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    i was browsing on www.stripclublist.com
    you know that lists all of the stripclubs in the us and elsewhere and people review them...
    and i happened to notice some nasty comments about me under the comments for my club...
    i did awesome last night... got a lot of compliments...
    sold a bunch of dances...and my self-esteem was really high...now i feel like crap...
    has anyone ever written anything about you
    how do you girls keep your head up?

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    I never noticed any comments about me, though I wish I have
    Heidi, you know better not to take ANYTHING personal. For all you know it could be that creepy guy who wanted your number and never got it off course. : )
    You're a "sexy bitch" and you know it too!!!

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    thanks babe...
    you are a doll... as always...
    we are damn sexy bitches...
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    Don't EVEN worry about it! It was probably some fat ugly guy who couldn't take you home and knew that he NEVER had a chance being with someone as pretty as you!! Keep your chin up sweetie. This industry can be emotionally draining as well as physically.
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    Oh yes, some moron wrote on scl under Divas comments that he got 'fellated' by me after hours and that it was 'worth the Cristal'. LMAO!!! I had an old regular show up last night and he mentioned it. I said I knew about it and we had a good ol' time laughing about it. We dubbed the evening Fellatio Day in reminiscence of another raucous evening we spent in the Champagne Room with his friend and a friend of mine, which we had called Ass Day. Hehehe, inside jokes.

    Don't sweat those stupid comments. Most everyone knows the value of comments left on stripclublist anyway - squat! - as well as the fact that all comments left on sites like that have to be taken with a grain of salt. Just ignore them, and if you have customers mention them, you'll have something to joke about with them.

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    Heidi, I've never heard anyone say anything good about anybody on SCL. Don't worry about it. It's just a bunch of PL's talking shit.

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    thanks so much..
    i don't know what i'd do without you guys...
    big hugs...

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    I had someone say something not-so-nice about me on there once after someone made a compliment. It's weird because you can hear 100 nice things and one stupid, bad thing can throw you off. I hate that.

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    You know what sweetie as long as you feel you are doing a good job then the heck with them! Ththe above comment was probably right on target..it was probably posted by someone who wanted to get way more than a little personal and you didn't play along! Keep up the great job!
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    I certainly get nasty comments time to time but the vast majority are positive. I just examine what the poster has to say, evaluate it's contents, and if it has no merit simply dismiss it as another crack.

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    most od the men on there never has anything nice to say about any club whatsoever ...all the do is complain, complain...when its not "milage" its the cost of the VIP or somthing else its like a bunch of babies on there crying cause their momies did'nt feed them yet!!...what i'm basically saying is most of the girls here are right i dont think you should ever take anything they say seriously dont let them get to you ..
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    You should view it as a sign that you are doing your job well. It means that you are important enough for someone to spend time thinking about and frustrating themself out of jealousy or anger and for them to take time out of their nonexistent life and find a way to make someone else think less of you. You are SPECIAL, SPECIAL, SPECIAL! Whenever people talk about me and I know there is nothing wrong with how I look or what I have on I look at em dead on and they always look away. They are cowards,same as people who can't say what they mean but choose an anonymous electronic form of attempting to degrade you and your image. The people on the message board may even be girls you work with or a disgruntled customer trying to upset or hurt you. Take it as a sign to keep hustling and making that money.
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    Another thing to think about is that not only customers post on SCL, but some of your coworkers do as well. So, in all actuality the mean comments may have came from someone who is just simply jealous of you.
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    Heidi, I went to SCL and checked it out. And honey there were only 2 bad comments about you, see nothing that bad either. And most of the people were just talking shit on those posts anyways, so it wasn't just you who was targeted. Don't give it a second thought. Let me quote a guy on there who did like you, word for word he said, "Anybody seen this new girl Heidi? In three words or less...Baby. Got. Back. Damn, just...damn" There are gonna be some guys who don't like us, we can't please all of them. Screw em. For every guy who doesn't like you, there are a hundred more to take there place.

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    Heidi,the guys that post on scl are the looser ones with no life,not the ones that spend money,dont worry about it.

