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    Question C2C for Dummies???

    I cannot for the life of me figure out how men who turn on their cams without ever having seen or spoke to me expect me to react.
    This is the way virtually ALL my c2C sessions go. They come in out of nowhere and turn on their cams without interacting with me at all.

    No matter what I do/don't do, they leave or, ironically, stay until they leave without saying ty or goodbye.
    They are not interested in giving me a show but instead keep the camera static. Am I supposed to:

    -react with shock as if they are cyber flashing me?
    -ignore them and continue the show?
    -act like the sight of their cocks makes me even more horny?
    -ignore everyone else in my group chat and talk to them
    -ask them questions and interact with them about what they're showing me on their cams?

    Also, no matter what I do, they will NOT take me exclusive for C2C so in group chat, I have multiple people trying to send their cams and demanding my attention. If I don't do what they're demanding, they leave. If I mention that they're in a group chat, they leave!

    Seems like the best course of action for me is to let them put on their C2C and ignore them all.

    If anyone has any better suggestions, I'd love to hear what works for you. I'm beginning to think they're nothing more that modern-day flashers since a lot of them don't stay long enough to be charged. Or maybe I'm just overthinking this.

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    If they turn on cam right away, at the begining of the private, reject it. Ask them what do they want to show and if they wanna speak, so you can prepare your speakers, bla bla bla.
    If they leave, you dodged a bullet anyway.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheAnonymousGal View Post
    If anyone has any better suggestions, I'd love to hear what works for you. I'm beginning to think they're nothing more that modern-day flashers since a lot of them don't stay long enough to be charged. Or maybe I'm just overthinking this.
    If they leave before being billed that's 100% what they're doing, getting off on showing you their junk for free. I don't open anyone's cam until they're being billed.

    Quote Originally Posted by TheAnonymousGal View Post
    Also, no matter what I do, they will NOT take me exclusive for C2C so in group chat, I have multiple people trying to send their cams and demanding my attention. If I don't do what they're demanding, they leave. If I mention that they're in a group chat, they leave!
    I will turn guys' cams on in pvt but if there's other people in there that I'm making more money off of I won't turn the volume on or will straight-up ignore their cam. If they want my undivided attention they need to go exclu.


    Quote Originally Posted by TheAnonymousGal View Post
    No matter what I do/don't do, they leave or, ironically, stay until they leave without saying ty or goodbye.
    They are not interested in giving me a show but instead keep the camera static.
    If a guy just turns his cam on and it's on his junk and he's not saying or typing anything I will try to get him to interact with me, and if that doesn't work and he just keeps doing the same I will just sit there and stare at it blankly until they leave pretty much. I can't perform with absolutely nothing to go off of and I don't have psychic powers so......... You don't communicate, that's what you get.

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    if they turn it on right away the second they are in exclusive or private regardless of the site they have been edging all day or watching porn ect or other ppls rooms
    they are just trying to get you watch them to cum for free or at most 2 minutes if you are lucky.

    if they are asking for a rating or trying to get a reaction, it is so they can record you and upload you to a compilation on a tube site . happens to models all the time.

    this is why i dont accept 99% of c2c.

    fuck them and their stupid cocks.

    always reject the cam a few times if you know they are trying to cum for free, they are stupid and will get charged after __ seconds lol
    just wait until teh c2c count down is like a few seconds remaining .


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    Thanks for confirming what I already (thought I) knew and for all your suggestions. If I'm not already in a show, I continue the show in progress and reject their cams twice and that equals enough time so they have to pay. But usually, these silent, non-interactive members leave after the 2nd rejection which tells me they never intended to pay. And for those who stay, I will continue to ignore them if they're ignoring me and continue the show as if they're not there. The percentage of members who actually interact during c2c is so small and getting smaller! Thanks again! I know this site says I'm a "Newbie" but I started camming full time in 2001 when people actually interacted with each other as the norm--not the exception!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheAnonymousGal View Post
    I started camming full time in 2001 when people actually interacted with each other as the norm--not the exception!
    God, these words just filled me with sorrow. The funny thing that now they barely communicate even if they don't turn their camera on.

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    I find this such an interesting phenomenon. I really feel like its mostly the younger generation that does this and its due to the fact that we, despite being in touch with each other all the time, are the most antisocial generation ever.

    Most of the guys who chat to me and are nice are above 45/50. They are also the ones who are clear about what they want. The younger guys barely talk and the only thing they want is what is 'trending' on pornhub right now. Step sis, dick rating, JOI, you name it. Am I the only one who feels this way?

    I was still a kid in the 90's/early 00s but Ive loved to have lived through these times.

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    I just wait for the timer to near run out, then do the same with their C2C invite down to the last second.
    Waste my time and I'll do the same to you, I am not too concerned with them pushing up my rank by taking me Pvt.
    If I were to let it bother me then my mood would be down when I return to public chat and that will just push other clients away.

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    Ignore it even came on and its on mute
    If they talk and and you have the voice to text google extension, the text will display

    it fucks up the rest of the guys in the room to know someone is talking to you bc they feel left out and then everyone leaves.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AuroraJade View Post
    I really feel like its mostly the younger generation that does this and its due to the fact that we, despite being in touch with each other all the time, are the most antisocial generation ever.

