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    I'm kinda embarrased to ask.. last Friday I was dancing for a guy and he came. I wasn't feeling too much on him with my hands.. just my sides, legs and breasts. When I sat on his lap he came on me! I didn't know what to do! He just said oops.

    I've been dancing for 3 years and never had this happen. Ever happen to anyone else? How did you handle it?

    I was so disgusted by his response and how he handled it.. plus it on me! I went through a whole box of baby wipes it looked like

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    Default Re: Guys making a mess

    how did it get all over u, wasnt he wearing pants?

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    oh yes honey it happens... but i usually have some female wipes i got at the store in case of stuff like that ...but it just some guys dont get alot of action so the least little touch from a women it makes them get excited so to speak... when this happens just go in the back and wash off maybe get some sanitzer to keep in your locker along with those wipes and clean off immediately .... but there is nothing you can really do about this it happens all the time ..but if it happens agian just say would you like a minute to collect yourself while i go to the back... it makes that tense moment go away.... HTH

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    omg.. wow i have never had that happen.. thank god..

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    Sadly to say it has happened to me when I first started dancing two years ago. I wasn't even grinding or touching the guy! At the end of the song when I finally worked up the confidence to sit on his lap and lean my head back on his shoulder it was all slimy and wet!!!! He was really embarrassed but acted like nothing happened. I started gagging and snatched the money and the great tip from his hands and swiftly walked back to the bathroom. I thought I was going to throw up [puke]. It was one of the worst experiences ever in dancing!! I jumped in the club shower, scrubbed down, and used that anti- bacterial hand stuff also! It was awful
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    yeah but how much could go through a guys pants? not much, i wouldnt think...

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    i guess it depends on what the guy is wearing and what type of material its made of
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    at this club by my house they make all the girls put an additional cloth over the guys lap...they have these silky clothes that they just rest over the guy so when they are grinding on him, if his pants are denim or some other rough material, it wont hurt the dancers by rubbing against it. i would imagine that it could also help minimize the problem if the guy does "lose his cool" during the dance. maybe suggest that policy at your clubs if you think it's an issue.

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    I had that happen to me recently also. Just a regular dance with an 81 year old man. When I turned around to grind my butt on him a little I noticed it was wet on my thighs. He tried to say it was me and that I was excited! I told him I would know if it was me, I'm not numb down there! Also this guy was strong as an ox and I kept telling him he couldn't touch me downthere, it was a nude club. His response was "Don't you want a little Romance?"

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    Default Re: Guys making a mess

    Unfortunately, AmericanDream, I can tell you that a LOT of it will go through his pants, even jeans, if you are unfortunate enough to sit on it.

    Fortunately, I haven't had this happen to me enough times that I have a protocol for dealing with it. Usually if a guy is getting that excited, I back off.

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    this is why every well-prepared dancer keeps baby wipes in her dance bag. Sticky residue is an occupational hazard at any contact club. The next time it happens, feel free to use the guy's lack of class/self-control as a pretext to extract an extra tip from him!

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    As Melonie said, demand a VERY good tip from him.
    "Since I got you THIS excited, I think I deserve a nice tip!"

    I always ask for a tip after VIP room also, using the same line and they usually do give VERY good tips.

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    OH COURSE HE WAS WEARING PANTS! What kind of question is that. It soaked through his pants.

    Gross.

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    This happens all the time to me. Probably because I work in South East Florida and almost all the clubs are contact clubs. Although when in lived in Philly and worked at "Delilahs", upscale, moderate contact, a customer some how got his, "love juice", on my brand new gown. I couldn't believe it. I barely touched the poor guy. All I kept thinking was, "WOW! I must be pretty good, or else this poor soul hasn't hasn't had any stimulation in years!"

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    OMG. So gross. I'd have to say it's one of the worst things I can imagine happening. [puke] So sorry that it had to happen to you.

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    I find it so interesting how the majority of us dancers find sperm to be "gross". Kinda reminds me of when I was in grade school and would announce to anyone that would listen how icky I thought boys were. Are we as women programmed from childhood to think everything and anything about a male is yucky? snips and snails and puppy dog tails. And why does this line of thinking follow us into adulthood? I'm sooooooo glad I'm not a guy and that I don't have to contend with the opposite sex thinking every sexual thing about myself is vile to the average women. Personally I'm indifferent to sperm. It dosn't gross me out but it also dosn't make me aroused either. This is just something I was thinking about when I was reading this thread.

