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    Ok yall I have a couple of questions. this may sound stupid. When you say extras what all is the norm. i mean is a HJ a normal extra? Because that seems extreme to me. I mean as extras go what is little extra to big extra? Don't think i'm stupid but giving a BJ???? I am looking for a club but if like a HJ is a small extra? Then i don't know , i mean that is not something i will do Ok i'm going in circles but would you guys explain extras, contact amts ect I mean confused so could someone clear this up so i will know what everything is and don't get in a club that puts me in a bad situation.
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    Default Re: extra's?? new here

    Technically, by definition an extra would be anything that is illegal in your area/locale, and/or not allowed or standard in your club. In a no or low contact club, lap grinding would be an extra. Kissing is always extra. In a no contact club, any contact would be extra. In a contact club, boob sucking, boob grabbing (depending on whether that is standard in dances or not), fingering etc, are extras. Getting a guy to cum in his pants is extra, even if it was only accomplished through clothed grinding. Sexual favors are always extra - HJ, BJ, FS, etc.

    These would be generalizations, and some customers will have a very different view than dancers. You can't pay much attention to what most customers say is or isn't extra - just because they want/expect something doesn't make it any less EXTRA. Some customers would like to think boob sucking and kissing is standard for laps - it is not, unless it is in a club where most or all the girls are doing it. Still, even in those clubs, you could still say those are extras, simply because they are illegal activities between dancers and customers. There is no real norm, because of the wide variances in what goes on between localities and clubs.

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    Thanks brig ! ok now do youjust check out the club to figure out what contact level it is, like go and watch the girls? Also for instance I don't know if you have see diva's on hbo well what would you classify that club as? Also extras are not required no matter what level of contact club you are in are they? OK thanks i really appreciate

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    Default Re: extra's??  new here

    Also extras are not required no matter what level of contact club you are in are they?
    Bridgette did a good job explaining extras, imo. The term extras describes contact that IS NOT allowed at a given club, so by definition, no they can't be required. As for the contact level that IS allowed at a club, yes, you can go in and watch, or talk with management, or maybe even find out by reading reviews on TUSCL or SCL. Or ask about a specific club here, even!

    Good luck.

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    Default Re: extra's??  new here

    I would first check your state and local laws to see what is outright illegal (the authorities make the laws and punish those who break them, not club owners). Then check with your club management to see what the house rules are. But you may notice your club management rountinely tolerates (and in some cases encourages/requires) activities that your local statutes do not. An "extra" is anything that violates either one.

    If a dancer gets fired by the club for doing extras, she won't have a black mark on her criminal record and can always go work at another club. If she gets busted by the police for doing extras, thats another matter entirely.
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