    Most of the guys who chat to me and are nice are above 45/50. They are also the ones who are clear about what they want. The younger guys barely talk and the only thing they want is what is 'trending' on pornhub right now. Step sis, dick rating, JOI, you name it. Am I the only one who feels this way?
    I was just talking to my friend about this yesterday; we were surmising that the reason more and more people are becoming antisocial these days has to do with the fact that we basically get human interaction constantly throughout the day via our phones and the internet. Human interaction is not the exciting event that it used to be. I know I find that I don't miss family and friends and am able to go loooooong stretches without seeing them in person because we have constant contact with each other via our phones and are in constant communication. How can I miss them when they are with me everywhere?

    I do think the digital age is probably responsible for what you're talking about regarding the younger generation and their lack of interaction, but I don't think it's loneliness as much as it is just the short attention spans that the instant gratification the internet and technology has given them.

    Quote Originally Posted by AuroraJade View Post
    I was still a kid in the 90's/early 00s but Ive loved to have lived through these times.
    I tend to think it's overrated LOL. Every generation always thinks the one before it was where it's at. I was a Y2K preteen and teen and I feel really fortunate to have experienced the time before the internet, its birth and the time after it. Because I remember the time before the internet I do not take the internet for granted and would never want to be without it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Genoveve View Post

    I do think the digital age is probably responsible for what you're talking about regarding the younger generation and their lack of interaction, but I don't think it's loneliness as much as it is just the short attention spans that the instant gratification the internet and technology has given them.
    I agree here-- the older guys are the ones who engage in more convo, are more respectful, and actually say goodbye and thank you after a private session. They also spend more quality time in private's and have more money to burn, for the most part, and tend to be more regular in returning for repeat business.

    The younger one's feel really scattered, frantic, demanding, with ungrounded ADD type energy, they dont communicate much, and are in and out in a few minutes (or less) and expect us to "cum bb" in under 2 minutes (smh). I'm ok with them not communicating, at times, because I dont want to waste my energy talking with these dummies, anyway, and do not take it personally--sadly, it's just the way they are nowadays. Just gimme the money, even if it's for a few minutes---it all adds up at the end of the week to where I'm consistently meeting my goals.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wonderland1 View Post
    I'm ok with them not communicating, at times, because I dont want to waste my energy talking with these dummies, anyway, and do not take it personally--sadly, it's just the way they are nowadays. Just gimme the money, even if it's for a few minutes---it all adds up at the end of the week to where I'm consistently meeting my goals.
    Same.

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    I absolutely love when they turn their cams on (but only if they stay a while), because it helps me see what they're up to). However, most of the dicks I've been seeing on cam lately...how shall I put this??

    Let's just say maybe it's time they see a urologist or the nearest proctologist.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dreamqueen View Post
    I absolutely love when they turn their cams on (but only if they stay a while), because it helps me see what they're up to). However, most of the dicks I've been seeing on cam lately...how shall I put this??

    Let's just say maybe it's time they see a urologist or the nearest proctologist.
    LMFAO! No shit- some need to get checked, like, what are those bumps? Ew!

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    Quote Originally Posted by wonderland1 View Post
    I agree here-- the older guys are the ones who engage in more convo, are more respectful, and actually say goodbye and thank you after a private session. They also spend more quality time in private's and have more money to burn, for the most part, and tend to be more regular in returning for repeat business.

    The younger one's feel really scattered, frantic, demanding, with ungrounded ADD type energy, they dont communicate much

    I noticed it too. So very true about young guys. Some of them are chaotic with requests, can start with wanting femdom and end up demanding you to get naked and show pussy

    Older guys (around 40 y.o and older) are more interesting as persons. Maybe they remember the time before internet, and that's why feel more "alive" somehow. Idk.
    But I have some young guys in their 20s that are pretty funny and good spenders, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dreamqueen View Post
    I absolutely love when they turn their cams on (but only if they stay a while), because it helps me see what they're up to). However, most of the dicks I've been seeing on cam lately...how shall I put this??

    Let's just say maybe it's time they see a urologist or the nearest proctologist.
    ...and a new roleplay was just invented

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    Quote Originally Posted by Luci Fer View Post
    I noticed it too. So very true about young guys. Some of them are chaotic with requests, can start with wanting femdom and end up demanding you to get naked and show pussy

    Older guys (around 40 y.o and older) are more interesting as persons. Maybe they remember the time before internet, and that's why feel more "alive" somehow. Idk.
    But I have some young guys in their 20s that are pretty funny and good spenders, too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by wonderland1 View Post
    LMFAO! No shit- some need to get checked, like, what are those bumps? Ew!
    Quote Originally Posted by Luci Fer View Post
    ...and a new roleplay was just invented
    Indeed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BambiCutie View Post
    I just wait for the timer to near run out, then do the same with their C2C invite down to the last second.
    Waste my time and I'll do the same to you, I am not too concerned with them pushing up my rank by taking me Pvt.
    If I were to let it bother me then my mood would be down when I return to public chat and that will just push other clients away.
    literally this, to add to it, do your best, "oh one sec sweetie it's still loading on my end I CAN'T FUCKING WAIT TO SEE YOU "

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