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    I was dating this guy and he broke with me two days ago. It was going pretty serious and I was surprized at his sudden feelings. He had told me a week ago his ex was coming into town and he was going to see her. I told him if I could meet her. And now he wanted to break up. I don't see why he would want to breakup over her because she is married.
    I was so angry with him that I told him I never wanted to hear from him. He emails me that he wants me in his life and he still loves me. He wants us to be like bestfriends or something. Now I don't know what to do because everything we did was together. Plus all are my friends totally abonded me because we broke up. So I have no boyfriend or friends. I have just completly involved myself in school and work but I'm terribly unhappy.
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    FUCK HIM..baby he is the one at a loss, not you. It's not your fault that he wanted to go see what was going on with his ex. He knows that she is married..but somehow, for some reason he still has feelings for her. In my opinion, it's better off that it happened now than later.







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    For real girl, you did nothing wrong. Sound's like a case of wanting to eat his cake and have it too. If the friend's you two shared don't understand that then they aren't worth having either.

    Drink a big ol can of self esteem, school and work are your priority's and the rest will come.

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    Exactly. Obviously it was meant to happen like this and it is better that it has happened now, and he is obviously not worth it. It is times like this that you discover who your true friends are. Good luck

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    So he wanted to break up with you in order to hook up with his ex even though she is married? Sounds like an asshole to me. You're better off without him for a few reasons.

    1. He obviously didn't recognize the importance of what he had with you if he would just drop you like that, and you definitely don't want to be stuck with someone who doesn't see how special you are and how much you cared for him. A guy like that is a waste of your time.

    2. If he's trying to hook up with an ex who is married then it shows that he doesn't respect what a marriage stands for. And that tells you that he wasn't a good long-term prospect anyway.

    Also I'd be wary of his wanting to keep you close and be his "bestfriend" because what it seems like he's doing is keeping you close so that if it doesn't work out with his ex then he can just run back to you and expect you to fall right back into his arms. And that's not cool.

    Stay strong. Remember what a great person you are and don't settle for anyone that doesn't give you the respect you deserve. Good Luck.

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    i agree with the other girls ... that is disrespectfull that he went to see his ex what in the past should stay in the past ..therefore his ex should stay an ex and you should not have to hear about her ...i hate it when men say we are just friends ...dont believe it cause when you guys start having problems thats what hes gonna used for his excuse to fuck up ...unfortunately your bf fucked up already by going to see his ex .....kick nis ass to the curb!!!!!
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    Brenda, your ex- bf is going to have to figure out what he wants and who he owes his allegiance to. Until that time , there is no basis to establish a relationship with him. Try finding friends on your own. There's no sense in lamenting over failed relationships.

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