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    Weíll long story short I went out with my friends last night. Had about seven people back gossip got around about this girl and what I have been doing. One are two are good friends and most knew me but all but made fun of my stupidity pretty hard. We have been talking lately about how absolutely retarded all of this is.

    Pretty much need to just cut all of this out of my life. Itís a very bad look for the normal girls in the social circle I am in and itís devolved into judgemental prodding and lecturing twice now when people come back from the club to party.

    It took 7 people I know one of which is my close friend bashing the situation harshly and subsequent talking after to snap out of it. Itís not good to be associated with any of this. Basically the real world version of this thread took place on people piling on. Honestly itís a favor everyone did this..

    Not even going to get into all of the stuff some of you said. Most of it is pretty valid. Societally speaking it wasnít ok and from a spiritual perspective it was self destructive and honestly I remember a time when I was a better person and none of this is it..

    She seems to want to keep going out occasionally fuck and get paid for it and discuss me buying her out of the lifestyle. Itís time to quit while Iím ahead. I told her I want to be friends we can still hangout and that I care about her and if she wants to explore that we can. She acted happy about it but I think itís best we go our own ways. Sometimes itís just easier to be cool about it and I have a feeling both of us agree. This is all textbook retarded stuff.. I got out of a logical and ethical frame of mind and I am going to focus on avoiding all of this. My friends are all very liberal hard partying people but even they are getting on my case now.

    Also on a final note to the post above me.. yeah this was self induced and projecting my problems wasnít good on the girl. All of it looks very emotionally weak on my part no matter what happens next. I need to focus on my friendships my life my work and just hit the reset button. None of this was good. Sheís a good person and I respect what sheís doing but someone said above itís time to focus on getting my shit together and if I want to down the road work on a healthy normal relationship. She just wants to make money and anything I bring to the table will just complicate things (which had to stop) or annoy her. I stand by thinking sheís a good person. She never did anything against me. I fucked it up getting emotional and it wasnít normal sane or productive.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Raziel View Post
    Personally, I wouldn't touch her. How do you know she's using rubbers? Wind up with some kind of Egyptian Crotch Rot that way.
    Well that was a tactless thing to say on a sex worker forum...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Raziel View Post
    Are you dating her? How do you know she's dating you. You have to be dating each other or it's probably not true.

    How on earth do you know she's an extras girl? Did she tell you? That is something I've never heard of.

    Personally, I wouldn't touch her. How do you know she's using rubbers? Wind up with some kind of Egyptian Crotch Rot that way.
    What makes you think that the OP is any less likely to have "Egyptian Crotch Rot," as you put it? Really tactless post, Raziel.

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    I don't think the thread needs to be closed, i think people just need to check their privilege and think for a moment before posting.

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    How do escorts or extras girls know their customers don’t have “Egyptian Crotch Rot”? If a guy is paying for sex he’s most likely hopping from provider to provider.

    Why does the accusation of disease only ever get flung at the girl? Oh yeah, misogyny. Fuck outta here (a SEX WORKER FORUM) with that nonsense.
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    Plus men are MUCH more likely to pass an STD to a woman unknowingly, due to biological differences in our reproductive systems. I learned that in friggin 9th grade yo...

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    Hahaha why does Raziels post remind me of the man who claimed I gave him chlamydia (everything was covered obviously)...and I immediately went to the clinic and it came back negative. He still thought it was me afterwards despite the test results I sent him LOL.

    Him: You know you can give it to someone through oral sex
    Me: Well I clearly don't have it. This is all on you!"

    He continued to blame me regardless. hahaha. He has a bunch of girls he has seen over the months. HMMMMM...for a moment let's think...maybe you were being fucking dirty in bed with other girls? I was the one working not gambling my life away like you in bed.

    *Sigh* some people. Raziel, it's time to chill it out.
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    Very well. I'll delete, though I don't normally do this.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Raziel View Post
    Very well. I'll delete, though I don't normally do this.
    Please don't act like you are doing us a favor. This is a sex workers forum. I don't come here to feel bad about myself. Think before you write.

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    Quote Originally Posted by indiegirl View Post
    Please don't act like you are doing us a favor. This is a sex workers forum. I don't come here to feel bad about myself. Think before you write.
    Right?
    I think we're the ones doing favors by even allowing male members in the first place...

    Edit: I just wanted to add that the correct course of action would have been "I'm sorry, you ladies are right, that was rude and an unfounded accusation. I'll delete it."

    This was more like "I'm not sorry. I just don't like that people are calling me out so I'll remove it."
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    Quote Originally Posted by Raziel View Post
    though I don't normally do this.
    As he says this for the 18th time LOL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    Right?
    I think we're the ones doing favors by even allowing male members in the first place...

    Edit: I just wanted to add that the correct course of action would have been "I'm sorry, you ladies are right, that was rude and an unfounded accusation. I'll delete it."

    This was more like "I'm not sorry. I just don't like that people are calling me out so I'll remove it."
    I didn't want to be too wordy. You Ladies were already mad at me and I didn't want to make it worse. My apologies, again. I will bow out now.
    Last edited by Raziel; 03-01-2021 at 02:38 AM.
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