customers. They came to see us.

    With female customers, they usually come with someone, either be another female or a guy. But usually they come with 2 or more females and just drink and eat. I appreciate when they tip me money but at times, it feels awkward when I receive money from them. And uncomfortable to dance for when I get the rare occasion of a lesbian customer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 305gurl View Post
    I never approach female customers since men are our customers. They came to see us.

    With female customers, they usually come with someone, either be another female or a guy. But usually they come with 2 or more females and just drink and eat. I appreciate when they tip me money but at times, it feels awkward when I receive money from them. And uncomfortable to dance for when I get the rare occasion of a lesbian customer.
    True. I went alone though. I don't classify myself as a lesbian, I'm flirty & I love feminine essence however
    as soon as I went in I realized one of the reasons why I hated dancing and it was because a lot of the "girls" are actually very masculine, competitive and attitude-ish I understand that the men & strip club culture can make you do that but I was near the stage with tips waiting for a dance. I'll try oz in clearwater or maybe miami once everything is back to normal ish lol I can't wait to put a pole, lights & a stereo system in my future home!!!
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    Default Re: Do y'all dislike approaching female customer's?

    I have met the odd cool female customers. One of my vanilla friends is one of them. She works in oil and has been to a lot of club's all over with the guys at the office. She makes the guys spend too. She will ask girls to dance for her and guys and she likes to make it rain too. I never approached females myself but have danced for couples. The females were mostly uncomfortable.
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    Default Re: Do y'all dislike approaching female customer's?

    If they have their man with them, sure. A group of girls? I'll be on the opposite side of the club.

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    I treat them like rabid dogs: approach cautiously, apprehend swiftly and neutralize.
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    Politically incorrect statement- female customers in strip clubs are either there to start trouble, or are dykes out wife shopping.

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    I will say if you can work couples, they’ll get an hour here or there. Most of the time though, it’s very hard to get the woman to part with her mans money and she’s usually very jealous. I have a gf who is great with couples. She focuses solely on the woman. She tries to get me to go over to them but I Always decline. If a girl asks me for a dance, I’ll do it but they’re not my sole customer base so they are mash for me to approach if I even approach them at all. Ladies think they can touch and slap your ass- like the rules don’t apply to them. Don’t get me started on the slags who don’t wear panties and have their legs spread wide open, so gross. A lot of times they are super wasted so they can be comfortable even being there. And then they scream woooo instead of you know tipping the stage.

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    Yes they think they can do whatever!. Most club's I worked in the females were rare.
    Ariel I never heard anyone use the word slag\slags in the USA before!. I thought it was a British thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by chanzep View Post
    Yes they think they can do whatever!. Most club's I worked in the females were rare.
    Ariel I never heard anyone use the word slag\slags in the USA before!. I thought it was a British thing.

    Off topic some Brit slang is so awesome us Americans steal it.

    Back on topic, yeah, most female customers get loaded on booze, it leads to a lot of headaches for everyone. Dancers are there to work, not babysit random drunks.

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    I maybe had *one* female customer who I liked and danced for. She was absolutely gorgeous. She herself was a dancer at the Spearmint Rhino in Vegas. She came in with this guy and she kept making him spend money on me. She wanted to take me back to Vegas with her and let me live with her LOL I think she was trying to be my mentor in Vegas or something. She got her guy to spend a lot of money on me. If they are a dancer themselves, I don't mind it so much. They get it.
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    And I'm over here like "fuck you, pay me". No non sense, sorry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chanzep View Post
    Yes they think they can do whatever!. Most club's I worked in the females were rare.
    Ariel I never heard anyone use the word slag\slags in the USA before!. I thought it was a British thing.
    I love the word slag. Slut+hag=slag lol
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    And I'm over here like "fuck you, pay me". No non sense, sorry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    Don’t get me started on the slags who don’t wear panties and have their legs spread wide open, so gross. A lot of times they are super wasted so they can be comfortable even being there. And then they scream woooo instead of you know tipping the stage.
    This. I will stop the dance if I see this. So fucking gross. They are worse than men!!
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    And I'm over here like "fuck you, pay me". No non sense, sorry.

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    OP, it sounds like you were solo and would actually approach the stage and tip when you saw a dancer you liked. Based on this description, you don't sound like the typical nightmare female customer we've all experienced (jealous, sloppy, likely to feel entitled to extras). So, hell yeah, I'd approach you for a dance. Kind of surprised by some of the responses in this thread. I'll leave it at that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    OP, it sounds like you were solo and would actually approach the stage and tip when you saw a dancer you liked. Based on this description, you don't sound like the typical nightmare female customer we've all experienced (jealous, sloppy, likely to feel entitled to extras). So, hell yeah, I'd approach you for a dance. Kind of surprised by some of the responses in this thread. I'll leave it at that.
    I've worked in some dives so I've experienced the absolute worst the female side of humanity has to throw at professionally naked people (violent assault, verbal abuse, buddying up to try to find a drug hookup, etc.) Strippers shouldn't feel beholden to coddle female customers because they feel like having a little adventure in a strip bar.

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    most female customers are shitty but if it's not busy and i was in a good mood i would always talk to them because why not. i've made some GOOD money off women, even annoying looking bachelorette parties because no one else would talk to them.

    to me the stigma is no different than it is with certain races or guys who dress a certain way/don't look or seem like they have money. sterotypes exists for a reason but you should at least talk to people for a little bit to see if maybe they are an exception? idk. i don't expect much myself when i go to clubs as a female because i know how it is but i think it's stupid. i've made it rain on girls and had them scowl at me and refuse to come up to me after and left without getting dances. it's just the way it is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taytum Jae View Post
    I realized one of the reasons why I hated dancing and it was because a lot of the "girls" are actually very masculine, competitive and attitude-ish

    LOL so because no dancers approached you, you started trying to feel better about it by thinking "pfft these aren't real girls anyway, they're too masculine and competitive". I guarantee they all started feeling the judgement coming off you. That is EXACTLY why most of don't bother with female customers.

    Competitive does not equal masculine or "attitude-ish" and there's nothing wrong with being competitive anyway.

    This is going to come off as rude, but I remembered OP's username and sure enough one of her early posts on here was basically all about how she wanted to make the money but not allow 80% of what goes on in most clubs and that she had morals.
    My guess is she couldn't tolerate or hack it as a dancer herself, but is still low-key jealous and wants to be one, hence why she's still going into a club as a customer.
    In all my years of dancing, I've seen maybe 3 women customers who came alone and they were all 100% lesbian (and made it very clear)...
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