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    So uk has been in lockdown for a year pretty much and I can’t even express how much I miss dancing not just the money but the dramas and the laughs. Worse of all I suffered a terrible heartbreak right before lockdown and nothing got me over heartache like going to the club making money and flirting. Not to mention wearing sexy outfits and buying new shoes and lingerie sets! I’ve been a dancer since I was 18 and I’m now 27! I just find everything else in life dull and boring those 9-5 jobs seeing the same lame ass repressed people who just go home to watch the telly every night with some crappy Asda bought meal.

    I wanted to move abroad and have a more exciting life but this year but a stop to all my plans...I just don’t know what I can do to bring back the excitement? I tried camming but it just felt like me a lonely girl trying to entertain a lonely man through a screen it was just depressing...I’ve got an onlyfans but it’s getting boring and people are expecting a lot from me to be regularly posting and honestly I’ve run out of ideas.

    I know it’s up to me to create excitement because nobody else is going to do it but it has me thinking...Most people are bland and dry as fuck how do they work there boring jobs day in and day out and how can I avoid the hunumdrum? Do I join a spiritualist hippy community? Is anyone else feeling this way?

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    Hang in there !
    Vaccinations are happening now!

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    I feel this so much. I was on my 5th year dancing, couldn’t return to the club during the few months of reopening because of asthma and not feeling safe. I’ve never been as down as I’ve felt this past year. I really fell in love with dancing. I’m just now coming to terms with the possibility that maybe I can’t be happy with a regular job and a regular life (Was bingeing “Good Girls” on Netflix and definitely connected with being bored to tears with normal life). It’s a lot to think about. I miss feeling like a bad ass. I’m def going to have to innovate and figure something out. I see a few dancers on social media really making things work for them. I’m afraid of taking the online plunge, but if that’s what will truly make me feel like myself again, then I want that.

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    OP, I couldn't help but giggle at some of the things you said in your post. I am so glad that I spent my younger years dancing because it was such a fun way to make money. I just retired last march, a year ago, due to the pandemic. I relate to everything you're saying. Soon we will be vaccinated and we will be able to get back to somewhat normal. I'm spending this time finishing writing my book and finding jobs in Los Angeles as an actor or a production assistant. Once I'm fully vaccinated I'm going to start working there more to alleviate my boredom. My club was actually getting pretty boring so I was ready for a fresh start and a change. Hang in there! Maybe find some creative projects to work on during the interim . It definitely helps pass the time.
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    And I'm over here like "fuck you, pay me". No non sense, sorry.

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    I very much relate. Counting down the days until I get my second vaccine and return to the club.

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    ^ Same! My 2nd shot is today !

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    I feel you, man. I'm in LA, one of the places in LA where clubs have been closed for 12 months and counting now. I'm like can we get it together plz, I wanna go back to the clubbbb

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    I'm working a vanilla job at the moment and haven't dance in little over a year when the pandemic started.

    Like all of you, those who posted here and lurking around, I only miss the adrenaline and the predatory feeling of hunting down a whale or hitting the jackpot.

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    I miss it simply because it’s the one environment where I’ve had women for coworkers and the work wasn’t bland and mundane.
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    Pretty much. Lol I’ve taken a hiatus since I’ve moved, and I’m dying to go back to the club. COVID hasn’t helped with that, but I’m newer to the area, and it’s a lot different than my old city/state. I’m also nervous about what I’m getting into in this new city (Detroit). In the meantime, I’ve been doing research and think I found a club that may be a good fit.

    I did audition at one club before COVID, but only did 2 shifts because it was super slow and I didn’t vibe with the management and atmosphere. Lol but coming back on stripperweb brings back a lot of memories! And I didn’t realize how lame I was that working at the club became my social life lol why not? I was able to socialize and make money at the same time! Lol if I was bored and didn’t have anyone to hang out with that weekend, I’d just pop in the club!

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    i felt like this until i quit working at a super vanilla restaurant job and got hired at a nightclub/cocktail lounge. i realized that a big part of what i was missing (besides money) was the environment. i like that my work is loud, i get to sleep in and work late, theres a dj, i get to wear a tiny dress and feel sexy, it's constantly packed and lively with drunk people etc. lots of similarities. why i crave that... i don't know lol i think after 10 years of dancing i need that excitement or i feel bored and blah. weird because outside of work im a mega introvert
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    Haha I feel the same way!
    I still prefer being a night owl over a day crawler anyday & dancing helped with that. I need a crazy loud late night atmosphere to feel normal even when I'm not working at a club.
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    True, I can feel your words!

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    Is anyone else feeling this way?
    Yeeeees!
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