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    Default Re: In a toxic "relationship" with my neighbor-I want out

    Quote Originally Posted by WonderWoman0642 View Post
    He actually said he blocked me because what I said really bothered him. And he wanted to make sure I wouldn't say it again. And all I said was, "hey I feel like you're not committed to me." Just really petty and it's not the first time he has done that.

    Also, he joked around before that he found my family on facebook. So if I ever stopped talking to him again, he'd know how to get in touch. (I don't use FB). It was really odd because he's never even met them. I'm trying not stress over that but it was odd.
    He's trying to dominate you, and also run a head game.

    What he wants is continual sexual access to you. His dramatics about your work as a cam girl scream of insecurity. Most men would be thrilled to be having sex with a cam girl.

    Lose his number girl.

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    Default Re: In a toxic "relationship" with my neighbor-I want out

    ^ yes! only insecure ones would whine about you camming. Also, about family -I personally think he is a coward and won't dare to contact them to ask about you (especially if he never met them), but if you worry he would do it, if you move out of his reach and sight, maybe it's ok to warn them that a possible creep may contact them to ask about your info/location? If you have good relationships with them ofc.

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    Default Re: In a toxic "relationship" with my neighbor-I want out

    Quote Originally Posted by WonderWoman0642 View Post
    As I'm reading this, I feel more sure of moving forward. I'm actually mad at myself for staying. I just hope I can find a new apartment sooner rather than later.
    Please make this a priority. There is always the possibility he could try to harm you.

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    Default Re: In a toxic "relationship" with my neighbor-I want out

    Also, try your best to keep him from finding out you're moving.

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    Default Re: In a toxic "relationship" with my neighbor-I want out

    Quote Originally Posted by eagle2 View Post
    Please make this a priority. There is always the possibility he could try to harm you.
    ^THIS

    If he gets creepy, feel free to make a police report.

    In my lifetime I've heard it all when it comes to people not moving on acceptably from romantic relationships. Just make sure this guy doesn't try any sad stunts, like vandalizing your property or attacking you.

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    Default Re: In a toxic "relationship" with my neighbor-I want out

    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    ^THIS

    If he gets creepy, feel free to make a police report.

    In my lifetime I've heard it all when it comes to people not moving on acceptably from romantic relationships. Just make sure this guy doesn't try any sad stunts, like vandalizing your property or attacking you.
    I'm keeping that in mind for sure. I've seen a cold side of him. I'm more concerned about him catching me off guard because that's what happened before. We didn't talk for almost a month earlier this year. I went out of town for a few weeks, did my own thing. I came home, he knocked on the door. I ignored him. Then a week goes by. I was having a damn good night. I had a good day on cam, and was shooting clips for my store. He knocks, I ignore him. He knocks again. He didn't yell but I could hear him saying please talk to me. Then it sounded like he dropped something and walked off. So now I'm curious-I open the door and theres a note. And it said he had some big news to share and it was killing him that he couldn't share it. So then he comes back, and that time I answered it. Next thing I know, we are getting back together. I'm so mad at myself for answering that door. Those 3 weeks we didn't talk were the most peace I felt all year. And I was starting to feel like myself again. And it turned out the "big" news was a new job offer that never materialized.

    I just have to keep all of that in mind and focus on forward movement.

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