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    Default Private Dancer/Escort She Wants Me on Her Team....

    Hey ladies. I wanted to see if any of you could possibly help me out with something. I've been wanting to dance for quite sometime. A guy friend of mine knows that I want to dance, so he referred me to a lady friend of his who does private dancing. He told me that he had spoken to her about me, and that she was waiting for my call.

    I call her, and we set up a time to meet. We meet and have lunch together. She tells me about the business that she runs...sounds interesting. She has men that fly her and her girls out all over the country to dance, she and her girls make really good money..stuff like that. But after so many questions..red flags started going up. For example, she told me that they dont have security when they perform. I asked her why, and she told me because she knows the men that she performs for personally, and she's never had any problems with them.

    Then she tells me that she is also an escort. I have no problems with this, because I've thought of doing it as well. But when she told me that her and 3 of the other dancers perform "extras" to the men at these parties I got very uncomfortable. :o She told me not to worry, that most of her dancers dont do "extras" but still.

    I am supposed to be going out with her within the next few hours to watch a show of her and some of her girls. She told me that she will not be dancing tonight, but will be the bartender. She wants me to come so that I can get an idea of whether this is what I want to do or not.

    I already know that private dancing (especially with her) is something I dont want to do. Eventhough she no longer dances in strip clubs..from time to time she still travels and does this. I want to keep in touch with her and dance with her when she travels to different clubs. I dont know anyone else in Cincy who can be of any assistance to me. What would you guys do? I'm really lost and need help on this subject. I dont know if she's worth keeping the acquaintence or not. Please help!!








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    Default Re: Private Dancer/Escort She Wants Me on Her Team

    CK, I am a guy but I would not trust my life and safety to someone I just met, in a strange place, with people you do not know. Especially if people are engaged in an activity which is, in all probabaility, illegal. One of these may be a bad idea, 2 would be dumb, but all of them at the same time is probably crazy.

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    Yikes, sounds a lil' too scary for me. Let me ask you this though, 'can you put a price tag on your life?' If so go for it but I think it would be a bad idea, your too good for that sh$t!!
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    Yea I mean eventhough she does her dirt, she still has alot of contacts as far as in strip clubs. I mean she's going to a club in Lexington, Ky in 2 weeks. She wants me to come with her. I dont know. But your right..dancing with her is sooooo not worth it







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    Follow your gut instinct on this one. I did not even like how i felt while reading your message. They do extras, and she knows every single guy they go too ? Maybe from doing her best on screening them. I don't know.

    But since you have thought about escorting, at least you have a connection to guys.

    Good luck, stay safe.
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    Cinn:

    You can dance without getting hooked up in some escort business..who are using the word "dancing" as a front to make it look legal. You could get bustedor get some nasty disease. It makes it harder for private dancers..including me..they expect me to *uck and *uck them because the other agency does it. Bleck!! I always believed that a girl should start in a "club atmosphere" to learn to handle yourself...before starting as a private dancer. I think working in a club gives a girl a crash course in what dancing is about. It's better than just showing up at a hotel not having a clue what to do, or say to a guy.You can still be a dancer without this chick and her agency.

    Good luck

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    i agree with pamela fallow your gut ...if you are uncomfortable about somthing then don't do it..
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    Default Re: Private Dancer/Escort She Wants Me on Her Team

    I take it that the major reason an association with this woman would be valuable to you is her ability to introduce you at various clubs she travels to / is associated with. Keep in mind that these particular clubs may also be allowing her and other dancers to provide extras on an "incall" basis (i.e. in the club's VIP room) as well as outcall (i.e. hooking up with club customers after hours).

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    I don't care how well she says she "knows" these guys. Reading your post it seems like a very unsafe environment. NEVER do a show in someone's home or hotel room if you do not have someone to be your security or bouncer. NEVER. It's just not a safe thing to do.

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    Default Re: Private Dancer/Escort She Wants Me on Her Team

    Cinn. I would not get involved with people like this. I know some girls who escort for agencies in NYC and the customers get a thorough screening plus security can be arranged. Have you ever seen the movie "Players Club"? If you did then you know that these private dance parties can get way out of control. And don't believe her when she says you won't be dancing your first night just bartending, the guys may see you and 'want' you. This woman sounds like a pimp who just want to make money off of you. Be very careful. Also the best way to get started in this business is to just go to different club on your own without anyone's help. You don't want to 'owe' anybody anything in this business.

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    Well luckily, she was supposed to pick me up last night. She never showed, nor did she call. Trust me I've given all of your words of wisdom some serious thought. She's not worth meeting a second time around, nor cool enuf to travel to different clubs with. Thank you so much.







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    There's no way she can know all of her customers well enough to think there's no need for a bouncer. I had this problem with a "modeling agency" one time. Even escorts and models need security when meeting a stranger!! It can get pretty dangerous.
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    red flags went up and you started to feel uncomfortable. DON'T IGNORE THAT FEELING! I think that's one of the most valuable lessons I've ever learned in life; My gut instinct is right much more often than it is wrong.


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    Yeah Im glad U decided not to go after having too many red flags up. Something could be up and I wasn't comfortable with her activites as well. Hope u will find another reliable source to help u out.


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