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    Default never been to a strip club before

    What do I do as a male customer if after requesting a lapdance from a dancer , do you pay before or after she dances ? Also what do I do if say during or after the performance , I should i phrase it as" need to calm down before I can stand up again " ? :o I mean that probably happens every night to the male customers in your club . Should I wear extra large baggy pants just in case ?

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    Default Re: never been to a strip club before

    Some dancers wont even begin until you cough up some cash. They've been ripped off before and have therefore changed their policy to require at least some tip up-front. The highest majority of dancers wont require this, but a few do.

    I think it's more about reading a dancer. You can usually get a "good vibe" from truly good people, and these I like to reward with a full, generous tip up front. The sales pressure and worry is gone for her and if the dancer is the "right stuff," she'll appreciate the respectful gesture and give you wonderful, un-rushed attention.

    This leaves you vulnerable though as a ROB-style dancer will then insist you cough up more inside of a minute or leave without even delivering what you have already more than paid for. If you plan on frequenting the club, consider this a good investment to weed out the girls you want nothing to do with anyways, and proper revenge will follow in the upcoming weeks in the form of them watching you repeat and generously reward the deserving dancers while they are stressing over making their stage/dj fees. Karma is alive in well in the strip club scene.

    After a dance (or dances), again- a "right stuff" dancer whom you've rewarded well will usually be insistant you stick around for a little cuddle time or similar and chat after she's done her routine... provided you are clean, don't have bad BO or breath of course.

    As far as baggy pants go- just wear anything non-abrasive. Denin and jeans are a big no-no as these will cause the dancer to get scrapes/chafing from her routine. Dress well and pick fabrics that are soft and non-abrasive.

    I know a lot of guys will vehemently disagree with these spending methods- they instead like to carrot-and-string along dancers to stretch their spending dollars as far as possible and try to save cash. This is a good tactic when buying a car from a car dealer as the quality of the vehicle is the same regardless of what you payed... but this isnt the case with humans. These are the same guys that seem dumbfounded why the club dancers aren't willing to try-out new or exotic moves on them, give extra special stage attention, go the extra mile with lapdance time, or why they bolt off the moment a song is over.

    Hope this helps! Get out there and have a GREAT time!
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    Default Re: never been to a strip club before

    Whenever I'm in a place I haven't been in before, which is essentially what you're doing, I usually go to the men's room first thing, which gives me a chance to look around a little. Then I sit at the bar or in an out of the way corner for awhile and watch what's going on. Then if I want a private dance I'll select a girl and ask her how it works in this place. She'll usually tell me everything I need to know. Every place is different so it's hard to generalize. It could also help to read the TUSCL reviews of the place before you go.
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