Do y'all dislike approaching female customer's?

[chanzep]

I read her old threads ( which I do with a lot of people) I saw her talking about wanting to dance. Did she actually dance ?. I would guess not from what I read.

Anyway the club's are about male customers. Even the odd time I was a customer I always went with guys and made them spend. Girls would ignore me too but thatz how it goes.
The only female customers I really liked were 2 escorts that used to come regularly with a high spender to warm him up they always got V.I.Ps and made him give us loads of money.

[LoveyDovey]

One female customer screamed at me to "get away from her man," when I approached them for a stage tip, another got a dance from me with no underwear on and I stopped the dance right away because I felt so violated. Then there was a female customer who jumped up on the stage WHILE A DANCER WAS IN MID-PERFORMANCE. She got kicked out. Then they give you the stink-eye when they see you kicking ass onstage.
Then another one tried to grab my crotch. Really????
I'm not saying you were obnoxious or rude or anything like that. I am saying that most of us have dealt with a lot of BS from civvy female customers and we are pretty gun-shy to approach them as we have enough to deal with and we don't need the extra drama. Some girls also just don't enjoy dancing for other girls. I never minded, unless you were a grabby Gabby.

[StellaRose]

In my experience, when there are female customers who have good etiquette, I will later find out is/was a dancer, or at least very personally close to somebody who is.

The only exception I know of (female who never was part of the industry) was one woman with her husband who I thought was a cool person. I did a few songs with her and it was pleasant. And that wasn’t the best situation either because when he came back in a week later without her, and got a vip and kept wanting me to kiss him on the mouth while I kept acting dumb and dodging that and telling me stuff like “if you were mine, you wouldn’t have to be in a place like this”—that for me went beyond just merely annoying to extremely uncomfortable and feeling bad in general. I know men can be a certain way but jeez that was too much.

Why can’t it be the catty one who I can get a husband to sneakily go for? So unfair

[tempest666]

I hope long after covid 19 is over civilian vagina will continue to maintain social distancing from our hallowed stomping grounds.

[beha]

I'll approach them when it's slow and I notice they haven't talked to anyone yet. I can count on females will wanting one or two dances for the novelty experience. I don't spend much time with them and I don't count on getting rooms from them.

[Danni]

Just basically what most have said. As a veteran dancer I never, every approach female customers.

[AlenaRoza]

Most dancers normally don’t approach female customers because they’re obnoxious. Not all of them of course, but most I’ve seen think they’re hot shit for being there then act a fool. I’ve approached couples but single females nah, it’s a hassle usually.

[neverendingkneebruises]

They tend to be good weekend stage tippers, but other than that I prefer not to engage. Even if they're not obnoxious or awful, they take more effort/buttering up for less $$ potential. Like nah I want the lone businessman's $500 that I can convince him to spend in a few minutes of talking compared to $30 from a female customer who wanted a novelty dance. But if it's slow and between the cheap regular, the guy who's "just here for a beer" and a couple/female customer I'm probably gonna just shoot my shot with the female customer.

Although I have had a handful of really good female customers that were current/former strippers, camgirls etc.

[SnuffleUffleGrass]

Although I have had a handful of really good female customers that were current/former strippers, camgirls etc.

I'm glad you shared this, this is definitely interesting. I wonder if Cam Girl culture will make women overall less hostile to sex workers.

[theeastcoast757]

Reading these comments make me thankful for the women that work at the club I go to. I’m usually always approached and when I tip they are always come to say thanks but I’m also there to spend money as quick as possible like get a few VIP dances then be on my way because I’m not even supposed to be there in the first place.

[LoveyDovey]

Although I have had a handful of really good female customers that were current/former strippers, camgirls etc.

These are the only female customers I'll deal with because they "get it."

[Heidi_haas]

A female custie seemed to be ignored on my second night in the club, she made it rain on me while I was on stage and it has changed my perception. I also have a close lesbian friend who probably hits the strip club up 3 times a week and she falls in love with strippers. I also like going to clubs on dates, personally, and I make the guy buy time etc so that the girl dances on me and so we tease my date. All that the dancer has to do is dance on me, and that entertains the guy.

[Blasiancutie]

In my experience and because I am woymn loving woymn I love dancing for single woymn that come into the club. I figured if she walked in here alone, seated, she is here for a reason. As for a party of woymn, I will walk past and let them approach me for a dance. Some woymn in a group just want to show out and wish they were dancing. But I don't let it bother me. A group of woymn just like men can be loud and rowdy especially during night shift in my experience, so again I would walk past and let them approach me for a dance. Its an opportunity to get a dance. I have had woymn rub their hands over my thighs and butt but it doesn't bother me as much as men (unless she just completely turns me off) because again, I am attracted to woymn. But yeah, I would always approach a single lady in the club you never know til you ask.