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    OH COURSE HE WAS WEARING PANTS! What kind of question is that. It soaked through his pants.

    Gross.
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    can- are you crazy? It's actually possible to get PREGNANT if you're grinding on him in skimpy or no clothes and cum soaks through his pants, even easier to get stds, yes if it gets on ur leg and he has a herpes outbreak, you can get sores on your leg.
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    [what] Any girl I've EVER known or stripper that had a strangers cum on them weren't happy about it. It is GROSS. We're All very mature obviously to be in this industry (or I assume most of us are). I couldn't beleive you are so O.K. with that situation. Sure it kind of comes with the job every once in a while but I can't help but to gag just thinking about it. Your really fine with it? I'm sorry but I'd have to agree with Bella21. Think of your health too [shocked]
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    Unfortunately, Bella21 is quite accurate when she states:
    It's actually possible to get PREGNANT if you're grinding on him in skimpy or no clothes and cum soaks through his pants, even easier to get stds, yes if it gets on ur leg and he has a herpes outbreak, you can get sores on your leg.

    In fact, the pores in a lady's skin (especially if she is sweating -- which might well be the case if she is dancing) can absorb the sperm whereby STDs can readily be transmitted -- some STDs more so than others: Herpes and Chlamydia especially can readily be transmitted in this manner.
    And BTW, chlamydia has no external symptoms. Only by testing can you be sure whether or not you have this disease (which, by the way, is now the most common of all STDs).

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    I find it so interesting how the majority of us dancers find sperm to be "gross".
    Yes, I do think a stranger's bodily fluids are gross.
    Personally I'm indifferent to sperm.
    Are you indifferent to urine too?

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    I find it so interesting how the majority of us dancers find sperm to be "gross". Kinda reminds me of when I was in grade school and would announce to anyone that would listen how icky I thought boys were. Are we as women programmed from childhood to think everything and anything about a male is yucky? snips and snails and puppy dog tails. And why does this line of thinking follow us into adulthood? I'm sooooooo glad I'm not a guy and that I don't have to contend with the opposite sex thinking every sexual thing about myself is vile to the average women. Personally I'm indifferent to sperm. It dosn't gross me out but it also dosn't make me aroused either. This is just something I was thinking about when I was reading this thread.
    We are not talking about our boyfriend's, husband's or other loved ones jizz here. I don't think any of us is uptight enough to find that offensive. But a strange person's bodily fluid?!?! Yuck! [puke] Who knows where they've been or what diseases they carry, of course it's gross.

    It's not a matter of 'boys are icky,' it's a matter of possible gonorrhoea cells on my leg.

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    I'm in a two-way contact club and do a little grinding... luckily I have (knock on wood) not had this happen to me so far. I usually can feel whether a guy is arosed and how much... not just his penis but his breath.. is he breathing heavier and/or faster?

    If any of the signs come up.. on the floor I go! To do some floor moves so as to help him calm down. Also, depending on how long he has booked me for and how long we have been doing the dance for will also determine whether I can nick off to the bathroom as a means to help him calm down (even if I don't have a real need to use the bathroom.. just spend two minutes in there).



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    Let me try to explain what I meant to say a little better because I think you all misunderstood my post. I didn't say that I was not concerned about STDs. All I said is that I didn't think Sperm was gross. I don't think sperm itself makes us all grossed out just what it may cause and or what it may be carrying that can be a pretty scary thing but not necessarily gross.

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    I have had that happen occasionally. It happens even in low-contact clubs. Some guys are just trigger happy. I don't dance in a way that would make most guys come, but if I sense a guy getting close, I back off. I don't want it on me.

    Of course there are exceptions - sometimes you just can't tell until it's too late. One dude came at least two times over the course of two songs, and I knew he was getting close I so backed way off, but he still came in the middle of the first song. I wasn't touching him so I didn't get wet, but he was moaning and shaking like crazy. Then he asked for another dance, and he came during that one too! I couldn't believe how easily he shot his load, twice no less, because I was only hovering over him, barely touching his legs with mine! I left after the second song whether he wanted another or not. My friend told me later she danced for him too and his pants were wet as soon as she started to dance so she backed way off, and he did the same with her! I saw that guy getting alot of dances from alot of girls after that - I wondered how many times he came that night.

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