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    I once had 1200 dollars taken from me by another dancer. I was walking to my car and with my purse. A guy came out of his car and snatched my purse from me. It was a dancers boyfriend and she was in the car.
    The manager saw everything that happened and she got canned. I never got my money back so that sucked. I also heard a story from dancer who told someone she had like 10,000 dollars in her apartment for tax reasons. She shared the a locker with the dancer where she kept her house key. I guess the girl knew where she lived and gave the key to a guy. They ram sacked her house returned to club where they gave the key to the dancer where she returned it too it's place. The girl went home find they had took the whole safe of money. She was pretty upsett and they also killed her fish. Don't talk about money and don't let anyone know where you live.
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    Why didnt' you go to the police if you saw her boyfriend rob you girl?! You even had a damn witness. I would also never share a locker with anyone!!







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    I didn't go to the police because in the town I worked for the police hated strippers.
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    That still doesnt' matter love. The law is the law. They can't refuse to help you







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    Damn thats harsh. Yeah, sharing a locker is bad news, and letting skeezy people know were you live is even worse. Some times it's just a skeezy boyfriend controlling the situation, and making this girl hustle in the wrong kind of way to get him what he want's. I had a friend like this, he'd beat the shit out of her if she couldnt come up with way's to get large amounts of money fast. Needless to say we are no longer friends( she ripped me off too), but I do miss her, as she has been one of my best friends since I was two years old.
    Fuck it though, what can you do.
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    Sadly enough, stories like this are way too common in our business. Its also the reason that since I became a dancer, I no longer have any room mates...I've had too many girls I've worked with tell horror stories about their room mates ripping them off!

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    yeah, It has happened to me also, by a girl I used to travel with once in a while and treated like a little sister. Fortunately for me, the amount involved was nowhere near 10 grand - that was HARSH.

    However, the other posters are correct that if she were to report a $10,000 theft, then other questions would be asked such as "where did you earn that money" and "did you pay taxes on that money". Same basic principle applies as with a drug dealer trying to report a theft, unless you are "squeaky clean" yourself, involving the police gives them reason to investigate YOU as well as the person who ripped you off !

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    sorry to hear that happened....i try to be cautious about where i put my money and who is watching me......i never talk about my money with strippers...i always have my honey in front waiting for me or if you drive the bouncers will sometimes fallow you to your car just to see that you get to your car safely.......i guess you could ask a bouncer to see you to your car when you are leaving just o be on the safe side
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    HORRIBLE story, sorry to hear of it! I am really paranoid about this sort of thing, so i never talk(good or bad) about money at work or anywhere--parents made me worry about everyone, they could strike any minute type thinking--works well in this business however. Bear in mind that someone could be "casing" your place out when they come over to visit( luckily in my case, never had much! LOL!) but always be aware of others possible intentions and use caution. Hopefully people will learn from your story brendalee.

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    Yes. Please be careful. At the club I worked at, there were a few people with glass personalities. They made up a 'fun, nice-person-to-be-with' work persona and really, they were thieving, backstabbing liars.

    A girl who was actually the top earner in our club, got thieved of 100pounds when someone went into her stuff in the dressing room. We used to even see food go missing, that was how stupid it would get. I didn't see any reason for it, especially as everyone was earning good money. It just spread suspicion around. Not a good atmosphere to work in.

    I'm sorry that had to happen to you. That girl and her man shouldn't have just got canned, but a can of whoopass! I mean, stealing your purse in view of everyone? For f*cksake. That is totally lame. Well, put it this way, the money won't last but their bad reputation will. Attitudes like that burn bridges fast.
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    Brenda, you should have reported the incident to the police reguardless. If they don't follow up on it, hire a lawyer and bring suit against the city.
    I hope the girl who shared the locker reported her incident to the police and they are working on it.
    If you don't want any of your fellow coworkers becoming suspects, don't share secrets with them.

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    i don't even keep my cash at my house, i have a sfae at my friends house and i trust him cause he is already filthy rich lol plus i have my dogs that take care of me.... nobody is getting past 3 pittbulls. i never reveal where i liv... i don't even have a name on my answeing machine... but i DO HAVE DOGS BARKING ON IT!

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    If I take a purse in with me at the end of the nite everything is in my backpack. I put my cash in my pocket or pin it inside a little bag to my clothing. I never fear getting robbed leaving work, but I'm super cautious about what happens after I pull off of the lot. I know guys watch where strippers go after they leave work and people who are on a money hunt know that stripper usually have cash when they leave. I try to keep my money on my person and hidden in my truck after I leave. If I stop at a store/food place I never pull out a wad and always use my debit card or about $10 in ones when its late so people don't think i have cash on me.

    You are a strong person to let something like that go. I wouldn't walked straight to my truck, got out my buddy and called the police after I stopped shooting at those assholes tires and engine so they couldn't go anywhere.
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    I know that perhaps I should have done something or maybe gone to the police but you have to understand that people like that are unsavy. Do I really want to press charges and have this bitch and her funken crew after me. There really isn't justice system for strippers. The cops just in that town don't really feel for strippers because they believe all the sterotypes. I was just like this bitch is just going to use they money to kill herself faster. She got fired and I learned my lesson Now I wear boots and I stuff my money in my boots. I watch everything around me who is behind and if anyone is following me. I just want to let everyone know beware of wolves in sheeps clothing. Getting robbed I think happens to more strippers than people think. You shouldn't just be careful with strippers but with friends and boyfriends. Money does very weird things to people.
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    There really isn't justice system for strippers.
    well, there's always street justice but it sounds like you recognized a lesson to be learned and have benefitted in the long run from it. I give you mad props.


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    I know guys watch where strippers go after they leave work and people who are on a money hunt know that stripper usually have cash when they leave.
    It wasn't too long ago when I heard of 2 separate incidents of a girl getting followed home after work at least one was robbed in her own driveway with a gun to her head.

    In fact, I think I was being followed not too long ago. yeah, dude was following me I had my friend on the phone he's like 'bring him over here' I squeak ok! luckily it did not get to that point. Bottom line you gotta be aware of your surroundings.


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    If there's prejudice in your town towards strippers from the cops then I guess you did what was best for your situation. What this comes down to for me is I can not afford to take a $1200 loss because of stupid people. I have a strong sense about what I work hard for and I have thieves more than a lot of other things. Also my major problem was that it was someone you knew which meant that any repercussion after taking it to the police would already have a suspect and a motive only making things easier. You could take that $1200 loss or to you the financial loss was balanced out by the possible courses of action that could be taken and you reasoned that in the end it would hurt her more. For me thats just a loss I couldn't take at the hands of someone I knew, however well or not well.
    To me thats like if someone I knew stole something from my house, vandalized my truck, or stole some of my personal property. Some shit I will not just acquiesce to and accept. My money and personal property are high on this list. Some shit I won't stand for. I commend you for being a big enough person to analyze, accept, and then let go of the situation.
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    To me thats like if someone I knew stole something from my house, vandalized my truck, or stole some of my personal property. Some shit I will not just acquiesce to and accept. My money and personal property are high on this list. Some shit I won't stand for. I commend you for being a big enough person to analyze, accept, and then let go of the situation.
    me too. I respect and admire Brendalee's decision. But try as I might, I'm not that righteous. I want the score settled, asap.


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