I don't know about your particular situation, but sometimes when guys in strip clubs laugh, it has nothing to do with the dancer onstage. I was really self-conscious about that, but then I watched when other girls were dancing--guys come in, order a pitcher of beer and hang out with each other. It's natural for them to laugh and have a good time. It can be really hard to see that guys aren't laughing at you, but if you can just shrug it off and assume they're laughing over some private joke, you'll feel much better about yourself and your dancing.





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