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    Maybe some of you remember a post I put up about my awful boyfriend? Well, stupid me I was trying to work it out with him. Guess what I found out. For our 3 year relationship, he was cheating on me in everyway possible with everything with a pussy. Even had a gf for four months. Then, find out tonight he's been checking my cell messages on his phone. Plus, obessed bouncer guy is still calling me and WON'T LEAVE ME ALONE! He called me tonight asking if he left his licsense in my car. I was like, "Why would your license be in my car?!" I HATE MEN!!!! [cry]
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    Any chance at all that obessed bouncer guy is better than
    cheating bf? Any redeeming qualities at all?

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    Then stop interacting with them. If you ignore them, eventually they leave you alone.

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    Yea I agree with Lena. You can't possibly be to pissed by bouncer guy if you continue to put up with his pestering BS! Have you even taken the time out to speak with management. That should do wonders. Everyone here always recommends finding a club when you are not happy. Why dont you do the same?? Just my opinion though







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    Sorry, Bella. I can't offer you much comfort for the actions of a couple assholes.

    But there's some millions of guys that are nothing like that.

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    Unforetunately, I feel that I work at the best club in san diego. Except for this new bouncer who can't handle his job, the club is great. I guess next time I work i'll have to speak to management. I hope no one reems me about the title of this post. But, I have to let out how I feel right now. I'm so SICK of being cheated on.
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    i hear you on this one bella....

    fellas....let me break this one down for you....and let me also say that i am speaking for myself only....

    if the only experience a woman has had with a man is un-faithfullness....she's not going to like any of them very much....

    whenever i here the words 'not all men are like that'....i can't help but think 'i can't tell'....only these days i choose like to say it out loud....because i want my perception of men to change....which is difficult when the only example i see are the trifling ones....

    hang in there bella....things will get better....hey...how 'bout letting the rest of this year and the '04 be all about you taking care of you...it might work...

    Why do some people still have to fight...to get the same opportunities...that are given to others??...

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    hang in there bella....things will get better....hey...how 'bout letting the rest of this year and the '04 be all about you taking care of you...it might work...

    Excellent advice Topaz.

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    Topaz, I understand. That's human nature. You hear it from men, too, who are "sick of women." They're not sick of women - they're sick of women they've known.

    You do give excellent advice. Ultimately, we can't judge ourselves by those around us. If we live our own lives with integrity, then when things are bad, we need to try to change the things around us in order to make a better environment for ourselves.

    There's no sense in beating ourselves up. We keep our integrity, put the bad times in the past, and move on to better times and take the steps to improve our situations. The most important thing in life is to be happy. Life's too short for anything else.

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    Unforetunately, I feel that I work at the best club in san diego. Except for this new bouncer who can't handle his job, the club is great. I guess next time I work i'll have to speak to management. I hope no one reems me about the title of this post. But, I have to let out how I feel right now. I'm so SICK of being cheated on.
    why is it that most of us guys have to be like that, :-/ hell If I was with a beautyful women like you, I don't think that I could look anyplace else.

    yes I go to clubs but that is because I have no one. if I did I would be more than happy to play at home....


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    There was actually nothing that you've described in the past that would commend the first one . So what could make him deserve a second chance.

    I don't know about the second one. But there may have been a lot of information available to you from other dancers in the club before it even started.

    What kind of guy are you looking for? The type of guy that knocks your socks off. Sometimes those types are knocking other socks off, too. It's what I lovingly refer to as the "exciting asshole". I've had many conversations with dancers (and young women) about this. And when I see a girl going in that direction, I will quietly say "Go for it honey, lots of luck". And a few months later she's back with a story about how it fucked up. Surprise, Surprise.

    Find someone with a medium excitement level who doesn't play with all the women. The whole "challenge" thing is just a trip down heartbreak avenue.

    I'm not saying this applies to YOUR choices, but I see it a lot. If fact, most every hot young woman I have known. Even if you tell them up front.