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    omg i just read the aj's one just to see if anything was written about me.... omg someone actually did.. they said i was pretty!

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    We dubbed the evening Fellatio Day in reminiscence of another raucous evening we spent in the Champagne Room with his friend and a friend of mine, which we had called Ass Day.
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    i was browsing on www.stripclublist.com
    you know that lists all of the stripclubs in the us and elsewhere and people review them...
    and i happened to notice some nasty comments about me under the comments for my club...
    i did awesome last night... got a lot of compliments...
    sold a bunch of dances...and my self-esteem was really high...now i feel like crap...
    has anyone ever written anything about you
    how do you girls keep your head up?

    xoxo
    heidi
    Try keeping this in a certain perspective. Like any anonymous medium, people will say anything they like, and the social constraints of their inherent maliciousness have been removed. Their opinions are not based on anything factual, only on the baseness of their character. Thus, it should be discounted entirely. Some people are so self important that they feel compelled to criticize anything and everything that does not meet up to their stringent criteria. In the real world they would be told to shut up, and rightly so. In the cyber world, they can express their warped view with impunity. If you know and believe right away that it is indeed a warped view, then their words are rendered powerless.

    You can also look at it this way. Rather that worry about the remarks of a few, think about the satisfaction of all those who you gave dances to. Lets say in a week you danced for 100 customers. You look on that website, and you see two nasty comments. That potentially means 98 customers were very happy with you, and two weren’t. Focus on the majority, and ignore the infinitesimally small minority of whiners.

    Hope this helps. Good Luck ;)

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    Heidi, I went to SCL and checked it out. And honey there were only 2 bad comments about you, see nothing that bad either. And most of the people were just talking shit on those posts anyways, so it wasn't just you who was targeted. Don't give it a second thought. Let me quote a guy on there who did like you, word for word he said, "Anybody seen this new girl Heidi? In three words or less...Baby. Got. Back. Damn, just...damn" There are gonna be some guys who don't like us, we can't please all of them. Screw em. For every guy who doesn't like you, there are a hundred more to take there place.

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    P.S.- You got us and we love you. ;)
    haha... thanks... that's funny i didn't even notice that one... it's funny how we often overlook the positive...

    thanks again everyone... i'd prolly be in the looney bin without ya... ;) *muah*

    xoxo
    heidi ;)
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    Oh God, I hate SCL. All those threads are ever about is which dancers supposedly do coke, which dancers supposedly give BJs, which girls are fighting, guys inquiring about who gives the most mileage, and guys bragging about the mileage they probably didn't get.

    Some guy wrote something about me once that was untrue and yes, it was annoying. He said something about me grinding him nude (I work at a topless club) among other things that his delusional mind thought happened. I saw the post and remembered the guy by his name and he was so drunk that night he didn't know what was going on.

    Most of these guys that post on SCL are worthless. Don't take it to heart.
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    Douche bags. Guys who make mean comments are just douche bags. Seriously though... F 'em.

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    Them guys who make nasty comments about you are ones who couldn't score. So, they decide to make nasty comments about them. F*** them!!
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    You should view it as a sign that you are doing your job well. It means that you are important enough for someone to spend time thinking about and frustrating themself out of jealousy or anger and for them to take time out of their nonexistent life and find a way to make someone else think less of you.
    I so agree ! It probably is some dude you turned down for a date or extras. If it affected you so though maybe you shouldn't read reviews for your club. What you don't read can't hurt your feelings. Keep you head up and you mind on the money babe.

    Warm Wishes!

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    oh heidi, dont even sweat it. dont waste your time w/ SCL. F*CK the haters!!! i'm sure u are beautiful

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    Another thing to think about is that not only customers post on SCL, but some of your coworkers do as well. So, in all actuality the mean comments may have came from someone who is just simply jealous of you.
    I second this and this is most likely what happened. I don't know what exactly was written, but strip club afficianados don't typically write really mean, rude things; They tend to be matter-of-fact. It's the coworkers who are dishing the dirt.


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