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    I am going on date with guy friday night and we just talked for the first time tonight. He was telling me that the last two girls he dated didn't feel comfortable he came from money. It brought alot of questions up for me. Why would a girl be un cool about a guy having money? I don't have any money. I don't even have a family. Am I supposed to act a certain way? I feel kinda of weird now about this whole thing.
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    I certainly hope your going out to a public place with this guy..How much do you really know about him anyways if you have only known him like 24 hours or so. Seems to me men always use the money thing to bag a girl. Just hope your not that naive. Sorry hun ..I would get his name and walk down to the police station and ask if this person has a criminal record. It's easy and it all public information. Just one quick check before hand might save you a world of crap later. Plus, he can't find out that you did it. Did you meet this guy off the internet?

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    Why would he bring that up right away? Is he trying to brag or compensate for some short-coming? I would think he'd want to keep that info private, to avoid golddigger type girls. Maybe he's full of crap. Just be careful.

    Really I don't know why any girl would have a problem with a guy who has money. That's always a bonus in my book.

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    I think I a going to cancel this whole thing.
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    it bothers me as to why he wold just say that ....i mean a guy with money is not gonna say that he has money....weird...i'd be carefull if i were you
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    Sounds like the customers my girlfriend tells me about. The only thing they can hold a conversation about is by talking about the cars, money, houses they have. My girlfriend is not a materialistic person at all and gets sick of hearing the same BS from every guy that buys a dance. Plus, she knows that 95% are full of sh-t anyway.

    I bet this guy is real shallow and is going to use his money (if he really even has it) as his selling point. A lot of shallow, materialistic girls probably fall for this bait too.

    This guy sounds lame

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    Kinda strange,

    usually a person does not let a "date" know they have lots of money. They don't want a women who will then want him for his money.

    Same for females, bad idea. Some guys get intimidated by females with money, but for a guy with money, they don't (i never heard of it) tell dates they are wealthy.

    Usually if they do, they are liars, and a woman finds out down the road, he's got money due to a good "deal" that just went through, or he wants a woman to belive he is wealthy to get her.

    Strange...

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    I just signed up with match.com. I thought I would try something different. I don't think it working out for though
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    Did he sound interesting besides that money line? You could always meet for coffee, saying that you have to go back to school or work after a cup of java. It's an easy way to meet for 10 minutes and not have to spend hours on a date if you're not feeling him. That's how I would do it if I ever felt compelled to meet someone off the internet. Definitly don't let any strange guys pick you up at your place.

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    Total loser. Dump him.

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    Yea that is just his angle. If you ever notice, people with money, never like to just up and throw it out there. They try to "mix" in with regular society. Stear clear of him sweety...In the future love, I would avoid meeting men from the internet anyway. Be cautious of your surroundings and the people that you meet in strange places.







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    Some girls get weirded out by guys who have money because they constantly wonder if they are acting socially correct or if they will be judged by his friends or family or other people they come into contact with for dating someone from a different socioeconomic class. At times, a girl may feel as if she has to perform to fit in with him or new things that he may have to introduce her to.

    For example, if one goes to the nicest hoity-toityest restaurant in town and one has never been exposed to this type of environment the extreme amount of silver and dish on the table alone is enough to make your head spin if you don't know any better and may put you ill at ease or make you feel inadequate or just damn out of place. Getting through a meal when you have no idea how to eat certain foods or what to use or small things like that can make for a horrible time. A monied guy may be used to all the finer things and a girl may feel uncomfortable sharing his lifestyle with him, even if he treats her as his total equal and explains things you don't understand and teaches you things you don't know or know how to do, when you all engage in social outings or different social settings.

    He may have just been giving you a heads up so you wouldn't feel weird if say you all agreed to meet for drinks and he showed up in a Ferrari or Lamborghini or Porsche even. It wouldn't change who he was, but if you agree to go to a bar during happy hour which is typically casual at best and you agree to this. A girl's casual may be a sexy, but classy mid length dress and when you get there everyone else's idea of casual for happy hour is straight out of the fashion pages, revealing but entirely couture and snotty all around. It may surprise that girl and make her feel like she's inadequate in the environment and may make her think that dealing with this guy is simply too much for her b/c there is too much difference between them and the money is the basis for the majority of these differences.

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    Does he know you're a stripper? I agree it is rather strange he would bring up immediately his financial status. While I've never met anyone from the internet, I'm not convinced you should steer clear of it. You may as well steer clear of meeting random guys in public. Of course, meeeting a friend of a friend is always best in my opinion. But shopping for internet ads is fun! (i guess only if they're real)


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    I had one of those that supposedly "came from money" which it turned out that meant his parents had money, he didn't. Not that I judge a guy by their money but it bothers me when they try to pass themselves off as rich when they aren't. At any rate, money shouldn't have even come up since you two hadn't known each other that long. I would be suspicious also.
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    So if he "came from money" it's not his money.
    If he "came from money" where is the money now?
    If he "came from money" why is he looking for a date on match.com?
    From they way you described him, the words MANIPULATIVE and STAY AWAY come to mind...
    Don't be surprised if he turns out to be a monster...
    Got any police friends? Run a check on this guy. I think you can do it online too...
    Personally, as soon as a guy starts talking about how much money he has, my BS radar comes out.
    Ask him to measure his penis while he's so busy bragging about how great he is. If it's too small, tell him to put that money to some use on something that can REALLY impress you!
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    The fact that you met him through a matchmaking service could explain everything.

    People who go through such services are usually very specific about what they want and don't want in a mate. He probably has had problems in the past with girls who were uncomfortable with him because they came from a lower background or girls who were golddiggers so he decided to be up front in order to try to weed out the ones he wouldn't have a chance with right off the bat.

    You have nothing to lose by meeting him as long as it is in a public place. He will have promise or he won't.

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    Heh, I have known guys who come from money, and the #1 complaint they have is that too many women want to date them just because of the money. I dated one once, and he never outright said he had come from money, but I knew it because of the schools he had gone to, and the way he acted about the whole thing. He was a surgeon and mentioned a couple times how so many interns, med students and hospital staffmembers wanted to date him because of his status, and he hated it. Guys with money don't feel the need to advertise it, and in fact will often try to hide it. They want someone who likes them for them, not their money - unless of course they're only interested in a brief 'good time', in which case they may use the money to get what they want and then move on (usually by paying an escort).

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    Bridgette is 100% correct. If somebody views their "coming from money" as a negetive trait, they can easily hide it. There is this guy who lives near me who owns a large art studio, but he portrays himself as a worker there, dresses like a bum and drives a beat-up old volvo. NOBODY would ever think this guy has money. My point is the guy you are taliking about could easily hide the fact that he "came from money" if he choose to do so... The only one that would ever need to know he was wealthy was his banker. I think him flaunting make me thing either 1) he is full of shit
    2) he is very shallow, has no life and his "coming from money" is all he can use to try to attract females.

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    Some men from money like to advertise because they feel they were born with bragging rights. Very often they will throw it in, especially if they don't have high self-esteem. He could just be a very insecure boy who lives with his parents....you never know.

    I don't see any harm in meeting him for coffee. Try to forget about the rich detail and get to know him for a while. It could be everything, could be nothing...


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