Jason's comment a few days ago about debating whether lap dances are cheating inspired some lively debate yesterday. Some friends were visiting and the subject of SCs came up.
Bear in mind some of these folks are married (like us) and some are single. I was astounded by the different points of view from the group. Two of the single guys said it was cheating, period. The remainder said they didn't think so. My wife and I were the only two married people who said it was not cheating. We did however qualify that by adding, "as long as both partners know it's going on and nothing is done in secrecy."
We were both pretty well attacked by our married friends. The single guys and women in the group were a bit more flexible.
I'm curious, for the married guys here: Do you tell your spouse you go to the clubs?
I guess I thought it was cheating when I was married to my first wife. She didn't approve of the SCs so I didn't go to them while we were married.
For the dancers: Do you consider the customers who come in wearing a wedding ring to be cheaters? I'm speaking of lap dances only with contact but no extras such as hjs, etc.



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