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    ok i have no idea if this subject have been discussed already if so you can just bypass this and show me to the thread...ok i have been reading some post on here and watching the news lately and i also had a customer told me he wanted to be my $ugar daddy no strings attached ...what i wanted to know was how many of you ladies have one?? ...do you think its a good idea or just asking for trouble??...is it all thats its made out to be?? what do you think of girls who have $ugar daddie$??.....men i would also like to hear your views and experiences
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    I have one. He is a recent acquisition lol. He wants to hang out every now and again, and I have worried he'll want more, but I think he really is avoiding the possibility of getting in a bad relationship...i.e. he is a recent divorcee. We usually go out to dinner and maybe drinks. He gives me anywhere from $300-700. Instead of going to a club to hang out with me, he would rather have all my attention. When he comes oin to my club, he;ll give me a hundred or so. I am loving this, but I know I must be careful with his emotions. I would recommend keeping your privacy for safety's sake. Be careful!

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    I don't have one and never will. I am engaged and I know my man wouldn't like it. It's also a safety issue. I think it would be rare to find one with no strings attached -not impossible- just rare.

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    What starts off as "no-strings" may progress as something more meaningful to one of the two involved. Just something to think about incase of future complications etc.

    If it's a customer, I definitely wouldn't even go there.
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    I have a couple of guys that take me out to expensive dinners, give me money, take me shopping... but you have to be careful because sometimes they just want a companion and sometimes they want more. Some guys think sugar daddy=pimp.
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    ohh sorry guys let me clear this up i'm not interested in a sugary daddy my husband is the only sugar daddy i'm interested in....just thought i'd ask seing that some of us have regulars and i know i'm not the only one who have been ask that sort of question...just wanted to know yoour views on that subject
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    What starts off as "no-strings" may progress as something more meaningful to one of the two involved. Just something to think about incase of future complications etc.

    If it's a customer, I definitely wouldn't even go there.
    I guess I wanted to express the other side of this. If the sugar daddy thing does seem to progress to more, girls, just make sure that's what that really is. Because once a guy has been a sugar daddy, it's hard for the girl to ever look at him in reality as something else.

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    Ok, I am pretty unclear on waht you all are talking about. Can somebody give me a general description of the Dancer/Daddy relationship?

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    this might refer to a person/male who is much older (thus the daddy part ) who give her money or takes care of her in return for her companionship...not minding the fact that she might be dating someone else....or somthing like that :-/
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    Sorry, I couldn't be a sugar daddy even if I had the means [nono] Like, don't you girls make enough money to pay your bills and afford a decent lifestyle? One thing is to have an occasional dinner or night on the town with a stripper (for those guys lucky enough to ) another thing is to subsidize a dancer's lifestyle. Heck, some strippers can be my sugar mommas [winky]



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    Thats too funny carlos.

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    Ok, there's a guy that has taken me dinner a few times and shopping a couple of times. He's lonely and enjoys my company. I've repeatedly told him I'm not interested in a romantic relationship with him. Does he believe me? Probably not. Will he eventually grow tired of it when he realizes that there will never be anything romantic between us? Probably so.
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    Ok, there's a guy that has taken me dinner a few times and shopping a couple of times. He's lonely and enjoys my company. I've repeatedly told him I'm not interested in a romantic relationship with him. Does he believe me? Probably not. Will he eventually grow tired of it when he realizes that there will never be anything romantic between us? Probably so.
    Why do you assume a romantic relationship is what is wanted? Just spending time with a lovely lady is an ego boost. That in itself carries over into many other aspects. So even without being romantic, it is fulfilling a desire.
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    Very true happy_camper! I have a male friend who i am not interested in for any sexual activity, and he knows that. He is single, ready to retire in a few years, and has lots of money. We hang out alot, he loves my company he tells me. He does buy me dinner, but i don't want any money from him. He has offered to pay me for time spent with him, because he says i could have gone out and done something else, say with a gf.

    Nice guy, i feel he is trying to buy a fantasy. But....i like him fine. Just will never have that chemistry with him.

    It would be so easy to use him, as he is willing. But i can't, we have a friendship.

