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    Default Re: HOW DO I GET MORE LAP DANCES????

    I don't know about your particular situation, but sometimes when guys in strip clubs laugh, it has nothing to do with the dancer onstage. I was really self-conscious about that, but then I watched when other girls were dancing--guys come in, order a pitcher of beer and hang out with each other. It's natural for them to laugh and have a good time. It can be really hard to see that guys aren't laughing at you, but if you can just shrug it off and assume they're laughing over some private joke, you'll feel much better about yourself and your dancing.

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    That is a good point. You may just be very self-conscious and only THINK they're laughing at you.

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    Default Re: HOW DO I GET MORE LAP DANCES????

    Sophie, an important factor in selling dances is the MOMENTUM and ENERGY of the club. Meaning, how many customers are in there during peak hours?

    How many dancers are you working with?
    Are dances done on the floor where other guys can see them and feel a sense of obligation to buy them because other guys around them are buying dances, or are hardly any guys buying dances?

    How many guys during each song are buying dances from other girls?

    Are other dancers having the same problems as you are selling dances?

    Is the DJ constantly announcing dances?
    Does your club run dance specials or 2/1 dances randomly in order to get the guys perked up to spend money?

    If dances sell as slowly in your club as a can of green beans in a 7-11, you need to find a club where dances are being pushed and where at least 1/2 a dozen guys per song during peak hours are buying them.

    Where you work makes a big difference in how many dances customers buy.

    The problem may not all be you.

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    Smile. Never look bored. Ask their name, and if they say maybe later about getting a dance, walk back by them in a half an hour and use their name. If they catch your eye while you are on stage, give them a coy smile, like the two of you have a secret.

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    I'd have to echo FONDL's and themuses' responses...take an interest in the guy you are dancing for...so many guys complain about the girls who stare off in a "safe place" and do not focus on them!

    --and after skimming the link FBR gave us, guys cannot stand to think they are not THE SHIT...so give 'em a little devotion of your time....BUT, sometimes this is difficult, so guys if your gal is popular BE PATIENT!

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    Two words - "people skills." In most clubs a few girls make most of the money. They're easy to spot because they spend most of their time with their regulars, which is where the steady money comes from. So how do you get a bunch of regulars? Assuming that you have already done all you can to look attractive, the answer is people skills. Good looks gets you the first interview, but it takes good people skills to keep them coming back again and again. They have to enjoy spending time with you. And the only way they will is if you are fun to be with - show genuine interest in them, be a good conversationalist, smile, laugh, have fun. I'm always amazed how many girls will sit down with me and then totally ignore me while they look around the room and give one word answers when I try to strike up a conversation. Ask questions, listen to the answers, ask follow up questions, be willing to share your own opinions. Make eye contact. Flirt a little. Show genuine interest in the customer. It really pays off. And if you don't like meeting new people, get another job.
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