[crystalize]

I was alone which has to be less intimidating & tipped a few girls on stage yet no conversation. One of the bouncers told me that the vibe was kind of funky today. The reason why I went in was because I needed a little bit of a perk up & was feeling flirty. This club was cheetahs in Sarasota FL. I forgot that their site stated that the ladies wear pasties which I was kind of like "ugh". I'm a very feminine female if that matters. I know some of the girls probably thought I came in to audition but I was there for about 2 hrs. The waitress who brought me a drink knew that I was there for a show.

honestly I've worked in strip clubs for 11 years now and that's SUPER odd for a woman to come by herself. I would not have approached you either. it totally looks like you are a hooker trying to pick up customers. actually I am surprised they let you in alone.

[bananaqueen]

I usually make stage show money from girls and then occasionally get a really awesome girl with a stack and wants a lap dance from me. I like those girls but also had some get on the stage while I'm dancing while they're drunk which is just annoying.

[305gurl]

Simply put: Silly rabbit, female strippers is for men! [Insert "Lucky Charms" outro tune]

[LoveyDovey]

honestly I've worked in strip clubs for 11 years now and that's SUPER odd for a woman to come by herself. I would not have approached you either. it totally looks like you are a hooker trying to pick up customers. actually I am surprised they let you in alone.

The only time I ever went in alone was when I was checking out the clubs and researching which one I wanted to work at.

[LoveyDovey]

I usually make stage show money from girls and then occasionally get a really awesome girl with a stack and wants a lap dance from me. I like those girls but also had some get on the stage while I'm dancing while they're drunk which is just annoying.

Hate it when female customers jump on the stage. So fucking rude and disrespectful

[Selina M]

Hate it when female customers jump on the stage. So fucking rude and disrespectful

Girl, my home club's insurance apparently heard about them doing that and said "No way Jose". If a drunk girl climbs up there the bouncers all panic and rush to get her off.
My other club is in a city where you can't even audition without a dancer license, so they tell drunk girls no based on "you must have a license to be on stage".

It's great

[indiegirl]

Hate it when female customers jump on the stage. So fucking rude and disrespectful

This actually happens? Never had it happen to me. It was always a woman with her man or coworkers or girls going as a group.

[LoveyDovey]

This actually happens? Never had it happen to me. It was always a woman with her man or coworkers or girls going as a group.

It happened to my co-worker. I was watching from the audience. A group of women came into Scream and Hoot and Holler and right in the middle of the girls set one of those b****** jumped up on her stage and started dancing on the pole like an idiot. DJ stop the music and yelled at her, telling her that what she was doing was incredibly rude and disrespectful and they should probably get out. I was so glad he did that. They had to leave. Bouncers kick them out.

Selena, that's what happened. The DJ stop the music and yelled at the woman, and a bouncer had to get her down off the stage, telling her that she needs a permit to be up there. So so beyond annoying and rude.

[Taytum Jae]

No einstein. In that post I meant as a dancer not as a female customer my original post was about me going in as a customer but I'm back to dancing & grabbing up all of the money. You're clearly not educated if you think competition/fighting is not a masculine trait.

[Taytum Jae]

I read her old threads ( which I do with a lot of people) I saw her talking about wanting to dance. Did she actually dance ?. I would guess not from what I read.

Anyway the club's are about male customers. Even the odd time I was a customer I always went with guys and made them spend. Girls would ignore me too but thatz how it goes.
The only female customers I really liked were 2 escorts that used to come regularly with a high spender to warm him up they always got V.I.Ps and made him give us loads of money.

Thanks for telling your experience and yes I did go back dancing!

[Taytum Jae]

honestly I've worked in strip clubs for 11 years now and that's SUPER odd for a woman to come by herself. I would not have approached you either. it totally looks like you are a hooker trying to pick up customers. actually I am surprised they let you in alone.

Lmao! I was considering dancing there. I like to check a place out before I try to dance.

[miss.a.p1600]

This actually happens? Never had it happen to me. It was always a woman with her man or coworkers or girls going as a group.

YES!

Those broads get sloppy intoxicated, forget it’s not just a club but a WORKPLACE of professionals, then act like damn “girls gone wild” with no boundaries