    PS a few times he has put me and my daughter up in a very very nice hotel, just to get away by ourselves in a different place for a night. He went home. Rare guy! OH almost forgot...this has been going on for a few years now. NO SEX of any kind.

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    It would be so easy to use him, as he is willing. But i can't, we have a friendship.
    That is GOOD to hear. I think I like you already. The friendship does not have to be the fantasy. It can be just that..a friendship.
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    Pam's a good example of someone who happened to be a stripper but is very much normal and down to earth. Cool.



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    happy_camper:

    I assume that because that's what most guys want. I hope you are right though, the thing that bothers me the most is that he might get hurt.
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    I hope he does not Destiny. If it helps any he does date a few women that i work with at the hospital. But says they just are not his type. We have a good thing going. I am not dating either though. I need time to sort out my feelings after my break up. So we may be doing each other a favour! I hope so.

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    Pamela, you've described almost exactly the relationship I have with an attractive young lady who was a stripper when we met. I'm glad to hear that you are friends. People keep telling me it isn't possible to become friends with a stripper but they're wrong. And as far as the sex thing goes, sure I've fantasized about it but it's not worth destroying our friendship over. Good friends are much harder to come by than sex partners. I'm sure I'd enjoy meeting you.
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    Thanks FONDOL. I value our frienndship very much, and would not want to change anything. Sex does change things. We are great friends, but never any sex. If he meets someone and moves on, i can bet he will remain my friend forever, maybe from a distance, and that is fine.

    Me being highly sexual, it's good to know i don't want or have to have sex with male friends. The ones who respect this, remain my friends.

    PS i don't screw my friends!

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    I don't have one and never will. I am engaged and I know my man wouldn't like it. It's also a safety issue. I think it would be rare to find one with no strings attached -not impossible- just rare.

    i have to agree with KOBI all the way but i am happly married.safety is a big issue [nono]
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    I had one but got rid of him real fast. He was gonna pay for my BA, but changed his mind and started getting an attitude to me. So I said f*** him and gave him the axe! I'll pay for my own damn BA!
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    So strange.

    Obviously I don't have any stripper friends so I don't see this. Is this really common?

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    Sorry, I couldn't be a sugar daddy even if I had the means [nono] Like, don't you girls make enough money to pay your bills and afford a decent lifestyle? One thing is to have an occasional dinner or night on the town with a stripper (for those guys lucky enough to ) another thing is to subsidize a dancer's lifestyle. Heck, some strippers can be my sugar mommas [winky]
    LOL - well I guess I'll tell the lawyer I hired, next time he tries to charge me for services - "sorry, you make enough money, I don't feel like paying you anymore". LOL. I think you might be missing the point - a sugar daddy is paying a girl (whether she's a dancer or not) for her time and companionship, which obviously some guys are willing to do. It's something that's been going on since the beginning of time. It doesn't matter what the girl makes in her other job - he's basically hiring her for a 2nd part time job Kinda like an exclusive escort. Some women who do this don't have any other job - they just have sugar daddies. Of course, alot of women who do this are dancers, just because the environment we work in lends itself to meeting these types of guys.



    Anyway, I think it can be a nice deal for both as long as everybody's clear on the boundaries. I had a sugar daddy very briefly once. It started out just fine, but he got to be a real pain in the ass and I had to cut him off. He had my cell phone number, of course, and started calling everyday. Once he started with that, it progressed really quickly, in a matter of days. Then he started getting drunk and calling, telling me to tell him I loved him. I had told him that my grandparents were coming down for a visit and would be staying in my house, so I wouldn't be available to him for a few days, and he called the day they arrived anyway! He was really drunk, asking me how come I didn't love him, etc. I had to hang up on him and turn my phone off while my grandparents were visiting. After they left, I called him and told him to leave me alone. He knew why.

    I would never try that arrangement again.

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    LOL - well I guess I'll tell the lawyer I hired, next time he tries to charge me for services - "sorry, you make enough money, I don't feel like paying you anymore". LOL.
    Hope you didn't hire your lawyer to fend off your former sugar daddy



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