I guess I'll just stay single

[Kylie8585]

More of a vent. I'm bisexual but mostly have dated men in my life. I started escorting a year ago and figured the chances of finding a guy okay with that is slim so figured I'd be more open to dating girls. Met a girl on a dating site. Told her I escort and that I don't plan on stopping anytime soon. She says she's okay with it and she totally understands people do this line of work given so many poor paying jobs etc.

She really wanted to "be in a relationship" even though I told her I don't plan on stopping from still sleeping with men in my personal life either. Still she was "okay with it".

We've had our share of 3 somes with men but I always felt like she was just doing that for me more. Fast forward to recently she asked if I'd stop sleeping with men outside of work. Told her I don't think that will help us because there are times when I love to be with men who can fill my needs. (I'm into certain fetishes and kinks I won't do with clients).

She's been making smart ass comments for a few weeks now. Finally last week she went on about how I need to stop both or she's leaving. What she doesn't understand is I was tired of her being this way anyway It was fun at first being in a relationship because we had other things in common like shopping, music, daily life stuff.

I guess I'll just be single from both sexes!

[moneybags]

There’s nothing wrong with being single. Relationships are always a negotiation, so don’t make yourself wrong or anyone else wrong. I understand how lonely this profession can be. We all want love though. Get a pet.

[Ginger8585]

Been there done that! It's exhausting being in this business sometimes and getting in a relationship even with another girl! I had a relationship once with another girl I worked with and we had great chemistry. We didn't get upset if one of us slept with other guys. Then she had to move away and it was over We still keep in touch but ever since then it's just to exhausting to try.

[DeathAndTaxes]

Bi erasure is actually very real thing and something I did not know existed before, you probably have a better chance dating other bi girls.

[miss.a.p1600]

I I’m know the feeling.

Being single is less of a headache sometimes because you don’t have to worry about bending to the will of someone else on a daily basis

[Nanny76]

It is perfectly okay to be happily single and enjoy yourself. Infact there's a great benefit to being single, you can avoid all the pitfalls of relationships.

[Kylie8585]

Been there done that! It's exhausting being in this business sometimes and getting in a relationship even with another girl! I had a relationship once with another girl I worked with and we had great chemistry. We didn't get upset if one of us slept with other guys. Then she had to move away and it was over We still keep in touch but ever since then it's just to exhausting to try.

I'd love to find someone I could work with and vibe with great! I feel like if I'm going to keep doing this it would be so much easier to just find somebody very open like myself and doesn't mind the sex part of this lifestyle.

[whirlerz]

Hope you've doing better, OP.

For me, I always feel the pressure of being single during the Holidays

[dinjar]

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[Bahuba]

I had a bi GF and that doesn't make me an expert, I know, but what she said was that people often refuse to truly believe that she or any bi person actually exists, like they're really one or the other and just making up being bi. She said Bi women, because they're "unicorns", are constantly sought out for sex by couples but less seen as able to seriously love unless they "decide" to commit to one side.

[marx dd31]

Maybe this will help you

[305gurl]

You're being complicated for a relationship. In romantic relationships, you can't have both ways while make the other compromise.

Just stick with what you were doing before if maintaining a relationship is too difficult.

[FrankieSkyPrivate]

More of a vent. I'm bisexual but mostly have dated men in my life. I started escorting a year ago and figured the chances of finding a guy okay with that is slim so figured I'd be more open to dating girls. Met a girl on a dating site. Told her I escort and that I don't plan on stopping anytime soon. She says she's okay with it and she totally understands people do this line of work given so many poor paying jobs etc.

She really wanted to "be in a relationship" even though I told her I don't plan on stopping from still sleeping with men in my personal life either. Still she was "okay with it".

We've had our share of 3 somes with men but I always felt like she was just doing that for me more. Fast forward to recently she asked if I'd stop sleeping with men outside of work. Told her I don't think that will help us because there are times when I love to be with men who can fill my needs. (I'm into certain fetishes and kinks I won't do with clients).

She's been making smart ass comments for a few weeks now. Finally last week she went on about how I need to stop both or she's leaving. What she doesn't understand is I was tired of her being this way anyway It was fun at first being in a relationship because we had other things in common like shopping, music, daily life stuff.

I guess I'll just be single from both sexes!

Dont give up on love you will eventually find your special one... I know in your case it might be more complicated for obvious reasons, but there are thousands of people out there who are ok with that

[Raven88]

I am really late to the party but it seems like she gaslighted herself into believing you were in a "relationship" when you really weren't and then got mad that you didn't change your mind as she had hoped.

Granted I am in my 30's and probably one of the more conservative strippers out there but I feel like it should either be a real relationship wherein you both give up other people or truly a NSA type thing where you are clear that things can end at any minute and fidelity in the traditional sense is out of the question.. I have only ever danced but this was the norm for everyone I knew/know from dancing with only a handful of exceptions... it is just too messy otherwise. I feel it's best to focus on either money or love but rarely both.

[Zofia]

I'm a bisexual female and I know just how much discrimination there is until you pick a team. For me, I'm in a committed relationship with my BF and that's good enough for me. Still, I like women. BF is fine with me swinging both ways, which usually benefits him too. (I'm an exhibitionist, so him watching is a turn on. But, that is definitely not everyone's kink. Thankfully he is cool with me having relationships with women outside of our primary coupling. Although right now, other than the occassional swingers parties, we aren't really doing anything outside the relationship. Now with daughter gone to college, we're trying to navigate the whole empty nest thing.

XOXO
Z

[GoddessLilith]

Gotta love peeps who agree to the fact that you're openly a sw'er, say it's all good, then once they start catching feelings and getting comfortable, suddenly it's off the table!

[moneybags]

Gotta love peeps who agree to the fact that you're openly a sw'er, say it's all good, then once they start catching feelings and getting comfortable, suddenly it's off the table!

Everytime! It’s why I don’t do unpaid sex work