So, you friend-zoned her...
...after she assumed you were her Sugar Daddy?
I'm not a girl, but in my experience, you're reading something into it that she isn't writing. Sounds like the hint was "see other gals." Tip: if a gal comes over to hang out, and leaves a t-shirt or earrings or whatever, don't take them back to her! She left them to have an excuse to come over again. *That's* a hint she wants to spend the night.
Discretion is the better part of valor. If she usually arrives home in a regular cab, the neighbors won't think anything of her coming home in a regular cab. Send her home in a Mercedes, regardless of how inconsequential the price difference is to you, it'll be noticed and then the gossip happens.
Because she thinks you're her Sugar Daddy. Own it, and stop confusing her with the friend-zone and gf bs.
Dude, you're creating your own drama. No gal wants to carry your emo baggage like that, regardless of her occupation.
That's taking it too far, IMHO. Don't freeze a gal out for being a sex worker, but don't expect her to warm up to you if that's the context of how you met.
You say this, and back it up with a story that sounds totally *not* healthy? I hate the word "woke" but you may achieve that status once you stop projecting your problems onto the gals you're confusing. Or go total misogynist. There is a happy medium -- Sugar Daddying. Lay out all those financial, sexual, and emotional expectations from the start and nobody's gonna be confused about friend, lover, potential life partner, or whatnot.
So much wrong with that, I don't know where to start. Agree on having an imperfect situation, see where *that* goes. Maybe I couldn't have "bought" my gal out of the life without Covid, but after 16 months we're officially an "item" and I loved it when she spent some of her modeling income to invite *me* out for a 3-day ski date and paid for it all. Apparently she doesn't just see me as her Sugar Daddy, but it took quite a bit of work to get there together, from an improbable beginning.
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