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    I hate when I go for a good looking guy and he ends up being one of the "bad boys". I've been with the "nice guys" and they all seem to be such pussies that I wear the pants in the relationship... and I really hate that. Exactly like topaz said, I can't tell if there are any good ones out there. Thought I had one once... then he went to the army and cheated on me too! It was a one night stand and he was away for a year so I wanted to work it out... but he wasn't even sorry! He ended up being a selfish bastard just like all my other ex's
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    And I couldn't have known this guy was such a leech since he was brand new. Actually, he's friends with another one of the bouncers and I only heard good things about him... I had no clue... he really creeps me out. And, that's why I put off telling management... he's friends with another one of the bouncers.
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    Hmm...well the good guys are pussies and the bad boys are assholes. Sounds like that only leaves women. :-/

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    Which raises an interesting question - why do so many really attractive women seem to prefer bad boys? I've always been amazed how many sharp women I've known who were hooked up with total losers. Dancers seem to be especially prone to this disease. Any ideas why?
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    Yea, like I was trying to say in my above quote, all the good looking ones who look like they have lives end up to be that way... because they can becuase they're good looking. It's just as hard to find a goodlooking NICE guy as it is to find those same qualities in women. There has to be a balance between nice and bad. Tough enough to be the man and wear the pants, but he can't be nice and weak and let the girl shove him around, that switches the roles.
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    We like the bad boys because the nice guys are boring! There is always something to talk about to your friends when you have a bad boy. Plus with the nice guys there is no challenge, per say. It's the whole women-wanting-to-save-men-from-themselves syndrome. It's long and involved so I won't get into the details.

    I always get this from guys when I tell them how crappy my boyfriends are, "Well if I was with you, I'd NEVER treat you like that, you're so beautiful" or something to that effect. "if I was with you, I'd never cheat on you or I would never break up with you!" Well why don't my boyfriends think that way! [argh] I hate men too! After this last boyfriend, I've decided not to date for a really long time and just concentrate on me for a while, that's when it seems all the really hot guys come out of the woodwork and it gets so hard to resist.

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    I think I made a mistake jumping into this thread. People aren't looking for answers, they're looking to vent, which is perfectly appropriate.

    Good-looking guys are all bad. Only bad boys are exciting. Nice guys are pussies or boring.

    I guess on the other side of things, good-looking girls are probably bad. Bad girls would be exciting. Good girls would be boring.

    Damn... now I have to revamp my view of just about all my friends and family. I live a much more boring life with much more boring people than I would've dreamed.

    Despite the sarcasm of this post, which I do apologize for, I'm generally considered a nice enough guy. I like to rip up pavement on my motorcycle, travel with (or without) my honey, throw and go to parties, cook, dance, play field sports, try to be a good lover. I had no idea that I and my friends who are like me were so boring.

    People just aren't that simply categorized. At least, not accurately.

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    I think I made a mistake jumping into this thread. People aren't looking for answers, they're looking to vent, which is perfectly appropriate.

    Good-looking guys are all bad. Only bad boys are exciting. Nice guys are pussies or boring.

    I guess on the other side of things, good-looking girls are probably bad. Bad girls would be exciting. Good girls would be boring. etc etc

    I saw this thread as a pure vent, so I stayed out of it.

    Venting is good, cathartic and indeed, is needed and necessary from time to time. I just hope when the venting is done, at least a cursory analysis of the circumstances that caused the stress is contemplated.

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    Sorry, PJ-man, I re-edited while you were quoting.

    Your note is much better than mine. That's being analytic, not a kiss-ass. (I wouldn't want to kiss your hairy ass anyway.)

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    Which raises an interesting question - why do so many really attractive women seem to prefer bad boys?
    Seems I've seen this question asked before...hmm...where, oh where, have I seen it?

    Oh, yeah:

    Bing!

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    Sorry Jason didn't mean to lump you into a catagory! Boring isn't exactly what I meant, nice guys seem to lack drama. I'm not going to elaborate anymore because someone might jump down my throat cuz I'm completely wrong for stating my opinion!

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    Ya know what I hate about men? It doesn't matter how cute you are, I could be Pammy Anderson standing next to my man, but as soon as any other semi-cute chic walks in the room he can't take his eyes off her! I don't even think men can control it. You don't see me tripping over myself anytime some stud walks by. Sometimes I wonder why I haven't switched teams already. Who's with me on that one?

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    Mariah, I'm following you on this one. I'm on sabbatical from men. But it seems like it's so much harder to find women.

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    Not all bad boys are really hot, and some nice wimpy guys are very attractive.

    Women want a man who is IN DEMAND! We want that crazy made-up movie romance, but we want to win in the end.

    From a pseudo-scientific viewpoint, "bad boys" have more attractive phermones than the nice guys, they are biologically more fit for reproduction even though we don't think of it this way.

    BUT, I think the winner is: WOMEN LIKE MEN WHO CAN TAKE CONTROL!
    Bad boys tend to be dominant "alpha" males and that appeals to us no matter what Oprah and romance novels tell us to like.

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