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    I am quite good at the domination theme at the club I work in and LOVE :o to flog the bottoms of the customers (especially the young, cocky ones and the women with enough machismo to confront the mistress). I try to keep it fun and not too twisted because we don't have a seperate lap dance area and most of the floggings are done either on stage, near the stage during my show or in the midst of the crowd on the floor. I would like to incorporate more interesting twists to my show such as making the customers beg, perform tasks, etc., but I am at a loss for ideas. Please help me to make my shows totally off the hook. Any input is deeply appreciated from both dancers and customers. Thanks so much.

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    [devil] Domination ideas, huh?
    • Have the customer hold a dollar or two in his mouth, then make him crawl on all fours to you and put it in your garter, or drop it on the ground at your feet like a good little doggie.
    • Have them ask you nicely for any and all dances (i.e. "please Mistress may I buy a dance from you?")
    • Make the customer pay to kiss your foot.
    • Use a g-string to tie his hands behind his back, then show off your breasts right by his face while taunting him: "oh if only your hands were free...you could touch these...poor baby."
    • Strip down only part way. Tell everyone you'll only go the rest of the way after they've begged you enough.
    • Lift a leg up and rest your shoe against his crotch. Ask for a tip. Gently apply pressure, and very sweetly ask for a bigger tip.
    • Bend over and tell him to kiss your ass. When he leans in to do so, move away and push him back. Tell him he hasn't earned the right yet.
    • Ask if any guys with a big ***k would like to join you on stage. Once you have your cocky volunteer, pretend to 'check it out' for yourself, then send him away (insert derisive comment here).
    • Toss an article of clothing off stage into the club somewhere, make a guy 'fetch it' without using his hands and return it to you. Reward with spanking.
    • Use a collar and leash to parade a guy around the club, stopping at each dancer and asking if your 'pet' can bring them anything.
    • Have the DJ refer to you as Mistress when introducing you, correct anyone who forgets to sternly, and loudly.
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    Okay, I know I'm a little naive, but does stuff like lestat described actually go on in regular strip clubs? The closest thing I've seen to anything like that was when a girl got a collar and leash and let the guy lead her off for some lap dances. I guess I"ve led a sheltered life.
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    Lestat, nice imagination! But you know as well as I, that kind of stuff does not go on inside a stripclub.

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    Helloooo!!! This type of "stuff" most certainly does go on at regular strip clubs. You just have to have the right attitude and outfit, props, etc., to do it. I do this quite often everywhere that I have worked, which is quite a few places. Ask me anything. Lestat----GREAT ideas and answer. I would like to chat with you sometime about this.

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    I do many forms of Dom in real life and phone, but for "me' being a Dominatrix inside a strip club does not seem to work very well. You simply limit yourself to "only" that type of custmomer if you dress the part, and come across as to "hard, " alot of guys want fun and sex! Not Dom. It may look great as a stage show, and the guys who are attracted to the look will tip well, but working the floor as a Dom, has many limits. Being a Dom kinda dancer inside the club comes across as rather "my way or the highway' meaning i want your money, NOW, do it, give it to me. Guys in clubs don't work that way.

    Unless you are asked to perform this type of service inside the club by a paying customer, you greatly limit your self.

    It's too pushy and "money hungry looking" for most i believe.

    Guys looking for this type of play for money, go to a dominatrix.

    You can do a good show, make some money, but alot of customers just wont seem too interested, they want a sexy hot flirty female, not a demanding bitch.

    That is meant in "good words" that is what you may come across as.

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    lestat1 GREAT IDEAS!!! I loved every one of them!! I agree that this CAN happen in a strip club. DemonJasmine is right though, make sure you have all the props so it works well with any type of crowd and people get the point. I think really any kind of man may be a little interested in this area assuming not too many house wifes do this kind of stuff. I think it would really work well with the young crowd nut that may be less money. But in a DOM outfit you'll have everyone's attention which will result in more money!! [bong] hehe I had to use that smiley, it makes me giggle...
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    As a customer, maybe I am an old fuddy duddy, but when I go to a go-go bar/stripclub, I want to see girls dancing. It can be on stage or on my lap, but I want dancing. If I want to see dom shit, I would go to that type of place. That type of stuff would not go over very well at the bars I go to.

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    Wow, I've never seen anyone do that! Customers request it during dances but not out on the floor! I had a guy who loved it when I choked him and shoved him around a bit... took all my strength... big guy,
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    TO MONEY---- I just want to clear something up. I am an excellent dancer. I really enjoy myself onstage and get totally into the music. I am very creative and always incorporate this into every set that I have on any given day. I have been dancing off and on for 11 years and am always looking for ways to keep myself as well as the customers interested and having fun. There are days where I am so full of inner turmoil that I do come across as "hard" as you put it, Pamela, but 99% of the time, I am having so much fun that the whole crowd gets into it. I have never seen more crowd participation in the little, Iowegian club that I work in than when I go onstage and the mood is right for the domination theme. If it does not go over well, then I go in back and change into something else. That is the true beauty of our jobs, we can be whoever we want to be as many times a night as we care to. Nurse one minute, patriotic American girl the next. I never come across as a "give me money now, demanding bitch" but you don't know me, so I can see how it would be easy to make that assumption. I view my job as my own personal entrance into the "fantasyland" that all customers go there to be a part of . I love it. Thanks everyone for all your input and I hope to become a valued member of this board in the future..

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    I've been wondering myself how much of my dom self I could bring into a strip club (if I ever build up enough courage to dance at a club that is). It might be tricky since I would continue wokring at my dungeon in the same city.

    As for an idea, why not take the bachelor or whomever as a slave on stage. Tell him to sit and stay. Dance. Once there are a few tips out make him crawl to bring them to you. If he went too slow, put the tip on the other end of the stage on follow him with the flogger to get. If he got it quickly, strip something off. This is good because you're only taking things off for each tip, so if the tips run out and you're not done, take it out on him. Or maybe make him go around asking for your tips.

    I of course don't know if this is something good for a club or not. Just my imagination on the spot.

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    As for Bella21's post, I had this guy that would come in and ask me to step on his sack (through his slacks) in my 6 inch stilletos. Weird... ???
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    I gotta get out more.
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    Setting the right mood with the proper accessories is a good idea, too, check out http://all-things-sexy.com
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    A good dom idea:

    1. Get the guy up on stage and flirt with him wickedly so he thinks he's 'in there'

    2. push him against the pole, with the look in your eyes that he's gonna get lucky and start unbuckling his belt

    3. Take his belt and tie his hands around the pole (*he he*...he didn't see that one coming!)

    4. Leaves room to the imagination what you want to do with him! When I did stags, we'd undo his shirt and write demeaning things on him with make-up and cover him in cream and stuff like that but as you're a dom, you may want to be bit more naughty...!!!

    Good luck!


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    humiliate him by making him pay another dancer to kiss her feet.
    have him beg you to whip him with a group of dancers standing around.
    Buy a cock ring with studs on the inside. Make him rent it from You and put it on in the mens room. Get him hard so the studs start really bothering him.
    Small nipple clamps will get his attention - especially if you get him excited after they are put on.

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